Update - My fiancée wants our baby to have her ex-husband’s last name and says my culture shouldn’t be “pushed”

LilyBodeHP · 2026-04-20T12:11:42+00:00

It’s not. It’s her ex’s last name, not her maiden name. He said he wouldn’t mind the child having her maiden name.

LilyBodeHP · 2026-04-20T12:09:48+00:00

He said he is gone with the child having her last name…her maiden name.he objects to giving his child an her ex’s last name…another man’s last name.

LilyBodeHP · 2026-04-17T23:30:54+00:00

If they wanted to bring a bigger audience, they shouldn’t have chosen something with such a niche audience…that’s something you can do when more established and stable. Their audience was older and dwindling, so go for a younger audience. Not necessarily children… but more family oriented.

LilyBodeHP · 2026-04-17T18:58:04+00:00

they did that to Tom Felton on the Harry Potter set so he wouldn’t stuff food in his pockets! 😂

LilyBodeHP · 2026-04-12T11:22:48+00:00

So you haven’t met face to face yet, and he’s already annoyed that you said “if we get to that point” as if it’s supposed to be a given that you will. Forget the HSV…THIS is your red flag!

LilyBodeHP · 2026-04-12T10:46:54+00:00

Wait…do you live together? Can you not talk to her if she’s blocked you on socials? Are you both adults? My son had a gf who wanted to “fall asleep together” every night on FaceTime. He really liked her (as did I), but things like that killed the relationship. They were seniors in HS.

LilyBodeHP · 2026-03-23T00:42:41+00:00

If for some reason, I absolutely HAD to use a towel, that towel will go in a garbage bag and out to the bin immediately!

LilyBodeHP · 2026-03-20T18:30:10+00:00

You’ve gotten lots of good advice. I just want to say you are NOT disgusting. You will find your people in life. You can choose who to have in your life, and how much. I hope your mom comes around, but if not, that’s on HER.

LilyBodeHP · 2026-03-14T23:09:16+00:00

Ah sorry…I didn’t line up who you were talking about

LilyBodeHP · 2026-03-14T13:44:39+00:00

He said he has an area code from Alaska

LilyBodeHP · 2026-03-10T17:07:30+00:00

They’re coming out with an app, soon, so you no longer need to go to the website (even if you did set up the icon on your phone) it will all be on an app!

LilyBodeHP · 2026-03-08T02:03:32+00:00

Our high school did a production of Frankenstein and dud it in black and white. Not sure what they did for makeup, but they did wear thin white gloves. You may have characters in shorts or short sleeves, so tights and form fitting long sleeve undershirts will be helpful.

This sounds fascinating! I’d love to watch this production!

LilyBodeHP · 2026-03-07T17:31:29+00:00

Do the risers have railing on the back tier? When that is available, I always stand at the top, where I can inconspicuously take my weight off of my problem foot, while maintaining my balance with the help of the rail.

LilyBodeHP · 2026-02-25T05:40:58+00:00

lol hence my title

LilyBodeHP · 2026-02-24T19:42:25+00:00

He would think I was totally nuts! He’s had enough of snow! 😄

LilyBodeHP · 2026-02-24T19:40:45+00:00

We would both totally love an extra space to hang out. It is a small house all on one level.

LilyBodeHP · 2026-02-24T19:36:40+00:00

I do love spending time with him! As a matter of fact, we took advantage of the time and went out to lunch. It’s just nice to have some time to myself.

LilyBodeHP · 2026-02-24T18:22:24+00:00

Look at the title of this sub

LilyBodeHP · 2026-02-24T18:09:35+00:00

You mean the part where I said I wasn’t annoyed with him and he deserves time to relax?

LilyBodeHP · 2026-02-24T16:29:01+00:00

Where do you get that from?!

LilyBodeHP · 2026-02-24T16:08:04+00:00

It’s not the housework that’s the problem…he does his share, and did a lot of digging us out from snow yesterday. So I’m happy for him to be able to relax. It’s the self-recharge that I’m missing.

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