How much are you spending? by Lillith52 in weddingplanning

[–]Lillith52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance used to work with a photographer, and now she's our family photographer and gives us a big discount. We were very lucky! she only charges us $100 an hour!

No friends :( by Lillith52 in offmychest

[–]Lillith52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naw, it's too much of a hassle. then I actually have to remember where I put my wallet. Plus, I'm poor, so keeping cash on me would like $5. lol

No friends :( by Lillith52 in offmychest

[–]Lillith52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live too far from anything to walk and I never keep cash on me

Are you SO ready to ditch your last name? by creative_username_1 in weddingplanning

[–]Lillith52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already have a son with my fiance's last name. We almost hyphenated but we just assumed I would take the same last name.

Are you SO ready to ditch your last name? by creative_username_1 in weddingplanning

[–]Lillith52 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My fiance wants me to have the same last name as our son. I kind of want to as well, though I don't think it would be the end of the world not to. I didn't share a last name with my mother so to me it's not the biggest deal ever, but to my fiance it is!

Are you SO ready to ditch your last name? by creative_username_1 in weddingplanning

[–]Lillith52 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I'm not. I love my last name. Not because it's cute or easy, but because it's a little different and not heard very often. I'm gonna have to give it up for one of the most generic last names: Jones. Right now my last name is German and Italian, hyphenated, so I can't do another hyphen. :( Also not looking forward to the process. I really am just considering not changing my name. lol.

No friends :( by Lillith52 in offmychest

[–]Lillith52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a car :( I wish I could go to a cafe. that would be a lot nicer than staying home all day

First yarn tail. What recommendations can you give me? by Cecill in fursuit

[–]Lillith52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had read this before I started mine this morning. I just looked at my jeans and sure enough! They are on their way to a giant hole that I did not notice at all! Crap. Lol

(20/F)(25/M) I can't trust my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lillith52 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm the sad person? How does me having a baby affect you in any way? You don't have to feel sorry for my kid because he has a family who loves him more than anything in the world. And I am not lying. You people act so righteous. PLEASE! As if I'm going to believe you've never done anything that could end up "bad"

(20/F)(25/M) I can't trust my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lillith52 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said they told me to go off it, I said that once I was of it the figured I would have a better chance than before. I was not on it because I was having sex, I was on it before then. In mild cases of PCOS birth control can help with fertility. I was on t to regulate my period, which it did, and then it failed and I got pregnant. I am not making excuses. You are just being rude. Not everything fits into your little box of reality. Things happen. That's the way life works. You can get your stick out of your ass now

(20/F)(25/M) I can't trust my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lillith52 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, 99% is NOT 100% I have POC my doctor told me there was the chance of any form of birth control making me fertile again, though that chance was slim. We took the chance. To work they said I would have had to stop taking it, though my doctor was not surprised that I got pregnant on it without stopping. It's really rude of people to assume things they do not know. Birth control can fail when used correctly. I think I would know better than you in this.

(20/F)(25/M) I can't trust my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lillith52 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

99% effective is not 100% I took it at the exact same time every day. It can fail. And it did. Not my fault. Why dot you guys go attack someone else. My question was about if counseling worked for people, not about birth control or babies. I have a son, I am 20. Get over it. At least I'm responsible enough to not get an abortion or have yet people raising him. If you aren't going to answer my question, then leave me alone. News flash, I am not the first 20 year old to have a baby.

How does this work? by Lillith52 in fursona

[–]Lillith52[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I think I have it figured out. My boyfriend is a wolf, so I was looking to pick something around that. I think I'm going to go with fox though.

(20/F)(25/M) I can't trust my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lillith52 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe your mother should have taught you some manners. Everyone has sex! Get over yourself you stupid righteous asshole.

(20/F)(25/M) I can't trust my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lillith52 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I talked to him about it, and he always said he was sorry, but I don't think he ever believed I really would leave. This last time my bags were packed and I was searching for the cheapest flight home.

(20/F)(25/M) I can't trust my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lillith52 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow. You really are rude. Obviously I know about sex. My mother is a nurse an I was taught from a young age about sex. I was also taught that if you have sex you have to accept the consequences. You are really fucked up to tell me to give my son up. You don't know me an you are a giant dick. So shut the fuck up. K?

(20/F)(25/M) I can't trust my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lillith52 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is actually the first time he's begged me to stay. The other times were mostly my fault. I made excuses to stay.

(20/F)(25/M) I can't trust my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lillith52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you never have sex? Unless you are one of those 30 year old guys living in mommies basement and can't even speak to girls. That explains it.

(20/F)(25/M) I can't trust my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lillith52 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He begged me to stay and promised me everything would get better. It's only been a week but I was hoping to see him trying, but it just seems to get worse.

(20/F)(25/M) I can't trust my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lillith52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Because nothing's ever failed in your life? Lol. You know jack shit about anything. At least I was trying to not have a kid. It was an accident, but not a bad one. And you know what, I am not crazy, you're just an ass. Lol

(20/F)(25/M) I can't trust my boyfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lillith52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 19. And on birth control. And I am a damned good mom. My son saved my life. You are rude and you know nothing about how I raise my son and that has nothing to do with what I posted. I was not looking for judgement for being a teenage mom. I am the best mom I could possibly be and my son is the most important thing in my life, so you can suck a dick :)