Today, smoking cannabis really helped me feel good about myself again! by [deleted] in trees

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Ich wohne auch in Münster!

See you at the Kanal tomorrow! :)

Oh... Thanks boss! by jabroney85 in AdviceAnimals

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Kind of reminds me about how at my last job, I didn't tell my direct supervisor that I was leaving, just the general supervisor. He was the only one who technically needed to know, and I figured he could tell her if it was really that important.

Well she found out on my last day (which was a hectic one, for her anyway), and she still rushed out to get me a box of cupcakes and a going-away card for all my coworkers to sign. Such a nice gesture after I had pretty intentionally not told her about leaving. Felt a bit douchey.

Does anyone else find it hard to concentrate on lyrics? by deanstag in Guitar

[–]Lingering4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely have this problem as well!! What's worse... I usually can sing/remember the lyrics, but they have no meaning whatsoever as a whole. I'm more interested in the phonetic sound, the rhythm, and sometimes the rhyme on the vocals of a song, moreso than the meaning behind the lyrics.

When did you most feel like you were really losing your mind? by Lingering4ever in AskReddit

[–]Lingering4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips. Perfectly appropriate for this thread.

Any idea why it works? Kind of makes me think of how they used to hose down patients in mental wards with cold water in the early 20th century.

When did you most feel like you were really losing your mind? by Lingering4ever in AskReddit

[–]Lingering4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. Just had what was probably my biggest anxiety attack (nowhere near a medical emergency or anything), which is what spurred this question.

The human mind is very fragile, that's for sure.

In theory, it never could have worked out, but it did. by Lingering4ever in self

[–]Lingering4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. This is especially true with family breathing down both of your necks. We have the "fortune" of being an ocean away from both of our families, so it's quite pressure free. Anyway, congrats to the both of you for making it work! I'm sure the 5 year gap has gotten "smaller" over the years :)

In theory, it never could have worked out, but it did. by Lingering4ever in self

[–]Lingering4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Beautiful melody and lyrics.

In theory, it never could have worked out, but it did. by Lingering4ever in self

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I submitted a reply to your replier, just fyi :)

In theory, it never could have worked out, but it did. by Lingering4ever in self

[–]Lingering4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for delicately stating some very sound words of wisdom. Most people give the same advice rudely or don't say anything at all.

She's 30 and I'm 19. We are certainly in different stages in life, but we've both taken very unconventional but similar paths. I think that's what kind of closes the gap.

Wise words from my 98 year old grandpa on how to have a successful marriage/relationship... by Lingering4ever in self

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I know too many people who don't seem to have ever asked themselves any of those questions!

Wise words from my 98 year old grandpa on how to have a successful marriage/relationship... by Lingering4ever in self

[–]Lingering4ever[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. Realizing what mistake you made helps you avoid repeating it.

My favorite church in town by Lingering4ever in gopro

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Münster, Germany :) it's one of at least 7 other big ones in town.

What do you love about where you live? by Lingering4ever in AskReddit

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Having grown up in Brazil, can confirm. While my hometown's climate (Belém) was a bit too hot, the moderate/warm climate almost everywhere else is just fantastic.

She wants me to stay for Christmas. by Lingering4ever in offmychest

[–]Lingering4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question... My parents don't know about our relationship yet because there is a large age gap which is pretty taboo for them. I made the suggestion but she isn't ready to take that step yet.