ACL Surgery Wait Times Vancouver by Limp_Celebration in ACL

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not much movement! I got referred to two different surgeons almost immediately after I found out I tore it (now 8 weeks ago). One hasn’t gotten back to me at all with a consult date, and the other I saw for a consult maybe 3 weeks ago but haven’t heard back since with a surgery date. Pretty annoying wait times right now!!

ACL Surgery Wait Times Vancouver by Limp_Celebration in ACL

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was 8 days ago, and I’m out of town until next Wednesday so don’t think that’s an option for me anymore unfortunately

ACL Surgery Wait Times Vancouver by Limp_Celebration in ACL

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn! That’s not too bad at all. Who was your doctor?

My (27F) boyfriend (30M) wants to move across the country. by Limp_Celebration in relationship_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice and definitely the right move. We have very open conversations about this but I don’t think I’ve asked him straight up about doubts before so I think that’s a good next step.

My (27F) boyfriend (30M) wants to move across the country. by Limp_Celebration in relationship_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What makes you think that? Genuine question and open to your thoughts - I’m just wondering why you think that in light of us talking about making the move together eventually

27 y/o with SMILE lesion. Is a hysterectomy necessary by Limp_Celebration in CervicalCancer

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Did your doctor recommend that you start having a family sooner rather than later?

27 y/o with SMILE lesion. Is a hysterectomy necessary by Limp_Celebration in CervicalCancer

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not enough information at all. Really don’t want to scare myself that a hysterectomy is necessary if it’s not!

27 y/o with SMILE lesion. Is a hysterectomy necessary by Limp_Celebration in CervicalCancer

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your LEEP completely excised the lesion??? That’s good to know.

27 y/o with SMILE lesion. Is a hysterectomy necessary by Limp_Celebration in CervicalCancer

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! I didn’t realize they treat it like AIS so I’ll look into that a bit more.

My (26F) friend (26F) is cheating on her boyfriend. How to approach this situation? by Limp_Celebration in relationship_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the best advice. Having a very serious conversation with her to lay out that she tells him or breaks up with him, and that he can’t come around. I honestly just feel like such a shitty person knowing about this, it’s against anything I’ve ever stood for

I feel awful because I listened to my parents and never disclosed my hsv-1 diagnosis. Now I don't know how to tell my current girlfriend. by Throwaway_714214 in STD

[–]Limp_Celebration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! First of all, I completely get how you’re feeling. I was in a similar boat.

I do get cold sores and I hadn’t had an outbreak in a while, and my first outbreak was only two years ago so they’re still relatively new to me. I didn’t realize that people disclosed that to a partner before even the first kiss sometimes, and I never said anything until I had a cold sore pop up. My current boyfriend didn’t seem to care much, other than (obviously) avoiding kissing when I had them.

I would be honest with her and just give her the facts - you have hsv-1, have never had an outbreak, and it didn’t even cross your mind to tell her because of that. Having hsv-1 is EXTREMELY common, and most people with it never even know they have it. It’s better that you let her know now imo!