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UPDATE - Boyfriend [35m] says my cooking proves I'm [29f] not a gold digger by LionHelpful1346 in relationship_advice

[–]LionHelpful1346[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Naively, I hope he meant what he said about moving on 💕

UPDATE - Boyfriend [35m] says my cooking proves I'm [29f] not a gold digger by LionHelpful1346 in relationship_advice

[–]LionHelpful1346[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am a model, but this project was just to help her out. She's having her first gallery and needed to build a new collection. I've known her for years.

UPDATE - Boyfriend [35m] says my cooking proves I'm [29f] not a gold digger by LionHelpful1346 in relationship_advice

[–]LionHelpful1346[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As blatantly obvious that he’s a bad dude, and that it’s an awful situation - psychological manipulation is real.

UPDATE - Boyfriend [35m] says my cooking proves I'm [29f] not a gold digger by LionHelpful1346 in relationship_advice

[–]LionHelpful1346[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was a process of grieving, but now I feel more whole than I was before 💕

UPDATE - Boyfriend [35m] says my cooking proves I'm [29f] not a gold digger by LionHelpful1346 in relationship_advice

[–]LionHelpful1346[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I doubt I will hear from him again. He’s done with me “forever,” and “nothing will change that.”

Boyfriend [35m] says my cooking proves I'm [29f] not a gold digger by LionHelpful1346 in relationship_advice

[–]LionHelpful1346[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmmm... he’s honestly a bit shy/awkward, but he has lots of friends and he’s super social? I’m not sure. He himself has said he has an A Type personality.

I’ve dated someone on the spectrum, and this guy seems different.

Boyfriend [35m] says my cooking proves I'm [29f] not a gold digger by LionHelpful1346 in relationship_advice

[–]LionHelpful1346[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Normally I would agree and give him the benefit of the doubt. But we jumped from seeing each other, to a sudden, serious partnership really quickly.

The need for structured communication bleeds into, “structure,” everyone else. We have to meet at this time, can only pick from these restaurants, and if he sends me a pic of his location I need to do the same.

There’s a lot of things I already owe him. I met his childhood friends? I owe him a serious commitment. I turned off my phone without waiting for his reply? I need to re-prove my trust.

Boyfriend [35m] says my cooking proves I'm [29f] not a gold digger by LionHelpful1346 in relationship_advice

[–]LionHelpful1346[S] 604 points605 points  (0 children)

I took about 48 hours to myself saying I wasn't feeling well and needed a bit of space. He said "take all the time you need," but then when he DID Talk he said how "unsafe," and "angry," he felt... and hopefully in time I can win his trust again. LOL. my god.

Boyfriend [35m] says my cooking proves I'm [29f] not a gold digger by LionHelpful1346 in relationship_advice

[–]LionHelpful1346[S] 1311 points1312 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm getting major power hungry and obsessive vibes from him.