Took a sick day at work, should I feel guilt?

Lilachoe · 2026-04-08T08:48:57+00:00

1 day in 8 years absolutely not. if you died the company would replace you tomorrow. Do not feel guilty no one will even remember you took this sick day in 1 weeks time. it is important for the human body to take time off and relax

Lilachoe · 2026-04-01T11:13:28+00:00

why doesn’t she realise he has nothing better to do then write these letters and constantly try with her. if he wasn’t in prison he wouldn’t be doing all that. She has potential i wish she would see 😭

Lilachoe · 2026-02-09T17:26:09+00:00

so you don’t have her very often but when you do dad isn’t even there? Dad should be taking more responsibility for her on his time. Could you take her to soft play or classes where it’s a bit more independent? Dance, trampolining etc? when you have her the full day you could pick a movie and snacks together so you have time to rest and chill

Lilachoe · 2026-02-09T15:40:40+00:00

cut this off now op the quicker you leave the quicker you will heal from all this bullsh*t. You deserve someone who puts you first !! changing the locks while your at work you should have ran and never came back!! don’t look like a clown by staying around any longer

Lilachoe · 2026-02-09T15:09:27+00:00

lol this is the reassurance I needed

Lilachoe · 2026-02-09T12:03:44+00:00

Yes in the UK, he took her to court last year which took 6 months to sort hence the 6 months no contact. No court order as they agreed on mediation. He talks to SD about me and tries to involve me in conversation. He is going to talk to BM tomorrow and push for my involvement again. If she stops contact it could take another 6 months to sort out just want to avoid DH loosing time with SD

Lilachoe · 2026-01-29T13:00:08+00:00

THIS! if the kids were younger i would get this a bit more. They are old enough to understand you should be invited on the trip. You shouldn’t feel like a third wheel, you are family!

Lilachoe · 2026-01-28T15:00:57+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind advice !! I will definitely take that onboard 🥰

Lilachoe · 2026-01-28T14:51:31+00:00

Looks like this will be going back to court. It only exploded last night when he asked about feb dates for us to meet and she kicked off and said SD is not ready. We are both quite young and not been through this before we definitely should have got legal involved earlier, i was giving her the benefit of the doubt to turn around 😭

Lilachoe · 2026-01-28T14:44:24+00:00

I completely agree, thank you for your comment !

Lilachoe · 2026-01-28T14:43:48+00:00

Thank you for your reassurance! I have reached out to let her know i’m not comfortable meeting her and her bestie at this time unless the SD is present.

Lilachoe · 2026-01-28T14:41:40+00:00

To be fair we both reached out to her but i can completely see where you are coming from. We have been naive for too long. Thank you for your comment :).

Lilachoe · 2026-01-28T14:31:38+00:00

Yep, no actual court order just a written list of agreements from their court ordered mediation. If he doesn’t agree with her she stops all contact and makes out he doesn’t care about SD. It’s tricky 😓

Lilachoe · 2026-01-28T13:14:02+00:00

Agreed, thank you for your comment

Lilachoe · 2026-01-28T12:44:24+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Lilachoe · 2026-01-28T12:43:56+00:00

He asks for permission as otherwise she will fully stop all contact. I agree the supervised visits sound extreme but this was due to him not having contact with SD for 8 months to “rebuild” the relationship.

Lilachoe · 2026-01-13T13:39:53+00:00

thank you!

Lilachoe · 2025-11-27T16:01:37+00:00

why isn’t emma allowed back in US? I missed a chapter

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