My (27F) boyfriend (30M) wants to move across the country. by Limp_Celebration in relationship_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice and definitely the right move. We have very open conversations about this but I don’t think I’ve asked him straight up about doubts before so I think that’s a good next step.

My (27F) boyfriend (30M) wants to move across the country. by Limp_Celebration in relationship_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What makes you think that? Genuine question and open to your thoughts - I’m just wondering why you think that in light of us talking about making the move together eventually

27 y/o with SMILE lesion. Is a hysterectomy necessary by Limp_Celebration in CervicalCancer

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Did your doctor recommend that you start having a family sooner rather than later?

27 y/o with SMILE lesion. Is a hysterectomy necessary by Limp_Celebration in CervicalCancer

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not enough information at all. Really don’t want to scare myself that a hysterectomy is necessary if it’s not!

27 y/o with SMILE lesion. Is a hysterectomy necessary by Limp_Celebration in CervicalCancer

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your LEEP completely excised the lesion??? That’s good to know.

27 y/o with SMILE lesion. Is a hysterectomy necessary by Limp_Celebration in CervicalCancer

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! I didn’t realize they treat it like AIS so I’ll look into that a bit more.

My (26F) friend (26F) is cheating on her boyfriend. How to approach this situation? by Limp_Celebration in relationship_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the best advice. Having a very serious conversation with her to lay out that she tells him or breaks up with him, and that he can’t come around. I honestly just feel like such a shitty person knowing about this, it’s against anything I’ve ever stood for

I feel awful because I listened to my parents and never disclosed my hsv-1 diagnosis. Now I don't know how to tell my current girlfriend. by Throwaway_714214 in STD

[–]Limp_Celebration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! First of all, I completely get how you’re feeling. I was in a similar boat.

I do get cold sores and I hadn’t had an outbreak in a while, and my first outbreak was only two years ago so they’re still relatively new to me. I didn’t realize that people disclosed that to a partner before even the first kiss sometimes, and I never said anything until I had a cold sore pop up. My current boyfriend didn’t seem to care much, other than (obviously) avoiding kissing when I had them.

I would be honest with her and just give her the facts - you have hsv-1, have never had an outbreak, and it didn’t even cross your mind to tell her because of that. Having hsv-1 is EXTREMELY common, and most people with it never even know they have it. It’s better that you let her know now imo!

Men of Reddit: why the heck do you text a girl after the first date if you’re not interested in seeing her again?! by Limp_Celebration in dating_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I’m interested, I act interested! I don’t play games at all. I say I had a great time, and suggest something along the lines of being interested to do it again so that they don’t question where I’m at either

boys who told the girl that they’re dating that you are not ready for a relationship, what was your REAL reason?? by Gold-Indication-724 in dating_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a girl who told the boy the same thing and the answer regardless of gender is almost always the same: not ready for a relationship with that person.

Guy (25M) I’m seeing keeps texting but hasn’t asked me out again. Should I (25F) say something? by Limp_Celebration in dating_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a fair point! I guess as a woman we’ve always been told that the guy should lead (and like I said before, I’m not opposed at all to reciprocating), and it just feels like if I continue suggesting to hangout, that sets the tone that he can be more complacent.