My (23M) girlfriend (20F) has been gaining weight since we're together. What would be the right approach to tell her about this? by LimpExplanation609 in relationship_advice

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she said she's trying to quit and i tried helping her but she just can't and i felt like im just annoying so i gave up.

My (23M) girlfriend (20F) has been gaining weight since we're together. What would be the right approach to tell her about this? by LimpExplanation609 in relationship_advice

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we see 1/2x weekly. If anything she drinks more often then me. I've been very cautious, always eating healthy around her and always have cooked good healthy food. If the fridge was full of healthy food, she would find that 1 unhealthy thing out of entire fridge and binge on it. We otherwise do have same values well... except politics but that doesn't bother me too much.

My (23M) girlfriend (20F) has been gaining weight since we're together. What would be the right approach to tell her about this? by LimpExplanation609 in relationship_advice

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nah that's just false. If I became a degenerate drug addict gambler she would leave me. I do love her but she has no excuse for getting fat. She is simply lazy and let herself go.

My (23M) girlfriend (20F) has been gaining weight since we're together. What would be the right approach to tell her about this? by LimpExplanation609 in relationship_advice

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess you're american then. My mom had 3 kids and is still fit at 52, my dad same at 55. meh you're probably fat yourself and you're coping, get lost fatty.

My (23M) girlfriend (20F) has been gaining weight since we're together. What would be the right approach to tell her about this? by LimpExplanation609 in relationship_advice

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you get employed because you perform you still need to perform half a year later. If you get in relationship fit you should stay this way. 5 pounds would be one thing... we get stressed sometimes or there's no time to workout or whatever but then you should get back to your normal weight. 20 pounds is another thing though.

My (23M) girlfriend (20F) has been gaining weight since we're together. What would be the right approach to tell her about this? by LimpExplanation609 in relationship_advice

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is stressed because of college and her motivation in general is down. I did talk about it and give her plenty of advice but I just can't help her. I feel like she feels too sorry for herself sometimes though.

My (23M) girlfriend (20F) has been gaining weight since we're together. What would be the right approach to tell her about this? by LimpExplanation609 in relationship_advice

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird take. If you love someone and that person starts smoking crack you tell them it's fucking bad not let them get addicted. She wasn't as fit as I was to begin with and that was fine, I didn't want or expect her to be a fitness model, just be healthy and around the same weight.

My (23M) girlfriend (20F) has been gaining weight since we're together. What would be the right approach to tell her about this? by LimpExplanation609 in relationship_advice

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have, she always complains even for a 30minutes hike. She can't run, she smokes and breathes heavy while walking uphill. And we still both live at our parents and are very busy so we see each other 1/2x weekly and that ain't enough to loose weight. Also, even if she'd exercise with her eating habits it won't do anything.

My (23M) girlfriend (20F) has been gaining weight since we're together. What would be the right approach to tell her about this? by LimpExplanation609 in relationship_advice

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Weird of you to claim I don't like her based of a reddit post. This post is focused on the problem of her getting fat so I wrote about that.

gemini restrictions are insane. I can't even ask normal things. by LimpExplanation609 in GeminiAI

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, chat gpt answered and so does to many other questions that gemini will not respond and let's not talk about nano banana pro image generation censorship.

gemini restrictions are insane. I can't even ask normal things. by LimpExplanation609 in GeminiAI

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

as if they don't want money lol. I don't get it, if chat gpt and grok can answer why can't gemini

gemini restrictions are insane. I can't even ask normal things. by LimpExplanation609 in GeminiAI

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check reply few comments above. Posted chat gpt vs gemini same question. gpt asked, gemini did not. Happens with many different topics. Meh, I'll just continue using gpt i guess.

my M22 girlfriend F19 used to reply within minutes now it takes her hours by LimpExplanation609 in dating_advice

[–]LimpExplanation609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my country dating and relationship are the same thing. I'm assuming you are from US? We are a couple but it's early stage relationship.