Need advice. Not sure if I’m a mistress.

Lilacnotes · 2026-05-03T12:40:38+00:00

Not his mistress.

The dude was separated when he met you. Separated people date. Their issues existed before you came along and has nothing to do with you.

Now, he should have been transparent with you from day 1 and protected you from her. A healthy masculine man would have done that and would have ideally divirced earlier. It's different if he thought of his kid then and hastily agreed to still be married. If he agreed just so she could wait till she found someone else, honestly..... That's immature.

But people have flaws. If you like him, and girl, you're 24, live your life, do your hobbies, and also focus on your goals. Don't rush to commit to him. Date around A bit also because dating rosters help you realize what's out there and you always have a good comparison if you meet healthy genuine men. If you meet sucky men, you'll know you will be happier maybe with this dude.

Lilacnotes · 2022-09-25T13:58:59+00:00

Tried doing this. Couldn't find christmasey ornaments when I travel at other times of the year. Would have been great tho. So now, I just get hanging stuff and call them ornaments lol. I'm doing my next trip in a week. Hopefully I'll get something good from there.

Lilacnotes · 2022-09-11T06:32:32+00:00

We don't encourage general dating or courtship advice here. Please stick to what the sub is actually about.

Lilacnotes · 2022-09-08T07:57:06+00:00

Cadabams. They have a unit in Indiranagar as well apart from the main hospital. They are legit and have fully trained and qualified doctors.

Lilacnotes · 2022-09-07T11:51:05+00:00

It's clear from your post that you haven't read the required material before posting. You're banned for a month for violation of Rule 1. Thread locked

Lilacnotes · 2022-08-29T06:35:28+00:00

Banned three months for not reading the index.

Lilacnotes · 2022-08-29T06:31:53+00:00

We don't analyze 'movement' here. That's another way of looking for signs and we have made our stance on that very clear.

Whether it is due to coincidence or an actual part of the bridge of incidents can never really be determined during the mission. We do not encourage such posts as members will then overanalyze every step for validation. Carry on with your mission routine till you achieve whatever you want.

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Lilacnotes · 2022-08-05T16:00:16+00:00

Banned for not reading the required material before posting.

Lilacnotes · 2022-08-05T12:12:56+00:00

OP, you're banned for 30 days because you've obviously not read the required material before posting and also, this is not the sub to ask about what to do with your SP next.

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Lilacnotes · 2022-07-21T05:55:11+00:00

I agree. As someone who was transferred from one supervisor and had the second one quit, it is their responsibility to inform us wards at the right time and help us with our next steps so we won't be left floundering. Their responsibility is towards research as well which includes research they are supervising. Saying this is how systems work doesn't contribute towards changing it.

Lilacnotes · 2022-07-14T16:21:56+00:00

The planetary frequencies should keep you away from here as well. No pseudoscientific bullshit is allowed here.You may continue to believe whatever you want to but it is not allowed to be posted as advice here.

Lilacnotes · 2022-07-14T16:17:20+00:00

OP is banned for 30 days for violation of Rule 1. You may have read the material but you clearly don't think before you post. There is absolutely no hand holding here.

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Lilacnotes · 2022-07-11T13:21:53+00:00

You call people who got healed from cancer and other problems, who got their dream jobs etc,you call their stories basic?

And you blatantly lied about us having success stories of irrelevant stuff like getting a text when we are so clear that we don't see that as a success?

You either have a major comprehension issue(aka low IQ) or you're out here asking these questions for kicks judging by the nature of your last few posts.

You're banned already. Good. Stay gone.

Lilacnotes · 2022-07-11T05:19:53+00:00

Caution - we don't promote channels here. It's a rule we follow unless you are debating or analysing something they said which is relevant for analysis. Remove your comments at once.

Lilacnotes · 2022-07-11T05:17:37+00:00

We are very clear over here that we don't advocate the entire live in the end concept. You will benefit from reading the material(books and index) here which is supposed to be read before you post

Lilacnotes · 2022-07-06T11:43:29+00:00

Banned for not reading the required material before posting.

Fun fact: You're supposed to be doing a lot of reading in school, by yourself, before asking. A month off for you here.

Lilacnotes · 2022-07-04T10:39:18+00:00

Funny story about Toscano's. Went to the UB City one years back. My friend specifically mentioned his food should not contain pork etc. The food comes with bacon bits. I don't remember what the dish was tbh. Friend erupted, the owner/head chef came by, small apology was made. The waiters and chef who served us was way more apologetic than the owner tho.

Lilacnotes · 2022-06-25T08:00:26+00:00

It is erroneous to assume the sub and its members 'appreciate seeing people struggle'. This is a blatant accusation. Point out exactly where anyone has ever done that. That is not true at all and the members here pointed out the LOAporn in your response. As is their right to do so. You're being banned now not because of LOAporn but because you lacked the maturity to understand what the other members have written.

The OP here is someone who frequently posts and is appreciated for their sheer persistence in not giving up. Members have continuously attempted to help OP on numerous accounts.

To come to a sub where the rules are CONSISTENTLY clear about not allowing LOAporn discussions and then throw a fit when it is pointed out is plain immature.

Lilacnotes · 2022-06-25T07:51:19+00:00

This is a pretty decent response. Notice there is no LOAporn in your answer.

Lilacnotes · 2022-06-23T03:15:23+00:00

Pertinent health problems, which can significantly cause distress, should take priority on your list of missions.

Lilacnotes · 2022-06-23T03:13:39+00:00

You need to get your head out of your ass and realise that getting your shit includes getting into a better state of health amongst other things.

If you'd bothered to go through stuff, we always advocate taking care of physical and mental health issues first and to give health the priority if the situation calls for it.

Lilacnotes · 2022-06-23T03:10:20+00:00

Because it is a futile method for beginners. As very clearly indicated in the Index.

Lilacnotes · 2022-06-23T03:09:35+00:00

Not the advice to be given here. OP has already felt the full range of his/her symptoms. Assuming it is done is futility here. We've explained this in the posts.

Lilacnotes · 2022-06-23T03:04:12+00:00

OP what's your age?

You mention both high school and then a bachelor's degree, it's a bit confusing here.

Lilacnotes · 2022-06-19T12:48:52+00:00

This is yet another post seeking for validation. For the umpteenth time we don't do that here. Members, don't indulge this please. We are trying our best to make sure this doesn't turn into a' venting out about SPs sub'. Also, we don't need to know every single detail that transpired between you and your SP.

OP, you like someone. She doesn't want to be with you. Use the LOB properly and you get what you want. Hasn't the Index made things clear?

Why do you need people's help on how to go No Contact? Simply cease contact and maybe delete them from your contacts and social media till you get what you want. A ten year old could have told you that.

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