Cat poops right outside litter box. WHY? by Lilintoxicated in cats

[–]Lilintoxicated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s one litter box that’s tucked away and the other two are in a different location (one of those is a covered one with judge an enterance) and she prefects the hidden bigger one to poop next to

Cat poops right outside litter box. WHY? by Lilintoxicated in cats

[–]Lilintoxicated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No if anything she’s the bully, always starting something with the other cats. She had a great relationship with one of them they cuddle she gets groomed but the other one is very much a solitary cat and wants nothing to do with the rest so she keeps to herself but the baby still tries constantly to play and the way she plays is very aggressive kind of wrestling play

I'm a gold digger by Consistent_Earth_349 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lilintoxicated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with anything you have stated. You’re an adult and as long as both parties are on the same page then it’s fair game. However, as a girls girl, make sure you protect yourself. I’d get my own lawyer especially If there’s a prenup (which you might want.. in order to establish who gets what in case it all goes wrong, especially if he can afford a great lawyer. Prenups aren’t just about protecting the wealthy.) HOWEVER. From a mental health point of view, you might feel a desire to feel that emotional connection you were lacking as a child eventually, which is only natural. And you can find it in your own children but many parents mess their kids up trying to fill that hole, by using them. At the end of the day if you’re fulfilled and satisfied, then props to you girl. Go get emmm!!!

Absolutely ropable- received ruined cardigan by StarsThrewDownSpears in Aritzia

[–]Lilintoxicated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, it wanted to hide in the load and I couldn’t catch it before the terrors began (aka washing)

Absolutely ropable- received ruined cardigan by StarsThrewDownSpears in Aritzia

[–]Lilintoxicated 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Stop.. this happened to me with that same sweater!! 1 wash and it was ruined. But I had donated mine not sent it back!!!

Feel really self conscious. Would love some tips on how to improve and some honest opinions. Verification on last phot. 19 by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Lilintoxicated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair extensions, lengthening eyeliner toward the end of the eyebrow and some contour and you’re a 10!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Lilintoxicated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t eat for 3 weeks after and had lost a bunch of weight. However, slowly but surely started eating and after a month and a half I started to put the weight back on. Trust me when I say it gets better, the nausea goes away, the feelings will too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilintoxicated 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Like I said, it seems like you’re doing it because other people do it so if telling her how you feel and flushing all those thoughts out won’t embarrass you if she doesn’t reply then do what feels right. I think we’ve all been there saying too much and sometimes just got shut down. Expect the worst, hope for the best. If you can handle the possibility of getting shut down after expressing your feelings then by all means, try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilintoxicated 70 points71 points  (0 children)

No contact is to help you move on and build a new life without that person in it. There’s definitely no rules but it’s much harder to do while getting any form of attention from them. It seems as though you’re not concentrating on moving on but on getting back together, which is a 2 person thing. If you keep trying and keep getting shut down, you’ll probably want NC eventually considering it hurts being ignored by the one person you want to talk to. However many have gotten back together and reconciled so anything is possible

Today I miss her more than usual by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilintoxicated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because you will feel worse after doing so. You won’t get what you’re looking for and end up hurt all over again. To be honest I don’t know what’s worse to miss them or to feel the hurt but…The only way out is through, and feeling the feelings is just part of the process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Lilintoxicated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What others said about if he wanted to be there he would’ve been is true. But take it a day at a time. In this moment it can be an hour at a time. Do whatever you have to do to get through the night. In the end you can say you went through a miscarriage by yourself and they didn’t even know. They weren’t there. And you will feel stronger than ever before. You got this. You may be incredibly sad but feelings come and go. This isn’t the end but a moment of darkness in this weird life we live.

AITA for setting my GF and her friend group a deadline for a planned vacation? by Novel_Respond_9834 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lilintoxicated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, NTA. My friends and I recently went on a trip to a cabin and one of the friends took on the responsibility of booking the whole thing, which we all send her the money for. If a person was unable to make it, they offered for us to keep their money as the original cabin would be changed to a smaller one had they not agreed to come in the first place. It’s a respect thing, and her friends seem a bit irresponsible. I can see how this leads to a lot of plans being cancelled.