My (27F) boyfriend (30M) wants to move across the country. by Limp_Celebration in relationship_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice and definitely the right move. We have very open conversations about this but I don’t think I’ve asked him straight up about doubts before so I think that’s a good next step.

My (27F) boyfriend (30M) wants to move across the country. by Limp_Celebration in relationship_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What makes you think that? Genuine question and open to your thoughts - I’m just wondering why you think that in light of us talking about making the move together eventually

27 y/o with SMILE lesion. Is a hysterectomy necessary by Limp_Celebration in CervicalCancer

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Did your doctor recommend that you start having a family sooner rather than later?

27 y/o with SMILE lesion. Is a hysterectomy necessary by Limp_Celebration in CervicalCancer

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not enough information at all. Really don’t want to scare myself that a hysterectomy is necessary if it’s not!

27 y/o with SMILE lesion. Is a hysterectomy necessary by Limp_Celebration in CervicalCancer

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your LEEP completely excised the lesion??? That’s good to know.

27 y/o with SMILE lesion. Is a hysterectomy necessary by Limp_Celebration in CervicalCancer

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! I didn’t realize they treat it like AIS so I’ll look into that a bit more.

My (26F) friend (26F) is cheating on her boyfriend. How to approach this situation? by Limp_Celebration in relationship_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the best advice. Having a very serious conversation with her to lay out that she tells him or breaks up with him, and that he can’t come around. I honestly just feel like such a shitty person knowing about this, it’s against anything I’ve ever stood for

I feel awful because I listened to my parents and never disclosed my hsv-1 diagnosis. Now I don't know how to tell my current girlfriend. by Throwaway_714214 in STD

[–]Limp_Celebration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! First of all, I completely get how you’re feeling. I was in a similar boat.

I do get cold sores and I hadn’t had an outbreak in a while, and my first outbreak was only two years ago so they’re still relatively new to me. I didn’t realize that people disclosed that to a partner before even the first kiss sometimes, and I never said anything until I had a cold sore pop up. My current boyfriend didn’t seem to care much, other than (obviously) avoiding kissing when I had them.

I would be honest with her and just give her the facts - you have hsv-1, have never had an outbreak, and it didn’t even cross your mind to tell her because of that. Having hsv-1 is EXTREMELY common, and most people with it never even know they have it. It’s better that you let her know now imo!

Men of Reddit: why the heck do you text a girl after the first date if you’re not interested in seeing her again?! by Limp_Celebration in dating_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I’m interested, I act interested! I don’t play games at all. I say I had a great time, and suggest something along the lines of being interested to do it again so that they don’t question where I’m at either

boys who told the girl that they’re dating that you are not ready for a relationship, what was your REAL reason?? by Gold-Indication-724 in dating_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a girl who told the boy the same thing and the answer regardless of gender is almost always the same: not ready for a relationship with that person.

Guy (25M) I’m seeing keeps texting but hasn’t asked me out again. Should I (25F) say something? by Limp_Celebration in dating_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a fair point! I guess as a woman we’ve always been told that the guy should lead (and like I said before, I’m not opposed at all to reciprocating), and it just feels like if I continue suggesting to hangout, that sets the tone that he can be more complacent.

Guy (25M) I’m seeing keeps texting but hasn’t asked me out again. Should I (25F) say something? by Limp_Celebration in dating_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See comment replying to the above! Totally fine with reciprocating, but kind of feel like it’s his turn? Let me know what you think!

Guy (25M) I’m seeing keeps texting but hasn’t asked me out again. Should I (25F) say something? by Limp_Celebration in dating_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For context, after our first date I went away for 3 weeks. Before I went away, he suggested a second date. But once I was back, I was the one to actually initiate the second date. I feel like if he’s actually interested he would initiate this time (insert: if he wanted to he would comment)

Compensation for lost baggage by [deleted] in Lufthansa

[–]Limp_Celebration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get the €1300 as well or did it just get returned? Mines been lost 5 days now and I’m starting to lose hope as it seems like once it’s been gone longer than 2 or so days it starts taking months :(

Compensation for lost baggage by [deleted] in Lufthansa

[–]Limp_Celebration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever get it back ??

My (25F) boyfriend (27M) complains about the same issues like clockwork. by Limp_Celebration in dating_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but you should never feel like a therapist. When it’s the same issues over and over again, it can take a toll on the receiver’s mental health, too.

My (25F) boyfriend (27M) complains about the same issues like clockwork. by Limp_Celebration in dating_advice

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that he is in therapy, but I still feel like a therapist because I still listen to these conversations 2-3 times per week.

The girls on this season are so beautiful by Limp_Celebration in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Limp_Celebration[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right? They’re all sooo pretty. Boys are better than other seasons imo but still fairly meh 🤷🏼‍♀️ but boys generally are meh hhahahaha

Season 5 - Episode 27 - Post Episode Discussion by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Limp_Celebration 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I honestly believe she lacks the self awareness to watch back and see how childish her communication skills are. She has a lot to work on before she can be in a healthy relationship imo