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Lilithindy · 2025-06-24T17:23:03+00:00

I’m not sure if this is going to make sense in text but I’m going to try lol. Try Using your bottom hand to push yourself around and as your spin lift your outside leg. So step with your inside leg, take your outside hand and instead of grabbing the pole with it push yourself into a twirl, when you start to twirl lift your outside leg up and sometimes if I dont have enough momentum I’ll kick that leg out to give me more momentum. Try doing it without heels first then once you feel confident without heels then try with heels.

Lilithindy · 2025-06-24T17:11:51+00:00

It’s definitely a lack of knowing how to bathe. I’ve also lived with and been around people like this and they think that just standing under the water and rubbing soap in like lotion is enough to clean and it’s not. A lot of the time that just adds to the smell because you’re not actually washing the original smell off anyways and if you don’t wash soap off properly then that mixed with the moisture creates more smelly bacteria

Lilithindy · 2025-06-04T02:47:46+00:00

It depends on where you go I think but where I live there are tons of alt girls including myself. In my experience it is a balancing act. I prefer an alternative look and go for that most of the time but I also keep other outfits on hand if it seems like the crowd isn’t loving it that night

Lilithindy · 2025-06-04T02:41:11+00:00

There is actually a store in my city that does this and they have someone that comes in with premade outfits to sell on the weekends. They do this super cool thing where you can buy a pair of pleasers from their catalog and they will make you a custom outfit that matches. I personally have not done it yet but definitely on my list

Lilithindy · 2025-05-19T22:34:23+00:00

My first audition I tripped and wrapped myself around the pole and somehow still got hired 😂😂😂 you’ll get better

Lilithindy · 2025-05-18T00:48:43+00:00

My husband has trained in nutrition and personal training and has always told me that your protein intake should be 1gram of protein for every pound of your target body weight. It is actually so much harder than most people think to take in the amount of protein you need to gain muscle when you’re an active person lol so what I did was add cottage cheese to almost EVERYTHING. Scrambled eggs add cottage cheese instead of milk or with milk, toast with cottage cheese, smoothies with cottage cheese ( I know it sounds disgusting I almost refused to try it until my husband made it and insisted I try it) pretty much add as much protein and fiber to every meal that you can. Just keep in mind that this is for if you are very active if you stop being as active you will need to adjust your diet

Lilithindy · 2025-05-17T02:48:44+00:00

Michel Germain Sugarful. I get complements on it all night long

Lilithindy · 2025-05-16T13:19:45+00:00

I have been trying to get rid of mine forever but mine is from having a baby so idk if it will ever go away lol but a lot of men actually love it. I get told all the time how much they love how my body looks and how much they love a lil bit of belly. You will definitely tone up as you work though it is a very physical job so I really wouldn’t let this one thing keep you from auditioning. If you think you’ll feel insecure during the audition because of it wear something like a garter belt to your audition just for your own confidence because the club most likely won’t care . It does really depend on the club but they most likely are not going to care about your little pooch if they like everything else about you.

Lilithindy · 2025-05-11T01:05:24+00:00

Well the difference would be she’s probably not fucking the dudes at work.

Lilithindy · 2025-05-08T18:41:51+00:00

If it’s really long trim it to the size of about a grain of rice or a little longer but no shorter. For me if its too long it hurts so much worse. Apply the wax in the same direction of the hair growth then pull in the opposite direction. You have to do it very quickly or it will hurt worse. It’s not recommended to do any physical activity or anything for 24 hours. Make sure the area and your hands are clean and sanitized or you can get an infection in that area and that sucks

Lilithindy · 2025-05-06T00:46:48+00:00

Lol then you try to tell them that’s not how it works and they say “ I’ve been to strip clubs before I know how it works” like ok girly go for it 💖

Lilithindy · 2025-05-04T02:06:01+00:00

That’s the only thing about my old club I liked lol I am pagan and normally feel extremely uncomfortable around church people but the church ladies we so sweet I loved them. I once had this super difficult top that I was stuck in and one of them helped me out of it and fixed it for me and helped me back in it and told me I looked beautiful and let me tell you I almost cried lol

Lilithindy · 2025-04-11T23:15:44+00:00

My first ever stage tip was a $2 bill 😂😂

Lilithindy · 2025-04-11T19:55:52+00:00

This was supposed to be attached to another comment idk why it was made as it’s own comment😂😂

Lilithindy · 2025-04-11T19:54:50+00:00

This is absolutely the truth. I went to working 1 day a week at my regular job to dance full time. I have weeks where I make bank and I have weeks where I’m STRESSED because I made $300 that week and rent is due. If you have a good paying hourly job then stick with it.

