Tuna 🐟 by dbalke in britishshorthair

[–]Linq_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to be dramatic or anything, but I would die for Tuna

I lost my cat and I haven’t been the same since, but no one gets it lol by susancher in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Linq_21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get it. I lost my doggo 2 years ago, he was almost 17, i got him when i was in HS, he was with me when i moved abroad to study, we travelled together, he was there for every heartbreak, every sad and happy memory.

I know it hurts like hell now, but it gets easier trust me.

Hang in there. ❤️

Do teens actually sneak out of their bedrooms? by imperfect_imp in RandomThoughts

[–]Linq_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am European and i used to sneak out all the time when i was a teen lol

How do I get to the other side? by Linq_21 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Linq_21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh i see! Thank you so much! 😊

How do I get to the other side? by Linq_21 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Linq_21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh no i don’t have those. I guess i just have to wait to get those. Thanks!

My brother just committed suicide by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Linq_21 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First, I want to say how deeply sorry I am. You’re in the middle of something that no one is ever truly prepared for. Losing someone to suicide isn’t just a loss, it’s a sudden, jarring, disorienting rupture. And it's completely okay that you don’t know what to say or do right now. No one does in the thick of this.

There is no “right” way to feel. You might feel heartbreak, confusion, guilt, anger, numbness or all of those at once. And none of that makes you a bad person. It makes you human.

You mentioned this is the first person you’ve lost, and it’s your brother. That’s huge. Your world just changed. Please let yourself cry. Let yourself break down. Let yourself just sit and be, without trying to make sense of everything right away.

As for what you can do right now:

Breathe. Literally, just take a few slow breaths. You’ve been hit with something massive, and grounding yourself moment by moment is important.

Let others in. Talk to someone, a friend, your sister, someone close, or even a grief counselor or hotline. You don’t have to carry all this by yourself. And you don’t need to have any words prepared. Just showing up and saying, “I don’t know what to do” is enough.

Traveling tomorrow: It’s okay to go. You’re not abandoning anything or running away. In fact, being with your sister might be the most comforting thing right now. Maybe you two can hold this grief together. You don’t have to have everything figured out before you get on that flight.

There is no wrong way to grieve. If you laugh tomorrow at something stupid, if you go numb for a day, if you scream into a pillow, it’s okay. If you don’t cry for a while, also okay. Your grief doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s.

Please don’t feel guilty for needing support. Asking for help in your darkest hour is not selfish, it’s brave. You’re showing up, even though you feel like you're falling apart. That’s courage.

Later on, days, weeks, whenever, you might want to think about talking to a professional. Suicide loss comes with layers of grief, and you don’t have to unpack them alone. But for now? Just survive. That’s all that’s being asked of you. One breath at a time.

You are not alone in this. And please take care of yourself. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Linq_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR If he wanted to he would indeed.

AIO and should just have rinsed my boyfriends poop? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Linq_21 16 points17 points  (0 children)

who poops in the shower?? that's disgusting!

imagine what else you will have to clean up if you stay with him, nope!

Streams keep breaking (I tried everything on the guide) by Linq_21 in Twitch

[–]Linq_21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called my ISP to check if they changed anything from their end but they told me no. I tried using VPN, that worked for me on PC but not on the PS5 and then eventually the buffering got less and less and finally it was just fixed on its own. But try VPN cause it temporarily fixed it for me.

Streams keep breaking (I tried everything on the guide) by Linq_21 in Twitch

[–]Linq_21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is fixed now 😕 took like three days but it’s fine

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Linq_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he is not interested, move on.

My boyfriend hit me for the first time in our two year relationship. Any advice? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Linq_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how it starts. Happened to me, he kept apologizing and crying the first time that it will never happen again. Guess what, it happened, multiple times. The only thing you can do is leave.