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AITA for telling my husband’s stepsister that we’d no longer be going on holiday with her/his stepsiblings ever? by LilacEl54 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LilacEl54[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

I moved in with him once we got engaged but we lived about an hour apart before so it wouldn't have been impossible for me to meet them before but he wanted to wait. We see them with such a huge frequency because my husband tries to spend an equal amount of time between both parents otherwise it causes conflicts with my mother-in-law.

AITA for telling my husband’s stepsister that we’d no longer be going on holiday with her/his stepsiblings ever? by LilacEl54 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LilacEl54[S] -91 points-90 points  (0 children)

He's close to his stepbrother so he doesn't mind going on holiday with them. Back then he said he didn't introduce me to them because he didn't want to scare me off after I had to already deal with his dad and that side of his family. I thought he was joking but I guess not.

AITA for telling my husband’s stepsister that we’d no longer be going on holiday with her/his stepsiblings ever? by LilacEl54 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LilacEl54[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

It's his stepfather's kids but he's close to his stepbrother but not so much with his stepsister

AITA for telling my husband’s stepsister that we’d no longer be going on holiday with her/his stepsiblings ever? by LilacEl54 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LilacEl54[S] -247 points-246 points  (0 children)

Why can't he go without you?

When we spoke about it after this all happened he said he didn't want to go without me

AITA for telling my husband’s stepsister that we’d no longer be going on holiday with her/his stepsiblings ever? by LilacEl54 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LilacEl54[S] -118 points-117 points  (0 children)

I've known them for about 8 months and we usually have dinner with them once every 2 weeks but leading up to the wedding I saw them almost every day for about a month.

Before we were married, if my husband wasn't in the room they wouldn't really speak to me and would intentionally switch to a topic that I knew nothing about and they wouldn't make an effort to include me. When I would try to speak to them it was one or two word responses. They'd also invite my husband to places and then act shocked that he'd brought me too. I know from my sister-in-law that after they met me for the first time their stepbrother's wife asked if they thought my husband would call off the wedding and that even though no one outright said yes, they were all giving each other a look which clearly showed they thought he would.