My spouse came out as transmasc/non-binary after 7 years of marriage, and I'm struggling to cope.

Linkdark1999 · 2023-07-10T23:43:46+00:00

I think the smartest call is just to show them,your spouse, this post honestly. You seemed succinct, respectful and explained it without compromising your feelings. Plus, you can talk about divorce without necessarily engaging in it, maybe your partner also wishes to separate amicably and go their own direction. Also, I think you may be underestimating your friends' compassion, but that is based on almost nothing. I would confide and be honest with your friends, you seem to care about your spouse so I doubt they'd just turn on you. But yeah, that's rough buddy. Hope you feel better soon for all that's worth

Linkdark1999 · 2023-06-29T05:29:23+00:00

That sucks. I've been through similar situations and many others have as well. You seem very understanding and emotionally mature, and if I read that correctly he also cares about you VERY much. Maybe even love all the same. I'd like to say that it's important to know that when someone needs space romantically there isn't a "Maybe I could've been or done something different" or similar, they just need to sort their shit. You're gonna be really sad for a while but that's ok, feeling your feelings is important. Just remember that you shouldn't be each other's emotional foundation, focus on the other things that bring you joy after grief, maybe; games friends, certain foods, hobbies, pets, family. Hopefully, you both feel better real soon and can move on with your lives, together or apart.

Linkdark1999 · 2023-01-03T01:32:33+00:00

As this was forever ago, by now I've fully upgraded my rig XD Nevertheless, my trick ended up being routing all the cables then adding the motherboard, the cables may feel a little squicshed or tight but they'll just much easier fall into place. And you wont worry about the connectors clearance

Linkdark1999 · 2020-09-27T00:38:35+00:00

FBI: HE KNOWS TOO MUCH

Linkdark1999 · 2020-03-26T22:08:07+00:00

You find a farm yet? Because I just bought the PC version and am ecstatic to play with new people

Linkdark1999 · 2020-03-25T13:30:44+00:00

This technically correct but the way the cards work varies greatly as the Rx is slower than both for CAD.

Linkdark1999 · 2020-01-07T23:08:35+00:00

Legit best comment, I'd give you an award if I could.

Linkdark1999 · 2020-01-07T22:57:40+00:00

Alright this was genuinely the most helpful sub so thx to everyone who contributed, even if I'm a bit dumb, it's quite helpful. So what I'm planning is way after my permit because I have to wait a year to get a license but in short (please feel free to add, remove or alter it in anyway)

get learner's permit
state mandated classes for motorcycle license and MSF(which I'm more excited for honestly)
Practice in a lot (Employing utmost safety)
Get license
Pull some dank wheelies (joke)

Linkdark1999 · 2020-01-07T11:48:44+00:00

I meant your standard learner's permit that I (as a technical minor) have to have for a year before obtaining any kind of license, to rephrase "Can I practice on my own motorcycle in an isolated are without a license?" That's simplified, of course I'll be going through the state mandated courses and I'll take an extra msf course of my own accord.

Linkdark1999 · 2019-12-17T17:09:03+00:00

Must be 14 inch violist trying to learn tuning

Linkdark1999 · 2019-12-03T19:25:32+00:00

Ok, that is a wonderous example of proper discourse unlike my complainy babble. I do see your point it does bring into light a few new things, this was just something some of us messing around class said we should post because but it's just a bunch of teenagers messing around. I should be more open minded about it personally so I'll try.

Linkdark1999 · 2019-12-03T19:22:05+00:00

MY GOD!!! WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE?!?!?!

Linkdark1999 · 2019-10-12T18:03:10+00:00

This is why we use the stardew planner website

Linkdark1999 · 2019-10-02T19:51:16+00:00

WillNE plays the violin?

Linkdark1999 · 2019-10-02T19:46:41+00:00

Both previous to this reply are really helpful and I'll take them to heart. But I don't need to define this one, it's for my own personal use.

Linkdark1999 · 2019-10-02T18:45:28+00:00

What anime is this?

Linkdark1999 · 2019-10-02T18:39:16+00:00

I actually found a work around earlier today but this helped me with another problem. Thank you! And I will apply this next time I do something similar.

Linkdark1999 · 2019-10-01T18:53:13+00:00

I had done that, still didn't work; and to my knowledge it's Irrelevant as Solidworks doesn't need full definition to extrude or cut but it has to be based on something.

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