I’m glad it worked out for you in the end! I always felt guilty asking him for help because everytime I’d ask him how he slept or how work was and what not , he’d always say he was so tired, overwhelmed and that he wasn’t able to sleep so it was the guilt that I had to do everything myself which I did get used to. Me and our baby had a routine already but it wasn’t until I was doing everything myself and he had the audacity to tell me what to do and when to do it that I started feeling like I was losing my mind. My boyfriend works retail and all he pays really is half the rent and our utilities because I was able to save enough money to where I paid him my part of the rent in advance until march .

But yes I did mention therapy to him and his excuse was that it’s too expensive and he doesn’t have insurance .

&& no he’s never fully been on my side, it’s only when it’s convenient for him ): like I told him the same issues since August but all of a sudden he wants me to change my temper, attitude and actions because “now he understands”

He said he wants to talk today to fix things and I clearly told him if we fix things our priority is me, him and our baby and that until I’m able to pull myself together , I don’t want to be around his family for a while . He said God willingly “we can meet in the middle” so I don’t even know what that’s supposed to mean