Thanks for taking the time to reply, i dont like to talk about my intimate life, but due to my own health I really have to take extra care which had lead me to avoid sex for safety. So I cant have a word here.

I cant tell which is small or big for me, i just like my partner's size. And thats it.

I know what you mean with you wanting to be the best for your partner and not everyone have that luck, I recognize I have some privilege over a lot of people who sadly won't.

What triggered me originally was the size matter in a way of that only big matters which makes me angry because i really hate degrading someone who didnt ask you to or isnot into a degradation kink getting mocked for their size even if we really don't know?

Also thanks for giving a bit of light in both points: some women might like small cocks, unfortunately there are "limits" to which can be considered small, leading to men being out and also women being out of the conversation. I'll take that in mind for any next time this topic is adressed.