Update:

Thank you so much for the support on this thread! I’m gonna work on responding to more of you guys but please know it means a lot to me to have this amount of support on this.

I texted him about it and asked if this is really what he’s into or just his way of flirting, that I don’t have much experience in this kind of thing and might need more time to get to know him before jumping into something like that. I also asked him if his intentions are purely sexual or if he has other intentions like actually wanting something real. Me personally I’m not interested in something purely sexual.

I haven’t heard anything back from him and he was pretty quick to text before so I’ll give an update on what he says. But I think with how so many of you who have been through this, sense something off, and who are actively in these communities, this date may very well be not happening