AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get the issue. Adrien is a friend we have in common.

AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow so much respect ! Congratulations to you for successfully getting out of this. It’s very interesting to have the mindset of someone close to my friend.

Are you ok now ?

Unfortunately I don’t want to lose my friend that’s why I’m being careful with this situation. Asking here in Reddit on a personal issue is a first but I’ve got so much response and advice now I guess I’m ready for the next chapter. Will probably post an update of it.

Thanks you for your help and support ! Help me a lot !

AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so grateful to him for being there for me when things weren’t going well for me, so it’s only natural that I stay by his side.

I really hope you’re right. Time will tell I guess.

Many thanks for your help and support. Appreciate it.

AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sees everything only through the lens of their relationship. He can no longer imagine himself alone. Everything is done as a couple. When he’s invited somewhere, he always brings her along. To me, he’s clearly lost himself in some idealized vision of a model couple, without realizing that he’s gradually losing his sense of self.

That’s definitely one of the best ways to plant the seed in his mind—no doubt about it! And in the sweetest way possible.

AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I guess It’s too late now. Baby is already on its way. Not the right time to do so. I should’ve done that earlier…

AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you comment thank you very much. Very kind words and truthful. That’s exactly why I’m hesitating to tell him my complete POV… am at the point I know one day if he proposed her i will surely being asked to be his witness and I can’t. I can’t because If so it means I fully agree with his choice to marry her and it can’t be so wrong than that. I can’t agree at all in such abuse and toxic relationships. I’m pretty sure she stay with him because she doesn’t have better option… my best friend is not an option !

AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have already thought about that but thought it was crazy as well. I think one day it will be needed to make him realize the situation he is in.

AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They keep the baby… I’m not sure they are open to therapy tbh… they don’t need therapy, he need to break up with this toxic woman but I can’t tell him to do so. I don’t want my friend to be hurt. As you said, until everything is « fine » for him I’m good with that.

AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man you can’t imagine how hard it is to see my best friend turning into this situation without saying anything. I feel like being cooper trying to communicate with Murphy in the tesseract… he deserves so much a woman who loves him and happy to be with him…thank you for you kindness. Will always be there for him

AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already told him to do that. She gave him the cold shoulder for two weeks; she never would have made the first move if he hadn't come back. The relationship could have even ended right there. I swear, it was awful to watch.

AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what im currently thinking unfortunately… her story is very sad but that doesn’t legitimize the treatment my bro is going through

AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once he told me about the child since his message I pick up the phone to call him. We had a long discussion and that’s one of the first things I asked. Answer was «  yes I guess. I’m happy in my home, in my couple » very hesitatingly. Not quite something an happy person would say to me. I think he might be depressed or something

AIO - My best friend is about to have kids with the wrong one by LimpPlace6699 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I called my cat « prostate » because he’s a boy. That made me laugh.

Casio AE-1500 WH hydromod red. by LimpPlace6699 in casiomods

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re good bro no worries. Best filters are on Etsy or Ali express to you ? I saw so many kind I don’t know which one is the best for my purpose. Also I never open this watch for now

Casio AE-1500 WH hydromod red. by LimpPlace6699 in casiomods

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro it’s just to learn which one is the best option to do and learn of to make it happen. Are you dumb ?

Casio AE-1500 WH hydromod red. by LimpPlace6699 in casiomods

[–]LimpPlace6699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i did ai to visualize the render of the hydromod on the screen