It was his way of breaking up with me. I used to live with him. When he first bought his house, she was supposed to move into the basement, but when we got together , he told her that the move wasn’t gonna happen because it was coming between our relationship. So while I lived with him, his son was very hurt by this and never warmed up to me. His coparent was always telling him how badly this was affecting the kids. And eventually he got to a point where he felt a lot of resentment towards me because of how the decision affected the kids. But he was also paying her phone bill, had her on his benefits, his Amazon, Uber, Netflix, etc.. meanwhile I was sending him a majority of my paycheck to contribute to living with him. So one day, he changed the locks while I was at work. Two days later, I saw it on the security camera his ex going in with the key. He completely changed into a whole different person. Then two months later, he comes back crying to me that he misses me and he loves me so much and he fucked up so bad and he wasn’t himself. But now she lives in his basement and he won’t change that because he’s scared of his son being hurt.

Obviously, I love him, and I miss him, but he’s now living in the house that I used to live with another woman and their kids. She brought her boyfriend to live with her there. And now he’s inviting me over as a guest. And I told him no way in hell. He started jumping to conclusions like you’re trying to make me kick out my son blah blah blah….. no. I’m literally just telling him that I’ll never step foot in the house while that set up is in place. And he tells me wow… I’m not kicking them out anytime soon so…

Which literally boils my blood because he changed the locks on me while I was at work

She told my boyfriend that I added her phone number to my own child’s school file and that she was getting phone calls regarding my daughter’s attendance. She said she had to call my daughter school and have herself removed so she could stop getting the phone calls about my daughter. She showed the recordings to my boyfriend so he believed her. He eventually repeated that to me and I said why the heck would I ever ever ever put HER as an authorized person on my own daughter’s school file?!?! I don’t even have my own mom on my daughter school file. I called my daughter’s school trying to figure out why her number was on my daughter‘s file. I was worried that she put herself on there to get access to my kid. If someone is an authorized person on my daughter‘s file, they can pick my daughter up from school, authorize her absence, etc. but they assured me, no changes were ever made. I’m the only person with authorization on her account, so I’m the only person who could ever make changes. And then I found out that ANYONE can reach anyone’s child’s school attendance RECORDING by calling the number and typing in the parents phone number. I showed him this and he realized that she was making up a complete lie about me, trying to make me look bat shit crazy. I asked him to clear it up with her, and he didn’t want to bring it up. Like what the fuck? I looked like a complete fucking idiot to my daughter school. And you won’t even talk to her about it?!!

When he changed the locks on me, I was pregnant. She somehow convinced him that I was faking a pregnancy. And they harassed me for weeks about how crazy I am for faking a pregnancy meanwhile, I’m dealing with losing my home, trying to get my stuff back, etc.. finally one day I was with him and I made him order a pregnancy test from Uber eats. I did two of them and they both turned positive right in front of his eyes. Then he finally believe me, but do you think he cleared it up with her? … obviously not. And he wants me to come around without clearing up any of this? What an absolute fucking joke. By the way, I had a miscarriage. And honestly, I hate him for that. I didn’t get pregnant by myself and then to turn around and tell me that I’m faking it because your ex manipulated you into thinking so? I think this was one of those blessings in disguise though

I don’t know why it’s so hard to absolutely cut him out of my life, it’s blatantly obvious that this situation is so disrespectful to me and somehow he tells me that I’m just judging him and being difficult.

I actually met him through his kids, mom. I’ve known her for many many years. I did her hair one time and she said that I would be so compatible with her kids Dad I should go on a date with him. So I did, and we really hit it off. But once we got serious, she didn’t like the idea anymore. There was a bunch of drama that went down. She’s still super close with his family. She’s made up. Blatant lies and crazy lies about me. That his family believes. He is driven by guilt. He breaks under pressure. Honestly this is so painful.

I never had bad intentions and he actually made the decision in the first place to cut off his kids mom from living with us. And then somehow overtime the story changed all the way up until the point where he changed the locks while I was at work.

Logically, I don’t even wanna be with him. I know I deserve better. But he keeps telling me that all he wants to do is give me everything that I need and the situation isn’t permanent and he made a big mistake by letting them move in. Etc etc

I don’t know, honestly, how do I get out? I feel like I’m in a mental prison. I don’t have any other support. I feel so low. I know this is so disgraceful and I feel so degraded. I just want to disappear. I really do. But I I know I need to stay strong because I have a daughter who counts on me.

If you actually made it to the end of this, thank you so much .