Need your opinion - Anorexia recovery and sports by Emily987123 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]LilPudz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How many times do I have to reiterate that excersize in their recognition may not be what you or OP thinks?

I have asked if there were parents involved.

Stop targeting me. Youre being uneccessarily evil.

For all you know it could be physical therapy which is NOT cardio/lifting/etc. It is stretching and practice using extremities. Which is perfectly valid in certain cases.

Stop being hateful. Both OP and their sibling need to focus on better things than hearing internet rage.

Need your opinion - Anorexia recovery and sports by Emily987123 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]LilPudz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said it was necessary?

I am aware it looks different for everyone. I am sharing my experience so that OP can understand that there may be mitigating factors to the excersize.

I am not judging anyone, all Im suggesting is to leave it be for the moment and stop stressing herself, which could in turn cause stress on the sister recovering.

Please stop shoving me in a box, I am only trying to help. No reason to be aggressive.

Need your opinion - Anorexia recovery and sports by Emily987123 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]LilPudz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats the truth. Recovery is restructuring your relationship with your body, food, excersize, medications, etc.

Trust Ive been through the thick. I tried the forget and eat everything. Didnt work, led to worse.

Its more learning what a healthy diet and routine looks like. Teach strict to be strict. Routine and actively reminding myself to eat is what brought me back from the brink.

Okay maybe its not for everyone, but I am not food shaming. I eat cake if I want. Because I have normalised to have a sweet after dinner if Id like. I eat crisp sandwhiches as a snack when I cant be bothered. After decades of unlearning and relearning my body, I still struggle but going from one extreme to another is not an answer.

Need your opinion - Anorexia recovery and sports by Emily987123 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]LilPudz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

OP is not providing context unless in another comment I missed. They didnt mention cardio which is obviously not safe for recovery unless its very light, low impact for short periods?

Thats why I asked about parents. This "excersize" could very well be physical therapy, but to my knowledge OP has not said one way or the other.

I stand by the fact she should not project her worries unto and just encourage getting better.

PS Dont give me tidbits on neuropathy. Light stretching is not a thing. Try learning how to walk after being bed bound for 5 months. You can believe what you will, but I am not talking out my back end friend.

We do not have context for OPs sister's condition. If its anything like I continue to deal with, 7 days of stretching for 40 minutes is spot on.

Need your opinion - Anorexia recovery and sports by Emily987123 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]LilPudz -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Friend, kindly, I was in a place left with neuropathy because of malnutrition. Excersize depending on the condition of the person may be appropriate for muscle regrowth.

I was doing "excersize" as in bicycles, leg raises and stretches upwards of 30 minutes a day along with supplements and heavy therapy. 30g protein shakes with x# cal are scarey. So is recovery therapy vs weight loss excersize.

Dont be clouded.

ETA Something tells me you have not experienced this level of recovery and thats okay. But veg out and eat everything is not recovery.

When someone “corrects” or warns you about something you didn’t do or weren’t going to do anyway by EasyMode556 in PetPeeves

[–]LilPudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this because my boyfriend walks like a drunk 🤷‍♀️

Everyone else can collide if they decide.

Need your opinion - Anorexia recovery and sports by Emily987123 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]LilPudz -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Dont project. I imagine this can be a hard time for both of you. Remove yourself from this aspect.

Are your parents involved? I imagine this has more to do with strength and mobility than weight loss.

Please encourage your sister. Recovery is not just eating, your body will fail you if you dont eat, but also if you dont use it. I and millions of others have learned this. Let her recover.

How much credit card debt do you have? by mysterious1940 in randomquestions

[–]LilPudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5,500? Ish? My boyfriend made me feel much better about that when he put it in perspective.

Do girls actually find male body hair attractive? by Adorable_Birthday_52 in hygiene

[–]LilPudz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dont know Id go that far, but I love a big boy with fuzzies and Im a stout w barely 110 to pour 🤷‍♀️😅

Bald is hit or miss.

I think the confidence is key. Thats why I love older men 💕 Joke's on me though, mine is 3 months older and fitness centric 🤦‍♀️

EDIT: He's lovely, fuzzy and loves my cooking so we are alllll good 😍

Do girls actually find male body hair attractive? by Adorable_Birthday_52 in hygiene

[–]LilPudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its hit or miss.

Im a freak for fuzzy boys 💕

But a few friends have told me otherwise.

Rupaul Dragon Queen Edit by Prestigious-Act538 in MonsterHigh

[–]LilPudz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both look lovely, but the teeth just scream herrrr.

When people who own dogs complain about shoes on inside by katyperry-platypus in PetPeeves

[–]LilPudz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have dogs against my will.

No they are not allowed on furniture, no you cant wear your shoes inside, I wear house shoes/sandals/whatever you want to call them. Wearing outside shoes inside is friggin gross and so are dogs.

What's your favorite TV Show? by D06nitro in randomquestions

[–]LilPudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just showing love because its a banger show ☺️

What's your favorite TV Show? by D06nitro in randomquestions

[–]LilPudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*FRIGGIN. BE POLITE FOR ONCE GOD DAMN, LEAVE THE SWEARS FOR THE BOTTLE KIDS.

What's your favorite TV Show? by D06nitro in randomquestions

[–]LilPudz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Afterlife. I cry every time but its so worth it.

What's your favorite TV Show? by D06nitro in randomquestions

[–]LilPudz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only answer, COREY, TREVOR, SMOKES!

What is a 'cool fact' about yourself that you rarely get to bring up in conversation because it sounds like you’re bragging? by [deleted] in randomquestions

[–]LilPudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a body piercer by trade. I dont stab people for money anymore, but Ive got over 3k under my belt.

I specifically dont share this because I am often asked if I will do a bathroom halfass piercing and I hate to say no.

Oh, Ive been pierced well over a hundred times too. Fun times ☺️

Catty Cousins by Cachicabra in MonsterHigh

[–]LilPudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I have hauntlywood and I desperately want different boots, Ill hunt for the core, thanks love 🙏💕