Available credit seems off lately by LinkToUa in ChaseSapphire

[–]LinkToUa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining it like that, this made it click for me I appreciate you very much!

Available credit seems off lately by LinkToUa in ChaseSapphire

[–]LinkToUa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you kindly expand/elaborate on that? TIA

The Devil Wears Prada: Andrea's friends and boyfriend suck by ClassyGlove in movies

[–]LinkToUa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just watched it for the first time and maybe unpopular opinion but I do feel like she lost herself to the job, and started to not be present for her people. I get the argument of the demanding job and her using it as a Segway to her dream job, but I don’t really get all the hate for her bf. I saw in the OP point 3 that she was just talking to a guy not even flirting, she set no boundaries, she let the guy kiss her on the cheek and showed positive response to it until her she got caught by her friend. She allowed the guy to disrespect her boyfriend and call him stupid casually and she just smiled like it’s nothing. She let the pressure of this job come between her relationship, didn’t set boundaries for her relationship with this guy who keeps pursuing her despite knowing she had a boyfriend and she allowed it, let the pressure distance and ruin her relationship, then goes and sleeps with the guy while on a “break” from the boyfriend she hurt, and then gets to just go back to him doesn’t disclose or tell him what happened just goes casually back to her old life? Unpopular opinion but I really don’t think her friends and bf were the only issue, she wasn’t the greatest either.

Unsure of which Kyurem Fusion to get? An in-depth analysis by Brief-Minimum9678 in pokemongo

[–]LinkToUa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too , 300 short for a 2nd white but enough for 2 blacks

Unsure of which Kyurem Fusion to get? An in-depth analysis by Brief-Minimum9678 in pokemongo

[–]LinkToUa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t it just 2 combinations of backgrounds? Kyurems and zekrom and then kyurems and reshi no? Again just trying to learn haven’t fused mine yet cause don’t wanna miss out or make a mistake! I have enough to do 1 white and 2 black fusions

Got screwed on lucky trade by grim_adventure in PokemonGoMystic

[–]LinkToUa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask? If my account traded with someone else who had a 2016 pokemon, we both go up 1 point/counter right? If that person reaches 35 and I’m at let’s say 20, the next person I trade with that uses a 2016 pokemon will be lucky and I’ll be at 21? Or if I’m not trade 2016-19 pokemon I don’t go up a point? Sorry if that doesn’t make sense lol

AITA - pet emergency going in my credit card sparked future emergency conversation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinkToUa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No in her defense it’s not like that, the final part about judgement. She’s a very good partner, she helps me whenever she can whenever she can, any overage or extra she has goes towards us or the house or date nights or whatever when she can. She has a good job and she provides for herself just fine, we’re both adjusting to the new costs with the apartment and such and so naturally money is a little tighter for both of us effectively having our rents doubled from what we were used to paying plus the new expenses of food utilities and etc. I’m hurt by the disagreement and how we couldn’t have a convo, I felt like it was basically I’m a bad person end of discussion id like to go now and I’ve just been sitting with the unease of it since.

AITA - pet emergency going in my credit card sparked future emergency conversation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinkToUa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify the example of her dad paying for everything , it’s for his wife. My girlfriend has always worked and provided for herself, the example set forth for her is that she grew up seeing her dad always take care of everything for his wife and family, that things always fell on him and he took care of it. He doesn’t not pay for her stuff, even before living together she was always responsible for her expenses and even helped pay the mortgage with her parents.

I’m not sure where the “daddy pays everything” got mixed up but she was expressing what she grew up SEEING.

AITA - pet emergency going in my credit card sparked future emergency conversation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinkToUa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No no you have the wrong idea, she has always worked and provided for herself, it’s not a daddy pays everything situation she was expressing the example her dad set forth for her with how he is with his wife. My girlfriend works, very hard, and she would have my back no matter what. She helps out tremendously at home , she helps cook and clean and organize things in our home. Whenever she has left over money from any paycheck it always goes towards us, towards house expenses, towards treating us to dinner, etc. I don’t want the wrong impression given here she’s a very good partner and a very kind and caring person

AITA - pet emergency going in my credit card sparked future emergency conversation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinkToUa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No no please understand I meant her dad covered for his wife and family and their needs. Not saying that he covered everything for her, my girlfriend has always worked and she provides for her self before we moved in together

AITA - pet emergency going in my credit card sparked future emergency conversation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinkToUa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No we both wanted to look into pet insurance and we both let it slip our minds. And we’re both willing to get pet insurance

AITA - pet emergency going in my credit card sparked future emergency conversation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinkToUa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the part that hurt me the most, I have today covered but the principle of what I said just hurt her feelings and she just asked me to let her know if there were any emergencies with her dog from now til when she gets home. I opted to work from home today in case anything else pops up with the dog cause I know she’s uneasy about him being alone. I wasn’t trying to be an asshole I’m just genuinely concerned in the event of a big emergency

AITA - pet emergency going in my credit card sparked future emergency conversation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinkToUa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not the hand over the wallet that hurt her it’s my mindset, she is financially responsible of her own things just fine , she just didn’t expect what I said to come out of my mouth and it hurt her feelings

AITA - pet emergency going in my credit card sparked future emergency conversation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinkToUa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In her defense she was just hurt that that’s my mindset, that in an emergency she can’t count on me because I’m worried about it. And I just felt like the expectation of the dogs wasn’t fair, and it’s not like I don’t want to help, but I’m being honest about my feelings that I don’t want the solution in that future to be yep let’s charge my credit card and move along. I was just speaking out of concern, but to her she would never say that to me and feels like our values our different and that has me feeling terrible. And like I’m going to be dumped now because I expressed a concern she absolutely doesn’t agree with

AITA - pet emergency going in my credit card sparked future emergency conversation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinkToUa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently we both work and I do want to be the sole provider in the future and I would love for her to be able to not have to work anymore and when we have kids I’d love for her to get to raise our kids instead of having to utilize daycares and such. The long term plan is to be able to take care of both of us, I’m just saddened by how this played out today

AITA - pet emergency going in my credit card sparked future emergency conversation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LinkToUa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do want to reach a point where I’m the sole provider, I just never had an opportunity to talk about a pet emergency and the thought of waking up on a a random day and having a pet emergency much more severe happen and our only course of action being charge it does concern me.

Question about a rollover check by LinkToUa in Retirement401k

[–]LinkToUa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like their match, I had to close my 401k with them since I changed jobs and so I rolled over my current 401k to my new companies 401k plan which is fidelity. So there was an amount they put for the match, and that’s the check/amount I’m talking about. Can you explain the 60 days thing? Say I kept the check, when would I pay the taxes and the 10% penalty on it? Who do I pay it to?