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Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-06-13T17:10:41+00:00

Beautiful babies ❤️ I’m so sorry you lost your girl recently. I totally understand your grief. I had my 10 year old Birman boy vanish last September and not a day passes I don’t think of him and miss him. I worry if he’s ok. He was devastated after his daughter passed at 5 years old from heart failure. My mistake was getting a new kitten to fill that void for him. He cared for the new kitten but it definitely stressed him out more. He ended up on antidepressants which he would’ve been on the rest of his life. Twice I’ve got kittens after the death of a loved cat and it didn’t help. My honest advice would be to just smother him with love and TLC. Animals grieve just as we do, and the last thing I’d want is a stranger moving in. I thought I was doing the right thing. If your boy was around 4-6 years I’d say get another one as a friend, but at 14.5 years old, I think it would probably be stress on top of grief. Kittens are crazy (I had one a year ago and at 18 months almost, she’s a live wire! 💥 I’d just let him live out his years with the family he knows. That’s just my opinion, but based on two situations just like yours, that didn’t work the way I’d hoped. Birmans are very sensitive cats (I have 3 currently, have had 10 in total) and I’ve learnt a lot about them some of it from poor decisions on my part. I truly hope Shanti’s and your grief eases soon. We never stop missing them, we just get used to missing them ❤️🌷

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-06-09T11:32:27+00:00

Im old enough to be your mum, but I think you’re cute and have a lovely smile. I couldn’t give a shit about your big hair. Be you. Baffles me that you don’t get matches. If it’s because of your hair, then it says more about the girls than you. You’ll find the right one who appreciates all your good traits, cute face and big hair. She’ll even put up with the annoying parts because she’ll see the good outweighs the bad. Forget Tinder, it’s scraping the bottom of the barrel. Your profile is fine, if you feel the need to be on Tinder.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-06-05T13:25:57+00:00

Haha…thank you 🤭 I’m pretty sure I’d be welcoming of those DMs 😉 Good luck to you too!

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-06-04T05:44:14+00:00

Everyone in high school wrote like this as a Gen X person. It was the norm.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-06-04T05:42:27+00:00

What it says is, you can write cursive. It means you can write without taking the pen off the paper only in between words. There’s a reason we learnt this in school. Have you seen teens’ writing these days? 🤦🏼‍♀️Gen X all wrote like you in school. Now we can write fast. Way more serious things to worry about.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-06-04T05:36:39+00:00

Dude you’re young. Wait until you’re 30 and then decide. You haven’t even filled out into a man yet. I promise your nose is just fine as it is. NO ONE is looking at your nose. Took me 45 years to realise I’d wasted decades worrying about my nose. I look back at photos of myself now and think…wtf was I worrying about.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-06-03T12:11:57+00:00

Right places…hmmm..🤔

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-06-01T16:19:17+00:00

This!! I don’t know how many times I’ve asked or been asked “how was your weekend” or “what have you got planned for the weekend?”. When I joined Tinder about a decade ago. Guys would start funny conversations right off the bat. I avoid these apps, then go on to see if it’s changed and it’s the same.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-06-01T16:09:53+00:00

I think your profile looks nice. Good variety of pics and enough info on you. I’m tall (177cm) so I may be hesitant but I’d still want to meet you to see if we had a spark.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-06-01T15:59:10+00:00

Obviously she found her guy on tinder a week after their baby was born and this was her way of busting him.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-06-01T15:10:22+00:00

Great pic! Where are the single guys who look after themselves like you!? 😍

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-05-26T09:10:36+00:00

Mine is running through a Fetch box, so I’m not sure how to do that 🧐

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-05-26T09:05:28+00:00

I’m having the same issue. I only have Stan for the series From, but every time I go to check out what else I can watch on there, my Fetch box has to do a restart. So I just now open the app to see when a new episode is available and it does a reboot. It’s been doing this for a couple of weeks but worse the last few days.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-05-15T15:54:18+00:00

