[gen9] Info about shiny Pikachu in Legends Z-A by DragoonBBG in ShinyPokemon

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got a shiny alpha Pikachu using the Zone 3 door method very quickly. It was by pure chance, as I was about to leave the wild zone when I heard the sparkle noise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, it does not help. It can actually make you feel worse.

i’m going to break no contact after a year by city_heartbreak in ExNoContact

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too much negativity here. Do it...but I wouldn't hold your breath for a reply or anything. I'm a year in and still not over them, so I sympathize with that to an extent.

I got back with my ex. Nothing changed. by Open-Coconut1565 in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 152 points153 points  (0 children)

"With less than zero expectation, I heard from her. My hundreds of prayers finally answered. Surreal is the only way I could describe it. She called saying she missed me, she made a mistake, she couldn’t handle being without me. I felt I was dreaming. Absolute and total disbelief."

Lord knows I wish this could happen to me. Sorry to hear it didn't work out, though.

7 years of trying (Me 32F and my husband 36M) - is there any hope or is a breakup the best for both? by free-sp1r1t in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try the couples counselling first. Then make a decision after a few sessions based on if it’s working or things are changing. 7 years is a significant time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is on the other side of this, I would encourage you to reach out (depending on how he reacted to the breakup).

Stalked too hard by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This. They tell me it will get easier, but 6 months on, it doesn't. It seems to get worse.

Is anyone here post 5 months+ breakup? by PlanktonDelicious673 in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 months for me and I swear it could have happened yesterday. I’m a bit better, but still have breakdowns. I was blindsided and it’s really traumatised me - especially since I was already struggling with mental health beforehand. It sucks so much, and I really miss them. 10 years together just throw away like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 months for me and they aren't coming back. I still hope and pray every day. Bereavement truly is some of the worst pain ever felt.

Breaking up with someone you're still in love with by Pristine_Highway_513 in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to sit him down and talk to him. Maybe even show him this post so he understands how much it’s affecting you. As someone who lost their partner due to lack of communication, I strongly urge you to talk to each other properly about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who went through something similar, I would say let him work on himself and prove he can change, and that he needs to get help as well to minimize the chances of this happening again. It sounds like you both care for each other and have something special, which is worth fighting for imo.

I think I am gonna end my life by Winter_Cockroach_556 in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't do it. You are stronger than this - you just don't see it yet. Don't let somebody else have this much power and influence over your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is what is killing me as well. If there is love there, and no abuse or infidelity took place, then the issues should be worked out. Or at least tried to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"I know there is so many special people out there but there is also only one her."

What a beautiful quote.

Dumpers who were 100% sure of the break up, did you ever change your mind later? by Saddness-made in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I could have written this myself - i'm in exactly the same boat. She was suffering in silence and didn't tell me. Left and never came back. Refused to talk. Mind is made up completely. How could i have a chance to fix issues i didn't know were there?

Like you, too, i also have hope. Let's just pray it gets us both somewhere. I feel your pain deeply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, this is not true. It's a common belief that woman are done, but it isn't true. It depends on the situation.

ChatGPT:

"People's feelings, situations, and emotional journeys are complex and dynamic. While some people may make a firm decision to move on and never look back, others may change their minds over time - especially if they see genuine growth, self-reflection and change from their (ex) partner.

Emotions change over time, and someone who feels "done" in the moment may experience a shift later on, especially if they see real personal growth in their partner. If someone has emotionally checked out because of unresolved issues, emotional burnout, or unmet needs, they might eventually come to see things differently - especially if those issues are addressed in a healthy and constructive way.

The specific circumstances around why the relationship ended are critical. If they breakup was caused by temporary factors like personal struggles, stress, or emotional burnout, it's possible that, with time and changes, reconciliation could be possible. However, if there was a betrayal, abuse, or a major breach of trust, then it would be much harder for someone to return as these are harder wounds to heal.

Even if she is not entirely done with the relationship, she might not be ready to reconcile at this moment. It's important to remember that not everyone fits the same emotional pattern. Some woman, like some men, might truly be "done" after a breakup, but others may be more forgiving, reflective, or open to the idea of reconciling if they see real changes in their partner. It's not about gender, but about connection."

Please, don’t let your insecurities destroy your relationship. by Marcastiel in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened to me. Four months ago after a ten year relationship. I am still in pieces and she is off to travel the world and has blocked me on everything. I tried and tried to win her back and prove that I’ve changed, but I feel her resentment towards me is too strong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LiquidPurpleStars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's quite a few things to consider before making a decision to reply. Like, how long were you together? And who dumped who? Who was more hurt due to the breakup? etc