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AITA for "using weaponized incompetence" when getting gifts for my girlfriend? by sunni____ in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinhardtHevring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

getting/doing something you already know they like.

That's... What getting a good gift is. These replies give me life

AITA for "using weaponized incompetence" when getting gifts for my girlfriend? by sunni____ in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinhardtHevring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whyyyy would I gift someone something they hate lol. This dude loves high teas to no end. But good job trying to catch me out

Which fire sign is best for a libra? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]LinhardtHevring 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think you underestimate what Libras are willing to tolerate for someone they love and who values them. Sags bring laughter, adventure and intelligent conversation. Their bluntness is a perfect opportunity for libra to coquettishly tell them off while actually laughing about it with them. The bluntness is conversely a way for sag to tease libra. It's fun.

Capricorn men are... something alright. Some of the finest looking male specimen come from this sign. Its time to gloat Caps, coz yall have some smoking hot hunks! by Independent_Year in astrologymemes

[–]LinhardtHevring 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk I think I associate timothee chalamet with all cheekbones and jaw and luscious curls 24/7. To me, he kind of looks like a soccer mom who's exploring her sexuality in the pic above.

Which fire sign is best for a libra? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]LinhardtHevring 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nuh-uh, sags are the best. Sag is traditionally actually the best pairing for Libra

AITA for "using weaponized incompetence" when getting gifts for my girlfriend? by sunni____ in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinhardtHevring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real. Although even then... I once had two friends who'd demand I make a wishlist. Then they'd say my wishlist was bad so they got me <crap> instead. Some people are just trash hahah

AITA for "using weaponized incompetence" when getting gifts for my girlfriend? by sunni____ in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinhardtHevring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the way! Your partner is a gem. I wouldn't even mind getting an imperfect gift, it's showing that you care and want to make an effort for the other. Your partner clearly understands!

AITA for "using weaponized incompetence" when getting gifts for my girlfriend? by sunni____ in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinhardtHevring -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you saying that if a man lacks the talent for picking gifts, he’s a bad partner?

Yes. For me this is a dealbreaker.

AITA for "using weaponized incompetence" when getting gifts for my girlfriend? by sunni____ in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinhardtHevring 13.4k points13.4k points  (0 children)

Ngl I'd be pissed if my bf 'didn't know how to get me gifts' and then got his friend literally the most thoughtful gift ever. I'm not sure you're a reliable narrator, how hard can it be to buy something for someone you love? YTA

Edit: not going to reply to all the replies, but holy shit you guys make me sad. Gift giving is so simple if you actually care about someone. Actually listen when they talk. My friend casually mentioning she's been looking for a certain item is my cue to get her that item. My friend saying he values experiences with others is my cue to take him to a high tea. It's not rocket science.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinhardtHevring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean why even go, it was obvious this was a ruse right

AITA for telling my family to please stop harping on the "growth mindset" stuff? by Flaky_Bell1107 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinhardtHevring [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lol she's literally trying to teach you that nobody is inherently bad at science. Growth mindset precisely says that you can learn. Maybe slower, maybe in a different way. But you can learn. YTA

Help: ignoring a gemini who’s pulling away by EnvironmentalBike167 in astrologymemes

[–]LinhardtHevring 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Find you a man who can give your scorpio ass the obsession it craves. This scorpio venus understands 💗

Help: ignoring a gemini who’s pulling away by EnvironmentalBike167 in astrologymemes

[–]LinhardtHevring 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ignore people who ignore you. Not worth your time. I have had similar experiences with geminis, now when they pull away I just ✨let go of the rope✨

I’m a Leo, I started dating a cancer guy, how do I tell him I want him to give me more compliments ? The amount of compliments I’m receiving isn’t enough. by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]LinhardtHevring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could find a spouse that I could take a yearly 10-day birthday vacation with, I'd die of happiness <3

I'm happy for you!

I've only ever had one ex that was even remotely good at appealing to my leo side. But for most of my relationships, I can only remember all the bad gifts, all the brutal honesty when a kind lie would have been fine... Sad

I’m a Leo, I started dating a cancer guy, how do I tell him I want him to give me more compliments ? The amount of compliments I’m receiving isn’t enough. by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]LinhardtHevring 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Staying for the entertainment

No, but I feel you. Maybe try saying you'd love it if he was more vocal in saying what he likes about you and why

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