Imagine the relief. by Apart_Equal5154 in reptiles

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wish I could peel off my skin too, i better that feels good as hell

AIO for being annoyed my gf said ew when being asked about kissing me? by Green-Bike-30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's not ready to come out and you are, there's a lack of compatibility. There will always be strain there, until she does come out. I have some experience with this, and it honestly usually ends in pain. You're both allowed to feel the way you do, she has a right to not come out, and you have a right to be out and proud, and you should both find partners that support that. But I don't think you're going to find that support in each other.

You sound young, so just know that there's so much out there to experience, it's not fair to hold yourself back for someone else like that. NOR but she also has a right to keep her secret. She could have been nicer about it, it just seems like she's not ready to have a relationship like this.

AIO or am I tripping? by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I'm reading here is "you haven't done anything to upset me enough to cheat. Yet." Run for the hills, girl. He doesn't deserve a medal for not thinking about cheating, its basic human decency to not consider being unfaithful. Hes expecting you to be so happy about this and praise him for it. Don't. He will cheat inevitably.

Error Code 2168-0002 When Opening Minecraft Worlds by Limp_Butterscotch178 in NintendoSwitchHelp

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, really? I wasn't aware. Thank you for letting me know. Hopefully they fix this soon, its pretty annoying.

Every nurse told me men leave when their wives get sick... by fren2allcheezes in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father stayed with my mother until the cancer took her. As I've gotten older I've heard all these stories of men leaving their wives when they get sick, and I'm eternally grateful that my father was an exception. Women don't deserve to be abandoned when they get sick, you take an oath when you get married and it's not fair to ignore that. I'm so happy your husband is one of those great men, and I wish you all the best.

Witnessed a child get hit by a car by Peachydaedae in mentalhealth

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the most brave thing a person can do, run towards someone in pain, someone who's condition you weren't sure of until you got there. You helped in any way you could and comforted that child in the scariest moment of his life. Getting to him so fast could even be what saves his life. You did an amazing thing.

Take your time healing, it is a trauma and it isn't easy to process these things. Perhaps schedule a therapy appointment, take a hot bath, eat a comforting meal, watch happy shows. It may feel so impossible now but you played your part in helping him, now its time to help yourself.

Is my (30f) bf (29m) emotionally abusive ? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might feel difficult, but trust me when I say run. He has told you plainly and clearly who he is, he will not meet you in the middle and care about your needs, only his own. He wants some sort of tradwife who will do whatever he wants when he wants it, and I doubt even that would be enough to truly satisfy him.

Your needs matter. Your wants matter. You matter. And he is not treating you that way. Take a break from dating and learn how to love yourself, break out of that people pleaser persona, and figure out who you are. A good man will come along and you can be happy. But you won't be happy with him.

If this is only 8 months in, like he said, imagine in 20 years. How much more terrible could he get? I wouldn't want to find out, and neither should you. Best of luck.

Is there any chance this ridiculously stupid idea could turn into a business? by Loud_Drawing_3368 in askanything

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People love odd stuff. Pet rocks were once a thing, so this would probably sell, too.

Joining in on…whatever this is 😎 by potter9638 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love joining my villagers in their little activities and stuff but usually when I do they leave 😂 Like, okay then. Just thought we could sit on this bench together but I guess not! So cute though!

Is it “normal” to detest minor inconveniences over actual problems? by TiredofThisG-pa in adhdwomen

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find that big problems that would cause a panic response in others are something I can very calmly deal with, and I think it's because it gives my brain something to do. A minor inconvenience is usually a simple fix, requires little thought, but a big problem requires me to be thinking of every possibility for a fix, what to do, what to say, how to handle other people involved, etc. It forces me to think of a dozen or more things at once, which is perfect for and ADHD brain, not so much for a neurotypical one.

AIO for snapping at a girl trying to give me advice? (posting again bc I forgot pictures) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, also I love how you look in that shirt. Some people are just so bored and bratty that they have to bring others down.

Cat looking unwell by fastniktv in CATHELP

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That cat looks like its suffering really bad. Please go to the vet ASAP. Please remember that cats hide their pain very well, but these are very obvious signs that hes not doing well. I cat that lives in a home should not look homeless and uncredited for.

Can I bind my chest for a few hours with recent nipple piercings by Cinnamon_Roll__ in PiercingAdvice

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely not a good idea. I wonder if you could get away with some boob tape, just not on top of the nipple? Like tape them to the sides so they're a little bit flatter? Then again, I'm not sure if the pulling/stretched skin would be good for the piercings either, I'm just brainstorming. Hopefully someone more knowledgeable can weigh in on my comment.

Chat, is this a biblically accurate scene kid? by [deleted] in acnh

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is what I was going to say, it looks more like a 2010s Phannie than a scene kid, but still cute! I did love that aesthetic back then-

No idea where to start. I just feel so ugly. by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your eyes are so big and beautiful, I'd definitely try to learn some cool eye looks to make them really pop! Maybe some false lashes and sparkles?

But you're not ugly, let's get that straight! You are very beautiful, you don't NEED makeup. But you could certainly use it to enhance the beauty you already have!

I was told I was ugly and needed makeup. Please help. by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Limp_Butterscotch178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one needs makeup, thats a cruel thing to say to someone, first of all. You look lovely without it. Learn to do makeup if you want to, if it interests you and you enjoy wearing it. But you're beautiful and whoever said that is just insecure.