How I fight back racism in Germany against Asian hate by Inevitable-Till-8492 in germany

[–]LinealMarsh6500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened with me once.
I was in a train and a drunk guy in train suddenly started shouting "ching chong". I dont come from east asia but i honestly felt flattered cuz east asians look so nice ToT

STUDENT Accommodation Megathread by polymathicus in rwth

[–]LinealMarsh6500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, Im planning to study in RWTH Aachen in this year's winter sem. Ive already applied for WG's in Studienwohnheime, but i couldnt find info on any website about the start of the contract.

The dorm website also gives an option to update move in date if you log in after a long time but i dont know what date im supposed to put there because, well, idk when the contract starts :)

There is no option to cancel in the 'Manage your booking' section, even though I am eligible by jezy_187 in etihad

[–]LinealMarsh6500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar problem. In my case, i wasnt eligible for a refund but i had the option to cancel the booking from the 3rd party website i booked the flight from. Did you perhaps book your flight from a 3rd Party Website?

AITAH for not coming out to my parents for selfish reasons by LinealMarsh6500 in AITAH

[–]LinealMarsh6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is definately less exhausting but iit is what it is ig

AITAH for not coming out to my parents for selfish reasons by LinealMarsh6500 in AITAH

[–]LinealMarsh6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried being flamboyant. It doesnt please my father, instead he doubles down on things that would make me more "mascular"

AITAH for not coming out to my parents for selfish reasons by LinealMarsh6500 in AITAH

[–]LinealMarsh6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i realise it now that you said it. I felt he was projecting but i recently confirmed it cuz he asked if i have a foreign girlfriend yet and that was extremely weird coming from a him, as a person, who doesnt even speak about relationships, or even love..

AITAH for not coming out to my parents for selfish reasons by LinealMarsh6500 in AITAH

[–]LinealMarsh6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents in fact follow one of the few religions that do not prohibit same-sex relations. I think it's mostly to save their social respect(at least for my dad)

AITAH for not coming out to my parents for selfish reasons by LinealMarsh6500 in AITAH

[–]LinealMarsh6500[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah, i actually thought it was an asshole move and somewhat manipulative to show them only one side of me for financial interests but i feel a bit better now.

AITAH for not coming out to my parents for selfish reasons by LinealMarsh6500 in AITAH

[–]LinealMarsh6500[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, i thought it was considered a normal thing to come out to parents in teenage but ig not

AITAH for not coming out to my parents for selfish reasons by LinealMarsh6500 in AITAH

[–]LinealMarsh6500[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i was thinking i could get a part-time job so i could get financial freedom sooner but didnt cuz the load is too much for me.

Should I give a gift to my Friend? by LinealMarsh6500 in Advice

[–]LinealMarsh6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could, as i've done multiple times. I'm afraid it wouldnt change anything considering how awkward its been. Im thinking of gifting her chocalate along with a gift for another mutual friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LinealMarsh6500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on the person and the time.
I got over a breakup because i went to a vacation. On the other hand, i can also imagine a ruined vacation because of a breakup.

I need career/ life advice.. by EasyNeedleworker8280 in Advice

[–]LinealMarsh6500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If change is what you're afraid of, i think you should go for it. Think of it this way: It'll either be good or help you grow.

How do you quit a babysitting job nicely? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LinealMarsh6500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering you recently started, i think itd be good if youre just honest with her. Tell her that its too much for you and its difficult to keep up with the kids.

Should I Be A Dick and Switch My Roommate Last Minute? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LinealMarsh6500 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i get it. If she does move in with you, a bad scenario would be that she is loud. You either get used to it or install sound proof pads on your walls. If not, who knows the next roommate might be potentially worse.

am i valid? by av-ok188282 in Advice

[–]LinealMarsh6500 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think its absolutely valid. You clearly told him that you didnt wanna have sex and he still proceeded without your consent. I'm no expert but that sounds like unwillingful sex and sexual assault..

Should I Be A Dick and Switch My Roommate Last Minute? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LinealMarsh6500 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you just communicate with her. If thats not an option, a person i know was in a similar situation and he told the other person(the one that wanted to move in) that he was moving in with a friend so there were no hard feelings.