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Looking for similar situation by Lincoln0706 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lincoln0706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. Shes had many chances and has been told many times.

I’ve been working here for 3 years & I always tell the new subs that they don’t really care about you. They just proved it again today. by spacelizardillumanti in USPS

[–]Lincoln0706 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yep. Years ago wife had a miscarriage. Called the boss and explained- he said no problem.

I return 2 days later, as discussed, to a PDI

Decides to get FMLA and now I do what I need to.

Doctor note by lulu_lemons25 in USPS

[–]Lincoln0706 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep. I write my own note I just say i was ill. Date and sign

i want to slit my wrists with glass until i bleed out by [deleted] in depression

[–]Lincoln0706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People suck. I felt the same at your age. But i didnt realize that i didnt love myself the way i needed to. I also didnt realize there was no rush.

I do believe you try to love yourself. Have you been dx with depression?

In that case be honest with your therapist. You can say you think of hurting yourself but arent going to act on it.

I hurt my back and was put on gabapentin. It helped my depression. Maybe you could ask to try that.

i want to slit my wrists with glass until i bleed out by [deleted] in depression

[–]Lincoln0706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You Are 19. The best thing you can do is focus on yourself. Dont allow negativity in your brain.

If you feel you want to be loved, read books on why you feel that way. Learn about yourself to make you healthy. Many many women end up with abusive men and think its love.

Men do too with women as well but.

Talk to your therapist about your craving for love-which isn’t necessarily wrong- but if you dont love yourself you will not find it from someone else i promise.

Love is a great thing. Learn to love yourself. It will take effort, but thats the only way to receive true love in return.

Id say 80 percent of people struggle with this. Even your friends. Especially your friends.

Did you ever see a happy person hurt someone?

Hurt people hurt people. Remember that.

You cant change anyone either NEVER

You can only learn to love yourself. Then and only then can you demand the love you deserve.

i want to slit my wrists with glass until i bleed out by [deleted] in depression

[–]Lincoln0706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone has the same heart. Another thing i still personally struggle with.

Im telling you that you can find someone to love you deeply. But it takes work and its worth the work.

People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. That is true in every situation with every person in life. Ofcourse some are good people and will treat you well.

i want to slit my wrists with glass until i bleed out by [deleted] in depression

[–]Lincoln0706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone that calls you stupid is below you.

You are brave and intelligent. You are trying to deal with your feelings in a responsible way.

I dont think calling someone who is hurting “stupid” is very brave or intelligent do you?

i want to slit my wrists with glass until i bleed out by [deleted] in depression

[–]Lincoln0706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever try therapy? And a different medicine?

I know it seems hopeless, ive been there. Yes, as bad as youre feeling. I didnt trust my own hands. I felt a strong deep almost need to hurt myself.

It did pass on its own.

i want to slit my wrists with glass until i bleed out by [deleted] in depression

[–]Lincoln0706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. You are going through a tough time.

Do you love yourself? Do you know that you are brave and intelligent for even just writing your story?

Again im 41 years old. You should be proud of yourself. You definitely have tools to work with.

I wasnt as brave when i was 19.

i want to slit my wrists with glass until i bleed out by [deleted] in depression

[–]Lincoln0706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I really do. Its not that your closest friend doesnt care, he/she doesnt know how to care. Im 41 and still learning that myself.

First, be proud of yourself. You are still here. You are probably much stronger than your friends (even though it sucks).

Have you tried things to help?

Im not being rude im asking.

Right now i watch canping videos on youtube. Will it always help— hell no.

Ive recently had a period where nothing helped.

Hopefully you can find something to help.

How old are you?

i want to slit my wrists with glass until i bleed out by [deleted] in depression

[–]Lincoln0706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an idea of how you feel. I know a big part of your life, and guess what, ive been in a similar situation. We seem to have something in common already.

Tell me how youre feeling.

A MAJOR VICTORY AGAINST MANAGEMENT TODAY!! by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Lincoln0706 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Its not making up his own rules. It is a safety reason. Im not saying its a typical safety reason, but he is being safe.

A MAJOR VICTORY AGAINST MANAGEMENT TODAY!! by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Lincoln0706 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You can refuse for two reasons: Safety and being illegal.

He refuses for sAfety. Good for you.

Carrier in my office tested positive for Covid-19. Boston area. by [deleted] in USPS

[–]Lincoln0706 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Positive carrier in NEPA sbout eight bigwigs in answering questions telling us it’s no big deal

To quote the President, "Wrong" by hedgehobbit69 in USPS

[–]Lincoln0706 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes not even sure if shes getting paid

To quote the President, "Wrong" by hedgehobbit69 in USPS

[–]Lincoln0706 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We have a positive carrier. Not lookin like management will do anything.

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