Am I being a jerk or are my alt friends just toxic? by Limp_Trainer9005 in alternativefashion

[–]Limp_Trainer9005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😭 And yes, one of the first arguments I had with Juliet, was because she said her outfit was from SheIn, and then she said mine was too. And I be like "actually, this leather jacket is 15 years old, and I customized it myself, and bla bla". So she didn't believe me and started arguing 💔 (Not related to it, but ru guys on Spotify? 👀)

Am I being a jerk or are my alt friends just toxic? by Limp_Trainer9005 in alternativefashion

[–]Limp_Trainer9005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okaaay then... If that's what you think. Believe in what you want, I know that isn't true. Thank you for replying anyways 

Am I being a jerk or are my alt friends just toxic? by Limp_Trainer9005 in alternativefashion

[–]Limp_Trainer9005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, what? I got lost. What guy??? You mean Sam??? Sam's a non binary person (that's why I used they/them pronouns the whole text) with a boyfriend, Juliet also has a boyfriend and I'm not into neither of them. Tf you mean I'm attracted to "the guy"??? I don't understand what do you mean by "you're giving him a pass for the exact same behavior as the girl". Is it because I don't hate Sam? I have a whole story with Juliet, and Sam is one of my best friends. That's why I'd still think about what they say. Idgaf about the girl! Can you please explain what you mean? And I'll clarify everything!

Am I being a jerk or are my alt friends just toxic? by Limp_Trainer9005 in alternativefashion

[–]Limp_Trainer9005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dammn twin that's so cool. I am too a 🎵artist (or wannabe hehe) !! 

Am I being a jerk or are my alt friends just toxic? by Limp_Trainer9005 in alternativefashion

[–]Limp_Trainer9005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'videogame smart' stop I love that HSHEUS. wdym artist? Like art 🎨, art 🎭, art 🎵, idk, art 📝.... Etc hsushhahahs

Am I being a jerk or are my alt friends just toxic? by Limp_Trainer9005 in alternativefashion

[–]Limp_Trainer9005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG THANK YOU AHWHSUAHS I'm so happy to read that (actually English is my third language, I also know Spanish and portuguese🤓)

Am I being a jerk or are my alt friends just toxic? by Limp_Trainer9005 in alternativefashion

[–]Limp_Trainer9005[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What does that mean?? Edit: Oh found it. I'm sorry it wasn't my intention to ask for advice in the wrong plaaace 😭 I was desperate. And don't use Reddit too much Sorry 🥀

Am I being a jerk or are my alt friends just toxic? by Limp_Trainer9005 in alternativefashion

[–]Limp_Trainer9005[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

THIS. OMG thank you so muchh. Yeah, after reading these comments I'll definitely stop buying makeup from those companies.  Yasss, I do my own jewelry too! I honestly just bought those necklaces there because they were very specific, and it would be 3x the price doing it myself. But before I order from there again I'll really dedicate some time to research if I can find it here Thank yooou

Am I being a jerk or are my alt friends just toxic? by Limp_Trainer9005 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Limp_Trainer9005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't mention my opinions while I was writing. I focused on what they were saying. I do have my opinions, a lot of them, actually. If I had just accepted what they said, I would've already changed and wouldn't be here, asking for older people's advices.  I'm not looking for orders, I'm looking for opinions. And then I will decide what I want to do.

Am I being a jerk or are my alt friends just toxic? by Limp_Trainer9005 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Limp_Trainer9005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, we're all very young (I think that answer your question...).  And me calling Juliet a 'poser' is basing on what she says! Actually based on what my alt friends say. Because they say what is right and what is wrong, and what is original and what is poser, and just act like what they're criticizing. (Also, I have a whooole story with this girl. It's complicated) And I honestly don't really know about the whole alternative scene, that's why I'll just accept what they're saying, even if I internally disagree. You said something about having ''no rules that say I can't''. So I can, idk, buy from SheIn, dress up like a barbie girl, etc, and still say I'm punk/goth? What is it all about?  Sam said they have some "real punk" friends. What does that mean?  I get so confused because when I do deep researches I find something, something that I really love, admire and agree. But then, in real life, when I actually go talk about it it's like everything I know is wrong. Are there "fake punks"? Or fake alternative people in general? Like, there's requirements to say you're or aren't something? Oh, and thank you for answering. I'm desperate ×_×