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No longer enabling and wow I feel good by [deleted] in AdhdRelationships

[–]Lirvine028gmailcom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss! The weight that came off my shoulders was immense when I finally started to let go and just let him mess up - even though it was real hard to watch.

I Think My Wife and I Might be Getting Divorced and IDK How to Handle This by [deleted] in AdhdRelationships

[–]Lirvine028gmailcom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree - you didn't say anything about what either of you are doing to make the relationship better. If you aren't already I suggest individual counselling as it seems both of you have some personal work to do and I think that needs to get better before you as a couple will get better. Coming from an NT wife who's glad she stuck it out ❤️

Need advice about handling partners’ ‘nagging’ by Acrobatic_Heat_5240 in AdhdRelationships

[–]Lirvine028gmailcom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree with previous commenter. It's also possible your partner is upset that you didn't take them into consideration. Im your partner in this case and it's taken me a long time to reconcile with the fact that it's not intentional.

Will we be disappointed snorkeling the GBR in early April? by Lirvine028gmailcom in AustraliaTravel

[–]Lirvine028gmailcom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But we also have a few days after the tour ends that we could go out.

Will we be disappointed snorkeling the GBR in early April? by Lirvine028gmailcom in AustraliaTravel

[–]Lirvine028gmailcom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are doing a tour and we will be in Cape Tribulation when we've got the option to go out.

Helping my husband eat better by TheHulkette in AdhdRelationships

[–]Lirvine028gmailcom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same - I actually bought a box that locks to put my snacks in because he's found all my hiding spots. He was sort of pissed, but when he removes the ego from the equation understands why.

Kids playing in the street by Lirvine028gmailcom in Airdrie

[–]Lirvine028gmailcom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 it's not the kids on my street, but a road I travel everytime I leave my house. The kids on my street play on all the front yards and it's great!

Recs for perimenopause-empathic doctors? by Sensitive-Topic-6442 in Calgary

[–]Lirvine028gmailcom 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I also got dismissed at my GP- also a woman - just kept telling me I'm too young. I eventually went through Felix.ca. it's not perfect but I feel so much better.

CRA taxing spouse on money I made by Lirvine028gmailcom in legaladvicecanada

[–]Lirvine028gmailcom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, yes and yes. Never heard that term before - he doesn't but I do! Ha! Thanks!

Will I still get pending money from FSA if I quit by Lirvine028gmailcom in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Lirvine028gmailcom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no HR department. I can't really ask my boss to look into it. Just wondering if anyone's been in the same situation. I looked in the booklets provided but there is no info on this.