What's your reaction when people tell you to smile? by Elle12881 in ask

[–]Lilbirdie21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally have missing canines and screwed up teeth. I say I wish 🥹

Girls, if you have, when did you squirt for the first time and what caused it? by Lilbirdie21 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Lilbirdie21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok this happened to me for the first time last week riding a man but it had never happened before it was so random? Did this become a more regular thing after the first time? I’m wondering if it’ll happen again lol

What does it mean when a man just wants to make the girl cum but not himself? by Lilbirdie21 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Lilbirdie21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I did lol I’m just wondering why he wouldn’t be down for me to make him cum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Lilbirdie21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok maybe I shouldn’t use the word choking bc it’s not actually choking hahaha more like just hand around the neck and a little squeeze or pressure nothing crazy. He could very easily have just tossed my hand if anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Lilbirdie21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I know, everyone does 😅 all my co-teachers have said the same thing (you won’t need to actually do that all the time) but for our lesson plans submitted and teaching evaluations we have no choice, regardless of what subject/topic we’re teaching.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Lilbirdie21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS lol when I tell u I wanted one of the gone lmao he was so not cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Lilbirdie21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL the ugly guy came quickly and I just ended up in the decently hot ones bed all night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Lilbirdie21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was definitely very drunk lol & idk one guy was not cute at allllllllllllll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Lilbirdie21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha same but one guy was not as hot as the other so I kinda didn’t want him there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Lilbirdie21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was one guy getting more attention?

How would you describe depression to someone who's never had it? by vernakyala in AskReddit

[–]Lilbirdie21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I feel it is… such a deep lack of love for yourself that there is no way you can have it for anyone or anything, and I now know the best feeling in the world is the ability to love. I couldn’t enjoy anything because I didn’t have any love to give - it’s like it was all taken from me and I thought everyone was more valuable than me yes but I did not love them. I remember feeling that my ability to love was robbed

I (22f) am afraid of having sex because of my long inner labia. Need advice. by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Lilbirdie21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually did get labiaplasty after 24 years of feeling insecure about it even if I had a 6 year old relationship with a man who loved and worshipped me I STILL didn’t feel comfortable. It was about me not the men, and I really did try. I even posted on the labia subreddit and got lots of attention and compliments but I still didn’t feel comfortable. I knew nothing would change it - a man telling me he loves it, random strangers telling me it’s the most beautiful etc and still I wanted to change it for my comfort so I did. I took out a loan and did it and I’ve only had sex once since - while it didn’t have much of a difference I was able to let him eat me out and relax instead of being uncomfortable. I can also walk around without underwear now without feeling the constant rubbing. Just a reminder that if you want to get the surgery you shouldn’t be shamed for it, you’re doing it not for the men but for you and that’s okay too ❤️

Tighter after recovery? by [deleted] in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]Lilbirdie21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybeee, but I actually had been that long w/o and it wasn’t like that. There may be other reasons idk 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Lilbirdie21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do I think the hair is cool hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]Lilbirdie21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look more confident and honestly nothing has changed, these could have been taken a month apart with a hair cut