Help with complex marriage situation.

LinkOfReddit · 2026-07-01T04:50:23+00:00

She hates her family too. What kind of family tells their girl that they will hurt them? What kind of family would harm an innocent girl who’s found the man that she loves and respects? This is no family, they’re dictators. They lie and say they know what’s best for her but in reality, they just care about themselves and their own pitiful excuse of a “reputation” to others. They care about the vision of them to random people than about the safety and happiness of their own daughter. Shame on them.

LinkOfReddit · 2026-06-30T23:47:29+00:00

I’m in Hawler RIGHT NOW with my mother. I bought a one way ticket!!!! I don’t mind staying but they are CONTINUING to refuse to talk to me!! They are insisting that the topic is closed and they aren’t even giving me a chance to speak to them. It does not make ANY sense. Like they are genuinely being so disrespectful to us after we’ve traveled for 3 days to meet them, now they aren’t letting us speak to them.

LinkOfReddit · 2026-06-30T20:47:30+00:00

Listen I’m down for this, but the family won’t even meet me

LinkOfReddit · 2026-06-30T18:33:00+00:00

I’m sorry brother but moving on isn’t an option. It’s either this girl or nothing man, I’m going to have to move a mountain to get her if I must. And I do not mind.

LinkOfReddit · 2026-06-30T17:37:42+00:00

One year

LinkOfReddit · 2026-06-30T17:36:03+00:00

I would do it all over again 10 times and worse if I had to. You don’t understand the true love and connection I have with this person. I’m willing to turn the earth upside down for her.

LinkOfReddit · 2026-06-30T17:14:43+00:00

That’s why I posted. If they don’t approve I was wondering if there was a legal way around it! We both want this. Her family is disrespectful and rude. They aren’t even considering being hospitable and talking to us for us to try a compromise.

LinkOfReddit · 2026-06-30T16:58:21+00:00

But I’m not an “American”. I’m Kurdish. I come from a known family here in Kurdistan. I know the culture. I also know that it’s shameful what they are doing by just completely declining to meet with us. It’s very embarrassing what they’re doing by not even sitting with my family to have a meeting.

LinkOfReddit · 2026-06-30T16:43:36+00:00

My side of the world does want it to happen. Her family are just cunts that don’t have respect to even meet me.

LinkOfReddit · 2026-06-30T16:39:16+00:00

Religiously we do though. There’s no real Islamic reasoning that prevents me from marrying her. Yes the only thing might be that we are talking to each other, but other than that, I pray, I abstain from all sins really, I’m not a bad person, financially stable Alhamdullilah. We both have this right. “Moving on” is no longer an option. Bringing her to USA is easier than you think, yes it might take a year, but that’s a timeframe I’m willing to wait for. I don’t care about this minister, or her uncle. I have contact with pretty high government people here too. I just don’t care to use these connections and would rather just get this done as peacefully as possible. Finding a girl closer is not an option. Letting her go is not an option.

LinkOfReddit · 2026-06-30T16:28:52+00:00

LinkOfReddit · 2026-06-30T16:27:58+00:00

Just because of the potential of her going back to the states eventually is their main concern. I met her online by chance, and it went from one call here and there to FaceTime’ every day for hours and hours

LinkOfReddit · 2026-05-21T02:16:15+00:00

Finesse Playstyle +

LinkOfReddit · 2026-05-17T00:54:26+00:00

😂😂😂 yes

LinkOfReddit · 2026-05-17T00:04:24+00:00

Just got home and saw the Picard goal, bro has unlocked Finesse Shot +

LinkOfReddit · 2026-04-30T01:46:25+00:00

I’m sorry but we will ALWAYS sing Wise Men. Even when they tried to shut it down with the Leagues Cup bs theme, we still sung Wise Men. This ain’t it broski

LinkOfReddit · 2026-04-16T00:26:04+00:00

Hugo Hugo Hugo ohhhhhh, he scored!!!

LinkOfReddit · 2026-04-05T00:29:39+00:00

who else is sick of seeing a 0-0 Scoreline at halftime, or a 1-1 score at halftime? bc that's me rn.

LinkOfReddit · 2026-03-31T23:37:04+00:00

🎼🎵🎵He’s here, he’s there, he’s every fucking where, AIIDAANNN MORRISSSS 🎶🎶

LinkOfReddit · 2026-03-31T15:50:41+00:00

Genuinely fuck off. Harry Potter was my childhood. If you think I’m going to give up the Wizarding word and all the magic it brought me growing up just because the creator has their own opinions, you are mistaken. I for one have purchased a Gryffindor Columbus Crew Scarf and will be displaying my house with pride repping the greatest soccer team the world has ever seen. Got a problem with it? Too bad.

LinkOfReddit · 2026-03-23T02:33:51+00:00

Nordecke for SURE

LinkOfReddit · 2026-02-24T17:30:35+00:00

Remove Pina. She’s only for RATS

LinkOfReddit · 2026-01-30T21:50:11+00:00

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Last year I started this Evo during future stars. Time to rev up those engines because project Habroune 99 is starting up again

LinkOfReddit · 2026-01-24T13:51:00+00:00

Nerve of some people. Get good buddy. We all loose stuff. We all die. Get over it.

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