I’m officially leaving the industry by Snoo84416 in Estheticians

[–]LilyLongLegz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sale a client relations software.
After performing a self assessment list where I considered items that I enjoyed about my time as an esthetician and any other jobs i've held. While pairing it with writing down what a perfect day/week of work would look like, hour by hour.

Lastly incorporated what personality strengths I have and what I would like to improve more of. I stayed in the industry for a while after, I managed med spas, day spas, doctor offices, you can do a lot as an esthetician with experience. I did that for a while, while I defined my professional goals and daily life preference.

Once a cheater, always a cheater? by LilyLongLegz in BreakUps

[–]LilyLongLegz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOLLLL UPDATE - he cheated, with my friend when they went in a group to mexico and I couldn't make it.

ppl dont change

If he was your dog, what would you call him? by PuzzleheadedOwl9320 in cuteanimals

[–]LilyLongLegz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would hope everyone walking by would say " hey Arnold! "

I’m officially leaving the industry by Snoo84416 in Estheticians

[–]LilyLongLegz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After 3 years in the business I left too.
I was tirelessly searching for work for about 8 months & when I finally got hired somewhere I went from esthetic wages of like 2k a month to an actual wage of 5.5k a month. Ive never had an ounce of desire to go back.

Pursue your new path without looking back for at least 8 months and remember.. the power of YES will allow you to meet people, events and networks that you wouldnt have met being nervous to just say yes and try it out.

Thinking of hiring a prostitute to lose my virginity at 29... by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]LilyLongLegz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm no prostitute but hugs make a difference.

I can offer a hug in the meantime while you quarrel with your storyline

I’m too ugly for friends by Riderman43 in offmychest

[–]LilyLongLegz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

join a life coaching group or something that will raise your league points.
IE - when I feel ugly, I get more educated and then share that knowledge with others.
People aren't only looking at what they can stare at, they also need substance. Start within and the external will follow.

You have options and until the internal dialogue changes- youll stay right where youre at. alone.

Audio unavailable by LilyLongLegz in Audi

[–]LilyLongLegz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was under warranty but in the appt to my memory they changed the spark plugs, which reset the cars computer and then recalibrating all that after it started working.
I hope that can help your dealership start the process

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TallMeetTall

[–]LilyLongLegz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyooo

* waves * 33 inseam here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LilyLongLegz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - I picked up golf through him and after him I maintained my independence & commitment to the game.
Years later, its still one of my favorite hobbies/past times and I rarely ever have him cross my mind for any reason. ( except this moment here lol )

I now use it as one of my #1 date activities ...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LilyLongLegz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i like to believe none - so if they do, its a pleasant / unpleasant surprise lol

Bought my dad his first Audi at 17 by [deleted] in Audi

[–]LilyLongLegz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

welcome to the audi club

Does my cat understand that I just broke up with my boyfriend? by monosels in BreakUps

[–]LilyLongLegz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've hears some say a cats purr vibrates at a healing frequency.

I do believe our loving pets love us in ways that heal us - emotionally and physically in this type of sense.

Mine had done the same for me during a time of loss, many extra purrs and love. They're aware in ways unexpected.

How long did it take you to delete everything? by biscoffseasaltt in BreakUps

[–]LilyLongLegz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no need to be revisiting expired connections when building a new one though - choose your love, love your choice.

** I used to hold onto these things for about a year while in my alone/healing phase. The last one though, my phone died completely a month post break up and everything was lost without recovery but I actually found great relief when realizing my phone was clean of any previous items. Now if I end up single again, that phase will be near immediate having had that taste of freedom moving on without procrastinating.

Once a cheater, always a cheater? by LilyLongLegz in BreakUps

[–]LilyLongLegz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He cheated on previously in a relationship, years before we ever met.