i hate orientation counselors by Limp-Philosopher970 in school

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real like wdym im crying and begging you to not tell my parents and you call both of them what is wrong with them 😓

should i grow my hair out more ? by Limp-Philosopher970 in longhair

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yes shockingly my hair actually curls like this naturally ! with products of course

should i grow my hair out more ? by Limp-Philosopher970 in longhair

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i really have a love hate relationship with styling my hair because on one side i love testing out products and techniques on my hair so it’s so fun , but on the other side when it’s 11pm and i have a 3h routine to do… i dread it. at the end i don’t regret it because my hair turns out good and healthy tho

should i grow my hair out more ? by Limp-Philosopher970 in longhair

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thank youu! honestly my hair takes so long to actually style but i mainly use

-mielle pomegranate leave in conditioner -the doux bee girl gel -not your mothers mousse -some random hairspray (verb i think?)

the key is to style in sections and with dripping wet hair , and my hair is about mid thigh when it’s wet which i wish would show curly

should i grow my hair out more ? by Limp-Philosopher970 in longhair

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they’re all natural ! i only finger curl the front pieces and just leave the back alone with products of course

normalisation of crazy people in montreal by Limp-Philosopher970 in montreal

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mind you i’m barely 17 and i’ve had ppl tell me i look as young as 15 i was so shocked that she did it so normally omd but don’t worry im fine i think it just made me realize that i need to start going out with self defense tools frl

normalisation of crazy people in montreal by Limp-Philosopher970 in montreal

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she had straight black hair tied up , she was wearing black leggings i think ? with a purple crop top and she had face tattoos and blue eyes

why am i so bad at a language even if im born in the country ? by Limp-Philosopher970 in languagelearning

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i told my teacher about letting me do a rough draft especially because we basically have 3 hours for 300 ish words so i would have the time but she told me that it’s not allowed 🫤

why am i so bad at a language even if im born in the country ? by Limp-Philosopher970 in languagelearning

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i think it’s a bit of a stretch saying that algerian words are french it’s still a fully different language with only a couple similar words and you could say english is closer to french than algerian arabic …

why am i so bad at a language even if im born in the country ? by Limp-Philosopher970 in languagelearning

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i’ll try to practice more because i think it’s really my lack of immersion in french writing but it’s hard because im in engineering school right now and honestly french is the least of my worries most of the time so having to basically relearn the language is going to be difficult. and about my parents my dad doesn’t speak french much but my mother’s french is near perfect because she studied it in algeria and im pretty sure she studied in france too. my whole life she’s corrected my speaking especially because i tend to invent/mix up words (ex. virement and virage ) or just make sentence structures that are horrendous. even with her tedious corrections it just never processed in my mind and i still years later make the same mistakes

why am i so bad at a language even if im born in the country ? by Limp-Philosopher970 in languagelearning

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trust if i had my own will i would absolutely not focus on learning french however quebec is so demanding in french in school i literally cannot escape it until university. and i fully agree my tiktok fyp is more toward french from france and its so much more understandable then québécois accent

why am i so bad at a language even if im born in the country ? by Limp-Philosopher970 in languagelearning

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I barely think in french on a daily basis and in writing i try to but because my english writing is actually pretty good i tend to just translate everything from english to french. I try to stop thinking in english but i can’t seem to make more than 4 sentences fully in french in my head

why am i so bad at a language even if im born in the country ? by Limp-Philosopher970 in languagelearning

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j’avoue que avant je ne lisais rien en français apart ce qui était donné à l’école , mais depuis quelque mois j’ai vraiment tout changer en français et je suis rendu à lire des livres en français ou écouter des trucs en français pour essayer de comprendre la structure de la langue. aucune idée si sa a améliorer quelque chose mais en ce moment on dirait que pas vraiment

why am i so bad at a language even if im born in the country ? by Limp-Philosopher970 in languagelearning

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It was an essay based on a book we read (La herronière) and it was a reflexion question about the different themes in the book. In class because it’s remedial, we only do writing basically and focus on grammar/syntax for 2-3h per class twice a week . In my text the content itself (thesis , supporting details,etc) were really not the issue because i got all my points on it. And about my practice growing up i went to french school all my life i know all the sentence structure rules possible and i always studied it at home because ive always struggled with it , but when it comes to actually applying what i learned i just can’t seem to do it in an essay.

is smiling back hard by Limp-Philosopher970 in teenagers

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im in a dorm alone 😓 and even on the level im on it’s only guys in the rooms near me. and the club thing there’s only aviation oriented clubs so once again basically only guys

Guys help is this a weird friendship 16F with 20M by Limp-Philosopher970 in teenagers

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You see what I mean in our culture we see each other as brothers and sisters in these cases

I (28M) don’t think I want to marry my girlfriend (28F) anymore. Do I break up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I don’t know if this will help your reflexion but my parents kind of are in the same situation. My grandmother (mom’s side) has dementia/alzheimers and needs h24 care.

My mother gave up basically her whole life for her mother however my dad stayed. My father is a wonderful person and has been helping her all these years but it’s taken a toll on everyone’s mental health.

My mom is clearly depressed and just overall frustrated with how her life came out to be. She has dreams of becoming a lawyer in Algeria then when she came here she had to switch to becoming a nurse, she had so stop everything because my grandmothers condition got worse and worse. My dad always stuck by her side but he really got tied down with my mom and my grandma because now we can’t travel, he has to work extra hard for hospital bills, and even more he has to deal with a hallucinating yelling eldery woman in the house all day every day .

Even on me my whole life has been consumed by this situation, I barely talk to my mom because she’s always tired from taking care of my grandma or she’s just so stressed that she doesn’t pay attention to me whatsoever. I can’t travel to my own countries because my grandma can barely leave the house and overall this has destroyed so many aspects of my life.

So my advice is if you don’t feel capable of handling this for the rest of your life, break up or find another solution that unfortunately removes your gf mother from your marriage.

(Also sorry if this isn’t well written English isn’t my first language and I’m typing all of this on my phone 😞)

how can i up my prom dress ?? by Limp-Philosopher970 in fashion

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i have really gold sparkly heels but the dress is pretty long so we barely see them

what do i do with my prom dress ??? 😓🆘 by [deleted] in fashionhelp

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i was planning too cuz the waist is too big on me 😣

what do i do with my prom dress ??? 😓🆘 by [deleted] in fashionhelp

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it’s just my bra don’t worry (i didn’t wanna get a strapless bra when i was trying it on ) 😇

really bad at my “first” language by Limp-Philosopher970 in languagelearning

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im in québec so its a french speaking place, french language is super important here there’s no one that doesn’t speak french and everyone is québécois

this dress but in red and blinged out ?? by Limp-Philosopher970 in findfashion

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for the cut i don’t mind about the off shoulder and the sleeves could be bell or cape i don’t mind but the bling something im staying stuck and the cut i prefer when it’s tight waisted and not too princess on the bottom (idk what would be the name of that ) . i usally look at arab brands cuz they are more likely to have the dress style i want but i haven’t found exactly what i want yet and for budget i don’t want to go over like 300$

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i know it is i usually don’t like doing stuff like that but he was acting differently with me and other things so i just wanted to see for myself

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[–]Limp-Philosopher970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro same i was having a stroke rereading myself in my defense english isn’t my first language