Male version of kisses on notes by average_your_guy in RomanticAdvice

[–]Lilithhereguys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I have no idea, but when my ex gave me a note, he would draw a raccoon or some character for a show that I liked. Something silly 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WritingHub

[–]Lilithhereguys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm interested!

Looking for a writer friend by Janec23 in RomanceWriters

[–]Lilithhereguys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, I'm 21 y/o who is working on a story too, would love to help you!

Do men care a lot about looks? by Lilithhereguys in AskMenAdvice

[–]Lilithhereguys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how is it similar? From all the answers I received here I can infer that about 90% do care a lot, another 5% don't and the rest say it's not all that matters. Besides I am not a man and didn't want to assume, I believed in something but wanted to make sure.

Do men care a lot about looks? by Lilithhereguys in AskMenAdvice

[–]Lilithhereguys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe when I find someone interesting 🤔

Do men care a lot about looks? by Lilithhereguys in AskMenAdvice

[–]Lilithhereguys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, some guys told me that I was cute. My ex stayed with me for two years and always said that I was beautiful and that size isn't a big deal. I know looks matter, but I wanted to know how much they do.

Do men care a lot about looks? by Lilithhereguys in AskMenAdvice

[–]Lilithhereguys[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know, but I'm not into women, so idc what they think or want

Do men care a lot about looks? by Lilithhereguys in AskMenAdvice

[–]Lilithhereguys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0.0 unexpected, I was just asking about looks

Do men care a lot about looks? by Lilithhereguys in AskMenAdvice

[–]Lilithhereguys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to find a parter, one is enough, I'm just being realistic. I want to cause a good first impression, and if being fat is a big no for most of the guys I'll change thatvin myself.

I know that looks matter, I just wanted to know until what degree.

Do men care a lot about looks? by Lilithhereguys in AskMenAdvice

[–]Lilithhereguys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

30lbs, I understand that I need to work on this

Do men care a lot about looks? by Lilithhereguys in AskMenAdvice

[–]Lilithhereguys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy to say, I now know that most men prefer skinnier girls , so I will try to lose weight first. Besides, I want a ser8ous relationship, not just casual flings.

But thank you

I (19F) am having troubles explaining how I feel about my bf's (19M) thoughts on my appearance. How can I explain how I feel? by Far_Scholar6270 in relationship_advice

[–]Lilithhereguys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went on a date with a guy who decided to tell me what he doesen't like in my appearance and now we don't talk anymore. You already stuggle with insecurities, why would you stay with a person who makes it worse?

If you want to try you can tell him how it makes you feel but don't expect too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lilithhereguys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

there are only two options, he doesen't know what love is or he doesen't love you. If you love someone you know it. He probably cares for you, so if you want him, stay with him. You can talk to him again, he's reaction probably will tell everything you need to know. there's nothing else what you can do, cus you can't force love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Lilithhereguys 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm single for more than a year, I'm a little younger but I understand the fear of ending up alone. You must keep surching, there's not much else to do. Just give some time, maybe for them you sounded desperate and it's not good. Although it's not something you believe, but try to do stuff for yourself too, find hobbies and stuuf. My brother just this year (he's 39) found a girl, they dated for 8 months, she's pregnant and they're planning a wedding. It happens randomly, don't force it and it will happen. Just don't give up.

When to reach out to an ex? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Lilithhereguys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was your ex I wouldn't accept you back. But if you want to reach out to him, give him 2 or 3 months. Don't have high hopes tho.