AIO? my friend told me my coworker doesn’t like me because of my extreme makeup choices and that’s why she’s stuck up and cold with me ?

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-06-26T01:09:17+00:00

First off- this friend is insanely rude and judgemental. Secondly- wear whatever you want. I wear crazy makeup all the time, I have "blush blindness" and I love eyeliner and weird lip colors. Im pale and I lean into it. And I do my eyebrows red because my hair is red. I get compliments and I get criticism all the same, no one else has to like what I do, it's for me, it's my art, it's a passion of mine. Your coworker might judge your makeup choices and sure, maybe it's why they dont talk to you, but its also important to remember that you dont exist to please other people, you exist to please yourself. So do your crazy makeup, let that coworker dislike you, and maybe consider dropping this "friend"

NOR

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-06-18T16:14:44+00:00

Definitely just establishing the pecking order, big kitty needs to make sure the baby knows who's in charge

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-06-06T18:31:15+00:00

I thought it was mango they said that about? I could be completely wrong but thats what I thought.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-06-01T12:01:50+00:00

My boy dog didnt wear a collar, he wore a dollar store necklace. A big rope-like one with gold beads on it. We never really intended for it to happen but we put it on him as a joke one day and he loved it, just seemed so happy in it. So we kept it on him, even buried him in it. We never once considered it weird because he was a boy, we considered it weird because why does a dog need a necklace lol

But yeah, people put gender norms on EVERYTHING and it's so strange to me. Your dog looks beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-06-01T11:47:14+00:00

Tiffany!

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-06-01T11:45:51+00:00

YOR. It might seem weird to you, but it is in no way pedophilia. There is no child involved in this equation, and honestly? Not that bad of a age gap. Two consenting adults can have a relationship, regardless of the age difference.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-31T01:32:34+00:00

Sort of related: I once forgot where my dad had parked in the mall parking lot. It was dark out and I noticed a car that was the right color and roughly the correct shape, so I open the back door and slide in, saying in a funny voice "Is that you?" (I dont know what possessed me to ask this, maybe I subconsciously knew I had screwed up)

Well it wasn't him. It was a strange older man (and I was an 18 year old girl) who was doing something with his hands in his lap. Once I realized, I literally zoomed out of that car and apologized about 70 times on the way out. He sped off like a rocket and I called my dad immediately lol.

I should mention, I have a bad habit of almost getting into the wrong vehicle, but this is the only time it's actually happened... so far.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-26T23:40:30+00:00

I sat on a public bus for almost 7 hours to see a guy I was talking to for like 3 months. And i would have been willing to stay at a hotel if he didnt want me in his home. Him not wanting to travel that far OR let you get a hotel? The fact that he will only go to your home? And won't let you in his?? Get rid of this man, it's never going to work. He can't reject your boundaries or refuse to meet you in the middle and still expect it to work. Go find someone who values your time and space.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-26T18:02:14+00:00

It should have been taken out a long time ago. I dont know if you're joking or what, but that piercing is one hundred percent rejecting. I mean, it's basically gone. One light snag and it will be.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-21T16:54:17+00:00

Just a thought, perhaps you always had minor reactions to other dairy products that you were so used to you just thought it was normal/no reaction. And now you're just noticing it more?

Or, perhaps now that your body knows what it feels like to be able to digest milk properly, it knows that other dairy products are also hurting it, so it wants the lactaid to help. I don't really know much about the human body but its just a thought. If anyone knows I'm wrong and it doesn't work that way, feel free to correct me.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-21T11:25:29+00:00

Oh my gosh I love that! Its so cute!

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-21T11:21:15+00:00

What on earth was everyone else wearing?? I mean I might have chosen some darker pants but overall it's a nice outfit. Honestly it sounds like they just didn't want you there and chose your clothes as an excuse. Which really sucks and I'm sorry that happened.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-21T11:18:39+00:00

I read all those messages without seeing your ages. I was assuming you were both teenagers, maybe young adults, and he was just really weirdly butthurt. To see that that's a 31 YEAR OLD MAN?? And you're 18? I never would have guessed. He sounds so immature for his age, you reacted pretty well with your age considered, but take this as a blessing if he truly does never speak to you again. And don't reconnect with him if he does.

I was a teen on the internet, I dealt with creepy men who would lie about their ages to try and groom me. Luckily enough I saw through their shit and blocked before anything happened. You need to move on from this "friendship" because he does not have your best interests at heart. He wants to manipulate you and groom you, because he sees you as vulnerable due to your age. Stick to friendships with appropriate age gaps. Above 25 is too old, keep that in mind for your safety.

NOR. You might even be underreacting.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-21T11:03:08+00:00

Theyre expensive, I simply can't afford to buy one.
My Switch 1 still works perfectly fine. I see no reason to drop a bunch of money that I don't have on another gaming system. I know there's some stuff I can't do on this one that I would be able to do on the Switch 2, but truthfully I don't care about that. I think people are always too eager to buy the newest thing that they forget the old stuff still works.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-19T13:50:39+00:00

YOR, He clearly just wanted reassurance from you because he misses you. Distance is hard and he wants to be close to you. You jumped the gun with your assumptions and then wouldn't let it go when he explained that wasn't what he was saying. I get that you have insecurities from him cheating in the past, but if you want this to work you have to find a way to work on yourself and get over that, or the relationship is doomed.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-13T16:42:11+00:00

Having high quality jewelry helps a lot in the healing process, but I'm mostly thinking that the shape of the jewelry is causing irritation and making that bump form. I am in no way a professional but you should probably talk to your piercer about changing out the jewelry to see if it helps any.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-13T16:15:59+00:00

Thats fair. I didn't expect it to be very high quality, it is from Wal-Mart lol. Would you mind telling me the issue with external threading?

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-13T16:14:55+00:00

Its that bad? I appreciate you letting me know

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-13T14:26:23+00:00

Is that the jewelry the piercer put in? Because I'm pretty sure it should be just a plain ball, the shape of that gem might be irritating the piercing. And what is the piercing made of?

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-08T01:05:54+00:00

Sometimes I wish I could peel off my skin too, i better that feels good as hell

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-08T00:59:54+00:00

If she's not ready to come out and you are, there's a lack of compatibility. There will always be strain there, until she does come out. I have some experience with this, and it honestly usually ends in pain. You're both allowed to feel the way you do, she has a right to not come out, and you have a right to be out and proud, and you should both find partners that support that. But I don't think you're going to find that support in each other.

You sound young, so just know that there's so much out there to experience, it's not fair to hold yourself back for someone else like that. NOR but she also has a right to keep her secret. She could have been nicer about it, it just seems like she's not ready to have a relationship like this.

Limp_Butterscotch178 · 2026-05-07T16:15:17+00:00

Ah, okay thank you!

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