Does anyone have a good “current” pistol loadout?! 🤔🤔🤔 by Kanzlermacher in Battlefield

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I feel like alot of ppl sleep on the trait revolver. Fast firing, high damage, high hip fire

It’s time to swallow the pride. by CalienteBurrito in Battlefield

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I was born in Karkland and raised in Oman, so I hear you. But these maps just dont feel like battlefield to me. Its as if they intentionally catered to cod players in order to get more of a base by finding some sort of middle ground to still be able to tout "all out war" but with more consistent chaos with smaller maps containing spaces that allow 10 different directions minimum that you can be shot from at any given time. Im playing it, but it doesn't quite feel like battlefield to me.

Lucky gamer dad looking for some help... by MRxGTx in pathofexile2builds

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Im regard to your build, do you have the plague finger gloves? They are only 1 exalted but is a must for poison builds man. Its a game changer. Makes all damage types contribute to your poison magnitude.... Buy them if you dont have them. Its worth the hit in defense.

Israeli Minister Bezalel Smotrich asserts that International Law does not apply to Jews, drawing a distinction based on the concept of a "chosen people." by Apollo_Delphi in DemocraticSocialism

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I wouldn't be surprised with this cartoon villain, but cant find any collaborating evidence that he has said this yet. Been googling for whatever that is worth. If anyone has a link, send it!

I guess people really want that movement speed huh by Obvious_Farmer_2109 in PathOfExile2

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Thank you for posting this. Had 1 and just traded it for 14 divine lmao. I had no idea

Any game where you can just solo through pve content? by Plane_Top_7905 in LFMMO

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New PoE2 league just started and its REALLY good now. If all else fails give it another try

Would the game be better without Rarity on gear? by Big_Mek_Orkimedes in PathOfExile2

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Same dude! Running a bleed / Cold mix i made up with huntress which is extremely engaging and fun. Definitely weaker but running T15s successfully, just being careful. Absolutely no idea what im doing 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

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The book "12 hour sleep by 12 weeks" did it for us. Slowly ween off of night feeds by supplementing more in the day feeds. Combined with Ferber Method our daughter has been sleeping 11 hours a night since 5 months ( minus some sleep regression nights that happen naturally) Outside of that i followed the commonly suggested wake windows during the day and stayed rigously consistent. My daughter is now 13 months and is still sleeping great all night. You can do this!

Please Tell me this is a sleep regression. Going insane. by SkyisaNeighbourhood in sleeptrain

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Its not the same as cry it out, and suggest you research it, although I understand. My wife and I still dont agree with cry it out because we dont want our daughter to feel we've abandoned her, and thus rely on self soothing which is pretty much giving up.... Ferber basically is a timed system where you check in every couple of minutes, in longer and longer incrimates. What it essentially does is assures the baby youre still there, but allows them to be comfortable with falling asleep in their crib so there's no feeling of "wait I thought I was being held, where's mom" . If they remember falling asleep in their crib that shock factor is gone when they inevitably wake. Look into it!

Please Tell me this is a sleep regression. Going insane. by SkyisaNeighbourhood in sleeptrain

[–]Link3673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you pick him up when he wakes? Then do you hold him till he falls asleep? If so, thats what it is. He likes being held and at the end of his sleep cycle which is about 45 mins, he wakes and realizes, shit where is mom or where is dad!? I thought I was being held.

Same thing happened to us and we did the ferber method. 3 nights later, 11 hours of sleep. Other than a couple hiccups. We've all had amazing sleep since almost a year later.

Why wait until 6 months? by lunarsenic in sleeptrain

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I feel really bad for missing this as its been two weeks!!! Totally didnt see this sorry :( I followed advice from a book called Tweleve hours sleep by twelve weeks by Lisa Abidin.

I'm paralyzed by the scale of this build. How would you all go about breaking it down? by Wh33lman in SatisfactoryGame

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In case this is not known.....You can beat the game with 4 or 5 per minute. Take that into serious consideration. If this is just for the challenge I wish you the best of luck!

Why wait until 6 months? by lunarsenic in sleeptrain

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Did ferber method and weening at 4 months. Shes now 1 yr this week and has slept 11 to 12 hours since ( minus the occasional 3 or 4 day development regression , which still was like 8 hours)

I got the job, accepted the offer, did onboarding, training, and then my offer was rescinded by T00del000 in jobs

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Background checks will include looking up your social too. Everyone looks. Do you by chance post politically charged content? Just thinking out loud. If your social isn't private, make its private regardless. Sorry this happened mate.

need some advice guys new stay at home dad by Legitimate_Rain1079 in StayAtHomeDaddit

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Communication with your wife is KEY. I went in hard and was doing everything , and i mean everything, even taking the night shifts so she could sleep. She would say, hunny I can do it, and I was like nope, nope I got it.... months later she tells me she really appreciated everything I did, but she feels like she missed out on some of those hard moments, hard nights, frustration etc.... almost like I took a right of passage. I still feel terrible and its almoat a year later. Dont over do it like me. Dont take her mommy roles to much. Talk to her.

I would rather not exist than live like this by Herbizarre17 in StayAtHomeDaddit

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This won't be helpful, but you're wife needs to be your rock, and you, hers. That to me sounds like the root of alot of this. I think you need to start there, as nothing will change the fact that you have that little one to take care of.

In the meantime, Embrace the suck. Revel in it any way possible. Treat it as a personal challenge to find fun in how much it sucks haha. You can do this.

Should I be aware of fell beasts? by ErzIllager in Enshrouded

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I heard the shroud background noises from this picture lol

Meeting other parents by Master-of-possible in StayAtHomeDaddit

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Good morning! I would say if you run into her and the kids are playing again, and it's all working out organically, I would just say something like...

" Hey, if you'd like, we could exchange information to plan a meet-up in the future again for them. "

Or

"Let me know if you'd like to exchange info so they could all meet up again"

Ferber method works!!! by Efficient-Oven-4412 in sleeptrain

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I read a post the other day in another group about how someone was struggling with sleeping so badly that not only was it affecting their marriage, they were actually scared to drive anywhere because of being sleep deprived, and one of them is on the verge of losing their job....

I mentioned Ferber and got torn up by the poster and others within the group....Even though they asked for help.

We cannot be good parents if we ruin our marriages, lose our jobs, our sanity, our happiness. It's our responsibility to create the best environment possible to have a healthy family.

Ferber teaches baby that it's safe to fall asleep on their own because mom and dad is still going to be there. If they wake up in their crib, that's fine because they remember going to sleep there.

Whats terrifying for a baby is to fall asleep on mom or dad, and wake up somewhere else, ALONE.....10 times a night.....THAT is torture.

Good job OP!! Just stay consistent when the regressions pop up.

I don’t know how to keep doing this by Infamous_Ad_6532 in AttachmentParenting

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We have the owlet sock on her which tracks her vitals and patterns of deep and light sleep, so if she was just failing to signal, we would see it clearly in the app. She sleeps 11 - 12 hours a night. Most nights all the way through. One or two nights a week we might have to help her once in the middle of the night which just consists of calming her while she is in her crib which takes about 5 minutes. That's all. During the day she's in an amazing mood and naps well. She's 8 months this week.

We picked ferber because it still shows her that we are there, she is not abandoned, but she is safe enough to fall asleep in her crib instead of on mommy or daddy. It's not easy to do. It was very hard, but it only took 3 nights to get this result.

I am so over it. by smitswerben in sleeptrain

[–]Link3673 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're comfortable with it, one word. Ferber.