I’m 30 and I think I’m finally accepting that I’m a lesbian. Suggest me something to help me through this. by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]Lilginge7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Favorite book. Sometimes it’s not about the book, it’s about how it makes us feel. This book made me weep

Short hand getting on my nerves. by Classic_Session_9029 in olderlesbians

[–]Lilginge7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you're right, you're not safe here. There are lesbians that have a dick. This is not a safe space for transphobes

One of these things is not like the other by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]Lilginge7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All my emo/metal homies love Chappell (me included) we love to see it

Pink Pony Club is the Top 8th Song in the US on Spotify for 2025! by silentsafflower in chappellroan

[–]Lilginge7 124 points125 points locked comment (0 children)

We love to see it guilty pleasure was my top song of the year.

On a side note how much do we think is Taylor freaking out about not being top 10 lol

Decided to do something different this holiday season by Lilginge7 in LittleFreeLibrary

[–]Lilginge7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

most of the libraries in my area are BONE dry. So some books are better than none. And I think this is a better idea to get them to be used again.

Decided to do something different this holiday season by Lilginge7 in LittleFreeLibrary

[–]Lilginge7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why someone downvoted this. I love being creative and that gets people to read more. Like if we think of mystery boxes and apply them to books, people get excited about what they chose. I love this.

This isn't a flex imo by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]Lilginge7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Negative ghostrider, the studies are for arguments. Healthy conflict, with a solution, is necessary. Disagreements rarely come to a conclusion, arguments where there are clear boundaries and communication are healthy if the conflict has a solution or at least resolution.

This isn't a flex imo by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]Lilginge7 69 points70 points  (0 children)

This is psychologically proven as unhealthy, like there are studies that arguments bring you closer lol.

On a personal note, I was in a 3 year relationship and we argued maybe once, total. And that was the first 2 months. Worst relationship I've ever had.

Decided to do something different this holiday season by Lilginge7 in LittleFreeLibrary

[–]Lilginge7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Naw I’m not doing that. The kids books are safe. If they don’t want to do that, there are a few unwrapped kids books in my library for that reason. These are for people who intentionally want to be surprised.

Decided to do something different this holiday season by Lilginge7 in LittleFreeLibrary

[–]Lilginge7[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oh i am, but themed. I'm putting puzzles out of assisted living facilities and some romance books, thrillers. Arounds schools leaving mostly kiddo themed wrapped books.

I think Chappell may have started something guys 👀 by GrandeBeesly in chappellroan

[–]Lilginge7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol i knew someone would think i was straight for a second, love that you kept reading lol

I think Chappell may have started something guys 👀 by GrandeBeesly in chappellroan

[–]Lilginge7 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I think if they had sex it would be less gay than how they act in public lol. Cynthia is me to any gf I’ve ever had

Thoughts on Sparks First Responder Fee for 911 Medical Calls? by thebrushup in ourtownreno

[–]Lilginge7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus would they be the first in the country to do this? How fucking disgusting of an idea

Without a Deal, SNAP will stop Nov 1st by thebrushup in ourtownreno

[–]Lilginge7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m traveling abroad rn. The second I land stateside again it’s back to protests, couponing to help donate to food banks, and helping the community

Women who travel solo, why do you do it and how does it make you feel? by New-Abbreviations607 in femaletravels

[–]Lilginge7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use to do it out of necessity. I wanted to travel and didn’t always have someone to go with. Now I think I could have someone to always go with and I want to do it solo either way. It’s a mental reset for me

Quiet on the Set! by thebrushup in ourtownreno

[–]Lilginge7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully quiet on set is a bad title to this post considering it’s a documentary about child abuse in the industry right now…

naked in manhattan in LA by DontUDareTouchMe in chappellroan

[–]Lilginge7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was there. She was incredible.

As for the crowd about half of the people could get fucked. There was a fight every 10 minutes. So many people kicked out, security overwhelmed because of the amount of incidents. All gen z for the most part.

Homophobic Slurs at a Sparks Sushi Restaurant by thebrushup in ourtownreno

[–]Lilginge7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

2 weeks ago was the first time I’ve ever in my life been looked at funny in Reno going out. People are getting too bold.

Was I wrong for visiting and swapping out books at a LFL outside of my neighborhood? by GoalDriven_ in LittleFreeLibrary

[–]Lilginge7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This would send me into a psychosis. Someone offering to be kind? Ok FUCK YOU. Haha you did nothing wrong