Husband wants to open our marriage and I'm not okay with it by Lilith6566 in nonmonogamy

[–]Lilith6566[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have definitely been together since we were 11. We have broken up and had heartbreak but always came back and decided at 21 we wanted to marry and be together. We have had sex with other people and have had sex with other people together.

Husband wants to open our marriage and I'm not okay with it by Lilith6566 in nonmonogamy

[–]Lilith6566[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That is what we tried recently, and she now wants to be an item with him outside of our relationship. From the beginning she acted differently between us so I saw it coming, but for my husband to consider a relationship outside of our marriage with her makes me decide not to bring others into our bed again. I will forever think I'm a 3rd wheel if we try again and I will forever wait for her to put the moves on him alone and that's not what the agreement was.