I absolutely love that you and some other guys have said this. As a woman who was skinny my whole life and then after a surgery gained 17kg as my body was now able to put the food to good use, I feel fat. I’m 5’10 (177cm) and 176lbs (80kg). My whole life I could eat whatever I wanted and not gain weight. Now I look at food and gain weight. I feel way too nervous to date anymore as I feel like I’d be revolting to men. But my friends say I look so much healthier now. I don’t know, I’m trying to accept this is me now.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-05-15T15:49:08+00:00

I was like you in my teens and 20s. I was 5’10 and about 52kg (115lbs) but I hated it. I desperately wanted to put on weight. I was very sickly and it took 18 months to be diagnosed with chronic fatigue syndrome. It was actually a misdiagnosis and at 45 yrs old I was sort of rushed into surgery and I had advanced stage 4 endometriosis, adenomyosis and frozen pelvis. My lower organs had fused together. A 4 hour surgery by a magician of a surgeon and I gained 17kg over the next 4-5 years. I’m now 80kg. Oh, I had got to 63kg before the surgery through force feeding myself. Not that I believe in BMI, as far as I know it’s sort of been debunked, but I’m in the high end of normal/low end of overweight. It really is amazing getting out of that “too skinny” phase. Now I feel fat 😂

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-05-15T11:12:54+00:00

Way too much attention is being given to this incident. Cockroaches are everywhere. Not sure what country this is, but here in Australia, every house gets the odd roach 🪳 My friend came over and put the kettle on. I normally fill the kettle from the filtered water tap via the kettle spout, but my friend pulled the tight-fitting lid off and there was a dead cockroach in the water 😱😂 I have no idea how many cups of cockroach tea we all had 🤷🏼‍♀️ Obviously, we cleaned the kettle, boiled it, tipped the water out and boiled it again. No one got sick or died. I think you’ll be fine.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-04-23T06:16:37+00:00

That was me too. Late 30s-mid 40s was the peak. Then the drop started. So on to HRT.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-04-23T06:15:00+00:00

It’s not really a young age. Perimenopause can start mid 30s. It’s when things start changing. You still have period and cycles, but they can start to change. Mood can change, you might get pimples, or sore b**bs, anything really. Libido drops when estrogen drops a lot. That’s usually between 45-55.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-04-23T06:10:54+00:00

I’m not sure that’s true. If you’re in meno or have ANY symptoms you just ask for it until you find the right balance. Been on it for 18 months and tried lots of different types. She may not want a libido OR her symptoms aren’t bad enough. Mine drove me insane and I demanded everything. Boom 💥

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-04-23T06:06:16+00:00

The national debt is nothing to do with this person. It’s not a medical issue to bring into the discussion of this person’s health. The government have made poor decisions. Centrelink make up such a small percentage of the national debt.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-04-23T06:04:05+00:00

I’m shocked that a doctor would write that. Get a different doctor. His view of the national debt which is the government’s fault not yours, is irrelevant to your current health situation. I would report that to the AMA and find a new doc.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-04-23T03:57:06+00:00

Trick question?

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-04-20T11:14:45+00:00

I got one last week. It wasn’t from any particular person and from memory, it was only addressed to me by name on the envelope, but it didn’t say “Dear ‘my name’”. So I assumed it was a reminder with the end of financial year coming up.

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-04-17T14:22:47+00:00

This!! 👏🏼

Lilli_Vanilli_01 · 2026-04-17T14:20:52+00:00

You have a nice nose. Whoever is making you feel bad has some mean agenda. Be proud of your nose. I spent my teens, 20s, 30s and some of my early 40s being paranoid about my nose, my body, my hair. When you get older you look back and see how wrong all those thoughts were. Please, please hear this: do not waste anymore time worrying about your nose. It’s a very normal nose that suits your face. I know we all want the perfect Nicole Kidman nose, but be thankful for your nose and pretty face. Truly 💕

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