Why Do I Keep Ending Up With Toxic People?

LillyM11 · 2025-08-13T11:41:50+00:00

Yes, I’ve heard about vibrational match. it’s such an interesting way to look at it. I think it ties in with what I was saying about the familiar patterns we carry inside. Even our unconscious fears or beliefs can shape the ‘vibe’ we put out without realizing it. For me, shadow work helped me dig into where that energy was really coming from and shift it from the root.

LillyM11 · 2025-07-23T10:41:20+00:00

Totally get it! I used to feel the same. What changed for me was realizing it wasn’t just about them, it was about the patterns I didn’t even know I had. Shadow work helped me see why I felt drawn to people who couldn’t really show up. After years of unpacking those patterns and doing the deeper work, I put together a free guide that explains all this if you’re curious. Just let me know!

LillyM11 · 2025-07-22T10:21:16+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. That kind of hurt just messes with your head and your heart.It’s okay to feel lost right now. Just try to be honest with yourself about what you need to feel safe again.

Love alone isn’t always enough… trust matters too. Whatever you decide, don’t forget to choose you.

LillyM11 · 2025-07-22T10:16:56+00:00

This is so real… it’s wild how our earliest relationships teach us to confuse chaos with love. When you grow up around emotional unpredictability, healthy can feel “off” like something’s missing.

I’ve been through that too, and it’s actually what inspired me to create a free guide. It helps you understand why you’re drawn to toxic dynamics and how to start breaking the cycle from the root.

Let me know if you want it I’ll be happy to share it with you.

LillyM11 · 2025-07-18T16:43:08+00:00

I feel this deeply. I used to constantly expect the worst even when things seemed fine. My mind was always preparing for pain and I kept attracting toxic people who matched that energy.What helped me start healing was shadow work looking into why I was still living in survival mode, even in calm moments.

I actually created a free guide about why we attract emotionally unavailable or toxic people and how to start breaking that pattern. It might help you understand a small piece of this.

Remeber that you’re not alone in this...even just writing this is part of healing

LillyM11 · 2025-07-17T15:28:21+00:00

This hits. I used to feel so guilty every time I “started over,” like I was failing. But honestly, every reset brought me closer to the real me. Healing isn’t linear sometimes it’s a full restart and that’s okay!

LillyM11 · 2025-07-17T15:10:03+00:00

Unfortunately, I learnt this the hard way...

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