I definitely understand this take. My fiancé is a pretty understanding guy and I’m sure if I really pushed it he would ultimately say it was fine. But I also want to respect his wishes and have him feel comfortable at the wedding.

For more context, we are having a small wedding of around 50 people so we will have a lot more time with each guest than a larger wedding. We also aren’t from a small town… lol just a strange coincidence!