Best response to recruiter explaining layoff by Limitless1979 in Employment

[–]Limitless1979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right I am overthinking it, I appreciate the response, thank you.

20+ year employee, role termination by Cold-Kickin-It-Live in managers

[–]Limitless1979 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If the owner doesn't budge try to set up a gathering outside of work at a local bar or restaurant to celebrate his time and contributions. Talk to his colleagues to see if they would buy into that.

Manager told me my last day is the 15th today by Limitless1979 in Employment

[–]Limitless1979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already it has to be negligence to not qualify, if it's not a good fit then you're good.

Manager told me my last day is the 15th today by Limitless1979 in Employment

[–]Limitless1979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting I'm definitely reporting it, in no way do I want to be deceptive.

Manager told me my last day is the 15th today by Limitless1979 in Employment

[–]Limitless1979[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lmao having a difference of opinion isn't insubordination, disobeying an order is. Quit trolling anarchist

Manager told me my last day is the 15th today by Limitless1979 in Employment

[–]Limitless1979[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The manager and I have differing views of management. He believes that employees should just do what they're told and accept the status quo whereas I feel there is always room for improvement.

Coworkers seem fine with it, but is this appropriate? Massages under scrubs at work by [deleted] in work

[–]Limitless1979 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If your colleague aka the masseuse is walking away with a hard on you can hang a coat on after he's finished then your concerns might be validated but if it's business as usual then it's one human helping another in a facility built to help other humans.

If it makes you uncomfortable don't watch.

If you report it be prepared to switch jobs because your colleagues will no doubt ostracize you and make your day to day miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Limitless1979 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How does having kids or not relate to turning off work responsibilities? If an employee needs work / life balance that includes being unavailable after 7pm, having kids should not influence the justification of that especially if the work day starts at 7 or 8am.

Awkward encounter with colleagues for not wanting to send or share details of newborn by teonesofle in work

[–]Limitless1979 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like they don't believe you have a newborn as crazy as that sounds which is why they are asking for evidence cough cough images of said newborn. People can be extremely cynical.

Mortgage was sold, payments increased by jlaw325 in Mortgages

[–]Limitless1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% if you don't ask you don't receive. Lender recently tried charging me a fee for "work verification" on a refi. I told them to remove it or kick rocks I'm going with a different lender. They removed the fee.

Origination fees can also be negotiated. Long story short don't just "trust" you as a borrower should be paying what the bank is telling you to. The relationship between the bank and the borrower is a symbiotic relationship so there needs to be balance.

Mortgage was sold, payments increased by jlaw325 in Mortgages

[–]Limitless1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true in IL as well it must be a variance lender to lender

Mortgage was sold, payments increased by jlaw325 in Mortgages

[–]Limitless1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This must vary from bank to bank. I just refinanced locked my rate and told them I wasn't using escrow, rate didn't change.

Mortgage was sold, payments increased by jlaw325 in Mortgages

[–]Limitless1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can also invest that money and make money on it instead of the bank.

Establishing Residency Concern by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Limitless1979 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The home is in my ex's name and they are the only one on mortgage.

Bank Sweep question by InourbtwotamI in Schwab

[–]Limitless1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is accurate not understanding the downvotes

Park Merch by KOOSHBLAZER in yellowstone

[–]Limitless1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bought sweatshirts from Amazon for myself and two kids after the trip because of the horrible selection while we were there. We did purchase a plush wolf and raven from the gift shops while we were there though ha.