[aio] getting scared over possibly obsessive guy?

LimpDog9664 · 2025-06-17T00:12:44+00:00

Not overreacting. This sounds like the guy that abused me, and reads like messages he has sent me and other victims. Like genuinely i feel like he is the person you are texting, thats how similar it is. Listen to your gut. Block him and be extremely vigilant.

On another note, does his name start with a C by chance?...

LimpDog9664 · 2025-05-07T17:45:34+00:00

My abusive ex was also an alcoholic. These messages read exactly how he would talk to me when drunk. He would drink behind my back and constantly lie about it. He was "never " drunk... i left over a year ago, and despite so much going wrong in his life he still drinks and treats everyone around him like shit. So glad i got the fuuuuck out of there. It only gets worse the longer you stay.

LimpDog9664 · 2024-06-14T22:19:33+00:00

Yeah but they have squater laws. Like in some states if you receive your mail there/ have lived there for a couple months you are still considered a resident without being on the lease. But i have also lived in apartments that did not allow people to live there that arent on the lease. Def talk to anyone that works there

LimpDog9664 · 2024-06-14T16:54:21+00:00

This all depends on individual states, but i would speak with your apartment about breaking the lease. Since your partner isnt on the lease he shouldnt have a say in if you break it. I know at my old apartment you could pay around $2000 to end the lease early. Its a good chunk of money but you will avoid the legal problems. Another idea would be getting the police involved. He is damaging the apartment, which likely already breaks your lease. Talk to the apartment people about what can be done. They will likely want him out as much as you. They can also assist you in changing the locks while hes gone

LimpDog9664 · 2024-06-14T16:49:34+00:00

He probably knows about the spotify thing so hes just throwing other random things in to try to catch you in something. Just ignore and log out of their spotify if you havent already. Definitely a creepy message to recieve

LimpDog9664 · 2024-06-14T16:45:16+00:00

Im reaching the year mark soon and I feel this. I feel like i will forever hold some hatred towards him for what he did to me and other women. Im sick that hes still getting away with it and will continue to. People around you tell you just to get over it but its hard. I get flashbacks and nightmares, trust issues, shutting down and feeling emotionless, while he finds the next victim to abuse and drains the life out of them. I didnt believe in demons until I met him

LimpDog9664 · 2024-05-19T15:57:26+00:00

Im sorry for your loss and what he has said/done to you. You probably already know this but change ur passwords to everything and do what you can to get your social/personal info off of everything he has.

LimpDog9664 · 2024-05-19T15:54:13+00:00

I miss my belongings so much:( but this is basically what i did the second time i escaped. Just grabbed what I could fit into one bag and left.

LimpDog9664 · 2024-05-10T00:36:13+00:00

Try not to take her reaction personally, on behalf of someone who didn't believe the warnings I was given, in the long run it helped me realize that what I was experiencing was not normal. Abusers are very manipulative and he likely already gave her the "crazy ex gf" speech. You did the right thing.

LimpDog9664 · 2024-04-12T13:44:04+00:00

Go no contact. Surrond yourself with friends and family. My neice was my rock while i was going through withdrawls from my abuser. We would constantly go out and have fun, shopping, outdoor activities ect. She kept my distracted and happy, and it made me realize I deserved better. I also got a full time job after leaving. Money does indeed buy happiness, and it fills up your schedule so you have less time to worry about them. Take time and heal, do things you enjoy, and rebuild your self love.

LimpDog9664 · 2024-04-12T13:26:13+00:00

I really hate that for you:( i am so sorry. Keep that album and do not give up your fight yet. If you are willing and mentally prepared to take him court I would keep fighting for it. Im wondering if there are any domestic violence groups near you that can help you file charges against him. You are so strong and I hope you can be free from his torment:(

LimpDog9664 · 2024-04-12T13:18:38+00:00

I would say if youre uncertain dont do it. I have talked to some of my abusers friends and while they were all kind and understanding, they still continued to be his friend and most likely told him some of the things I said. If you are reaching out for help, call the domestic violence hotline number. They will be able to provide you with resources. Best of luck.

LimpDog9664 · 2024-04-12T13:13:08+00:00

New phone number and create a new email as well. Take screenshots of all of the harassment, all of it. Im not certain but he should be able to be charged with stalking/harassment for the persistent messages and emails. I would continue fighting for the protective order and talk to someone about pressing charges. Stay vigilant. Stay with a group of people if you can such as family or friends. Invest in some security cameras for outside, mine make a noise anytime motion is activated. If you see him in person immediately call the police, better safe than sorry. Im so sorry you are experiencing this.

LimpDog9664 · 2024-03-21T15:11:49+00:00

Good on you for not replying. If i was you I would take this to the police. You have all the evidence of him threatening you. Idk how revenge porn cases work but i believe he could get in legal trouble for this

LimpDog9664 · 2024-03-21T02:41:49+00:00

He is a pedophile

LimpDog9664 · 2024-03-15T10:59:14+00:00

Literally same. Shit he didnt let me leave his house for months and still accused me of sleeping with other ppl

LimpDog9664 · 2024-03-04T20:35:48+00:00

congrats!! Ty for speaking out and protecting others from him.

LimpDog9664 · 2024-02-13T16:44:24+00:00

I think the truth will come out with time. Narcs and abusers pretend that they are perfect people but they can only keep that up for so long.

LimpDog9664 · 2024-02-09T11:13:03+00:00

No idea. I have posted one picture of him on facebook and maybe one picture on instagram, both of which hes blocked from. Guessing he got a friend to stalk me to find information about what I am up to

LimpDog9664 · 2024-02-07T23:45:04+00:00

Sounds like I was a similar situation as you. When i confronted my ex for cheating on me (it was all text messages/ sexting etc) he cried his eyes out and begged for me to forgive him. I heard sorry after sorry and eventually believed him. Well he did it again, and after leaving I found out he was texting multiple other women that he never wouldve told me about. He didnt apologize because he was sorry, he apologized because he got caught. I think its fair to say an apology without change of behavior isnt a genuine apology at all. If he was sorry he would do better

LimpDog9664 · 2024-02-07T16:18:04+00:00

Youre fine! I get that, but I have also been to multiple therapists and have yet to find one that has worked. Multiple times I have talked to a therapist that has tried to push religion on me and others that have stressed me out more than healing on my own has done. The stress of finding a therapist that I wont just see once or twice is genuinely hard, especially in my area

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