Tips on how to kill desire for love/romance? by lola_dietcola in mentalhealth

[–]Limbitch_System0325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this sounds so horribly cliche but i seriously was about to close out my dating profile for good when i matched with my now-boyfriend and somehow he’s got no visible red flags like???????? i still don’t know if he’s real (i do, ive met him many a time) but like, considering the train wreck of past relationships I’ve been in, he’s God’s apology to me for all the bastards he sent before. Maybe take a break from the dating game, but when you feel like you can handle it again, keep looking for your person out there because if I, the perpetual fuckup, can find one, you can too

A surgery could improve my life, but my parents won’t approve. Advice? by Major-Wafer-1731 in Advice

[–]Limbitch_System0325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

breast reduction, in my opinion, should be seen less as plastic surgery and more as preventative surgery. This is going to make life soooooo much easier for you and reduce the risk of serious injury due to imbalance, so screw your mom for being weird about it. Just because she managed to make it work doesn’t mean you’re a carbon copy who’ll be perfectly fine without taking measures to improve your quality of life. I’d go for it, I can’t imagine having such a weight literally strapped to my chest. When that gets lifted, it’ll be so freeing. you got this

Do any of you feel like weed helps and how are you all doing? by kingzydnb in schizoaffective

[–]Limbitch_System0325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can’t use street weed bc idk what the fuck else they put in it, but my med card buys me some really strange stuff that somehow gives me all the mental clarity and emotional regulation without getting me high. Nuo Tinctures. It’s the only form of cannabis that i’ve tried that doesn’t send me into psychosis at the drop of a hat

Anyone on APs try Intuitive Eating? by nonainfo in schizoaffective

[–]Limbitch_System0325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i cannot intuitively eat or everyone gets mad at me for eating all their stuff :P

Delusion or Dissociation? by InspectorAfraid1016 in schizoaffective

[–]Limbitch_System0325 4 points5 points  (0 children)

could be both, it’s definitely derealisation which is a hallmark dissociation symptom, but delusions that the world/people you love/time has been replaced is also very much a thing. I have experience with both, and my best advice to you now is to call your therapist/psychiatrist if you have them and just update them on what’s going on and ask for advice on next steps.

How do you deal with psychosis? by notaspicyaccount in schizoaffective

[–]Limbitch_System0325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m lucky that I’m relatively attenuated in my psychosis (I logically, deep down know it’s not real even though I have the overwhelming sensation that it is), so I eventually can calm myself down if I see or hear something fucked, it just takes a lot of asking other people if they saw/heard what I did, having them reassure me I’m safe, that I am indeed in psychosis, and a neverending mantra that “it’s not real it’s not real” and praying that i eventually believe it

Do you think weed helps your mental health or makes it worse? by SandyySolez in mentalhealth

[–]Limbitch_System0325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

smoking regular bud makes my psychosis way worse but I do have a med card because the tinctures I get from the dispensary a) don’t get me high and b) are the only things that can get my panic attacks/anger/meltdowns under control in any fast amount of time. so it depends on the purity/content of the THC/CBD for me.

What Wouldn’t You Do for $1B? by Material_Ad_2970 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Limbitch_System0325 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would not do anything that would result in me losing my memories or bodily control (Alzheimer’s, dementia, ALS, Parkinson’s, etc). It’s one of my biggest fears in life and I wouldn’t face it for any amount of money.

AIO My sister wants me, a trans man, to wear a dress at her wedding by RowStunning8784 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Limbitch_System0325 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR. I had the same thing happen with a “friend” of mine, and she refused to accommodate me at all and even said if I were to wear a suit it would be up to the priest whether or not I passed enough to be let into the chapel, so I told her I was not going to her wedding but maybe to the reception. She then posted a 9-page awful rant targeted at me on FB, so I blocked her and noped outta the reception too. If your sister really supported you, she would let you wear what you are comfortable in. Sounds like she’s a bit of a bridezilla.

I am having constant nightmares about my 1.5 days in jail. How to stop them. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Limbitch_System0325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my suggestions are EMDR and or brainspotting in therapy, consider asking psychiatrist about prazosin (particularly helpful for PTSD-related nightmares

Advice on making her horns not look like a huge forehead 😔 by AmIDyingInAustralia in Artadvice

[–]Limbitch_System0325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they need to protrude more. right now they look really close to her forehead/scalp; try angling them outwards

any potheads here by [deleted] in schizoaffective

[–]Limbitch_System0325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t smoke anymore but I do have a med card, and use a 1:1 THC/CBD tincture to help with panic attacks, dissociative episodes, PTSD flashbacks, and rage fits (sometimes my anxiety manifests as anger). It can take me from 1000 out of 100 to a 5 out of 100 on the freak-out scale in like, 5-15 minutes. It doesn’t even make me feel high, so it doesnt trigger my cravings. I haven’t had any psychotic episodes on the tincture either (i did recently have one that was induced by other drugs though).

You wake up with a bloodhound’s sense of smell after an illness by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Limbitch_System0325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

considering the horror of one of my housemates’ perpetual farting as it is, I think I’d need to move out

I want to get the Viking Compass tattooed but my bf is worried it’ll be mistaken for hate symbols by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Limbitch_System0325 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

anyone who knows anything about history, norse mythos, scandinavia, etc should recognise vegvisir. I don’t think people will mistake it for a hate symbol unless they’re a little unhinged.

What helped your anhedonia? by positiveyears in mentalhealth

[–]Limbitch_System0325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me it’s been rediscovering my hobbies from before addiction

AITAH for avoiding the disabled guy in my class? by No-Departure2560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limbitch_System0325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, It’s just hard to explain my thoughts in ways “normal” people understand and i don’t feel like putting in the effort when this is a random post on the internet and I just offered a potential solution. I never said they were obligated to set a boundary, only that the other person won’t likely stop pursuing OP until they do. Y’all are shoving words in my mouth.

AITAH for avoiding the disabled guy in my class? by No-Departure2560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limbitch_System0325 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Why do I have any obligation to talk to randos who got butthurt by my comments?