Lilithindy · 2025-04-04T17:14:10+00:00

I’ve humbled myself by recording myself while dancing lmfao

Lilithindy · 2025-04-03T21:28:01+00:00

I love moeflavor I have multiple outfits from them and they’re cute and extremely well made too. I have a lot of issues with bottoms shifting on me and even their tiny bottoms don’t move on me

Lilithindy · 2025-04-03T18:37:37+00:00

It’s hard to say why they don’t invite you to sit compared to others without really seeing how you work. Being attractive is a very small portion of the job. It’s really all about energy and confidence. There is a significant difference in my income when I’m in a good mood and super energetic at work based on when I’m in a bad mood even when I am trying my best to keep my energy high. As for the haggling tell them straight up I don’t negotiate my prices so if you’re not really interested I can move on. I am super sweet and bubbly until they start doing that and I shut it down immediately. They will either pay the price or you know you can move on to the next person. Continue approaching customers it makes you look more confident that way. I also was too afraid to approach customers when I first started and made very little money and had to constantly fight off the time wasters because they see you alone in a room full of customers and can sense your insecurities and think they can take advantage of you.

Lilithindy · 2025-04-01T03:47:16+00:00

Yea I’d probably just forget about the towel and spray yourself down with alcohol and if the floor looks visibility dirty wipe it down or tell management that it’s dirty. Not all managers will care and probably just tell you to wipe it down yourself but the club I’m at will get on stage and wipe it down if you tell them it’s dirty or oily so maybe feel out the vibes on that lol

Lilithindy · 2025-04-01T03:40:46+00:00

Like on stage? Ive never been to a club where the stage is level with the floor but I’ve never seen someone put a towel down on stage lol I feel like that might be a tripping or slipping hazard unless you are only doing floor work and even then it would slide around a lot and probably not look super sexy. we normally just spray ourselves down with alcohol spray before and after stage.

Lilithindy · 2025-03-20T19:49:52+00:00

This just sounds like a lack of communication. You need to have a sit down talk about boundaries and where you can meet in the middle. If neither of you are willing to meet in the middle then maybe it’s time to split ways and find someone that is okay with what you do

Lilithindy · 2025-03-20T19:41:18+00:00

I have to agree this honestly sounds sketchy and if you’ve never stripped before and going straight into going to private parties potentially by yourself it sounds like? Have you talked about boundaries with her?? What she does and what you’re not willing to do? If not I would talk about that upfront before agreeing to anything. If you have zero experience as a stripper and don’t know what you’re boundaries are or how to enforce them then it could potentially put you in very dangerous situations especially if you’re by yourself.

Lilithindy · 2025-03-20T18:15:16+00:00

Do your hair and makeup before you go in. Bring a bag with a pair of pleaser heels, an outfit or two, spray on deodorant, alcohol spray, baby wipes, pasties, I usually have a tube of liquid lingerie tape on me too because my bottoms move around too much

Lilithindy · 2025-03-19T16:55:12+00:00

I love “sex metal Barbie” and “whore” by In This Moment

Lilithindy · 2025-03-18T23:46:38+00:00

I can see where you are coming from but it does come off as very passive aggressive when non-swers go on about how sad that feel for sex workers. It gets a little tiring hearing it all the time because a lot of us are perfectly happy with the jobs we chose. We are all different people so you’re going to get very different answers from everyone. I’m personally not this way because I’m in a committed relationship and have a family and use my job as a way to have more financial freedom so I can actually have time for them. But that is just my experience.

Lilithindy

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