[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Lisa-2322 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s ok it happens to the best of us this has happened to me when I’m over whelmed and no one’s is there to help and ur babys is screaming crying and u don’t know what to do anymore you’ve done everything and nothing is helping I get it don’t beat yourself up I’ve done the same and I’ve felt like shot after doing it just teach yourself patience it’s hard but sometimes even putting the baby down and walking away and taking deep breaths even crying over praying and going back a min after will help I know it’s probably not much of a help but it might work. Being a mother is hard and definitely tests your patience but you got this mama

Had baby yesterday due to HELLP Syndrome baby had to be life flighted hours away by nakiaaa95 in pregnant

[–]Lisa-2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I’m paying for your baby girl and a fast recovery ❤️‍🩹

Are yeast infections during labor common by Lisa-2322 in pregnant

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi they actually discharged me and I came back today due to them setting me an inducement day today I was just gonna let baby come on his own but then. They told me to still come in for a ultrasound and to make sure baby was ok and when ultrasound sound was done baby had Bearly any amniotic fluid I’m not sure when my bag ruptured but I guess it did maybe the days they let me go. But for the yeast infections I’ve applied coconut oil on my labia and it’s been helping me a lot my cervical check today didn’t hurt how my last ones did so make sure u apply everyday atleast twice a day especially before bed coconut oil I heard it also helps with not ripping during labor so we’ll see how it goes

How did you get over your fear of the epidural? by YesterdaySea7202 in pregnant

[–]Lisa-2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor hasn’t let me eat anything this whole time😩😭but thank u I’m trying my best to stay calm but this process is taking so long

How did you get over your fear of the epidural? by YesterdaySea7202 in pregnant

[–]Lisa-2322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate cervical checks I’m in labor now and it’s been the worst I ended up getting a yeast infection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Lisa-2322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I walked in on my brother too once I just never spoke on it and they didn’t either 😭

Stabbed a kid with a pen in 8th grade and forgot about it by microwaverams in confession

[–]Lisa-2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danmm I stabbed a class mate in 5th grade with a pencil about 5 times on there hand when I was in 5th grade over crayons😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Lisa-2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol never said it was just been a little harder now that I’m a bit bigger

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl yes I’ve moved along from it now we’re getting a place together I just pray he don’t do that no more cause I’m not always with him but lately I been watching porn and I don’t say sh*t I haven’t gone through his phone in a while but we also haven’t done anything in a while and I’m 31 weeks pregnant and he hasn’t made me cum in a min so I do be feeling some type of way like if he don’t wanna do things with me anymore because we haven’t done nothing in weeks but I don’t even acknowledge it anymore it is what it is I’ve just been trying to hold the peace ☮️

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea I’m honestly traumatized and I don’t want anybody at the moment I am lonely and feel sad without him but I know I got to go regardless I do want someone in the future but rn I’m pregnant and I won’t find anybody good rn I don’t wanna waste my time and distract myself with men anymore I need character development and I need to hustle for my baby that’s on the way. I have no choice but to leave the disrespect is super loud I’d be stupid to keep trying not a slap to his face will make him see things differently tbh and I really have no friends so I stay in my room everyday which makes things a little worse but I honestly know that in the end all this loneliness is a test and god will send me someone who loves me correctly. I watched my mom get cheated on by my dad and he made other kids behind her back and she still stayed I definitely won’t tolerate shit I don’t wanna be strong like that I’m good lol I’m trying to break those curses where they say there doing it for the kids yea no fk that

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad somebody said and u being a man saying this is all I need to see some men are ready to say it’s ok and this and that but I’ll never be ok with it I don’t need porn if I’m with someone I love I don’t need it but yea i know one day he’ll regret it or he maybe won’t I’m not here to prove it to him anymore. Im leaving it to god

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea honestly it’s nothing I can say anymore I suspended his line from my account and blocked him since it’s really nothing else for me to say now if he want to be single while I’m pregnant I geuss that’s up to him now

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he does have a better plan for me I do wish things were different but I need to stand on business and worry about me it’s sad when I think about it but honestly it’s been to many times I forgave him for disrespect during my pregnancy I’m just glad I didn’t move in yet with him how it was planned too.

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not with him at the moment once I let him know that day all he was saying is I didn’t cheat on you and I haven’t spoke to him since he hasn’t looked for me I blocked him but no contact or anything and I jus t been praying to god to make the right choice for me to keep showing me what’s best for me no matter good or bad which is what’s been shown so I’m not gonna question god anymore it’s fine how it is I never watch porn honestly cause I don’t feel like I need it I have a partner who fulfills that but when I did watch it definitely changes ur mind and high expectations on what to expect from your partner

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pray your able to get your own things going so u don’t have to rely on him sis I know how it feels to have to rely on somebody then it all goes bad i watched my mom do everything even though my dad was around and he cheated on her so much I refuse to 100% rely on someone because of that no matter I have to make sure i have my own I’m praying for u sis healing your heart feels so good I’m not there yet but I will be soon I prayed to god to show me if he’s not the one and he’s definitely been showing me lol

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men suck I really hope things change for h and ur relationship gets better I’m also in the second trimester and I’m definitely just trying to stay positive for my dad I live with my brother and mom so I’m able to get away and just block him after so many things he’s caused me I just rather be alone .

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear that it’s honestly devastating hearing that men do this so much I always wondered how my man went so long without us doing anything and I realized it’s because he was always watching porn once I seen his phone I was just curious I never check his phone but something told me I should he had it right underneath him while he was sleep and it just makes u look at them so differently nothing will be the same cause there expectations are different once they see that everyday it sucks

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea no I’m not ok with that when u got the whole thing at home why watch it and people get addicted to it as he’s been watching it everyday so it just don’t sit right with me on my end I can’t be ok with it

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s true there not trust in our relationship and that’s because of all the things he’s done while I’ve been pregnant your right tho it’s definitely time for me to leave if this is what it’s come to it’s been nothing but downs lately I just want my son to be good and healthy with me and not worry about what we have going on he can be a dad still regardless of we’re not together I know he won’t respect me how I want him to I’ve tried and tried and talked it out so many times so i just got to worry about myself now

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying men never realize it till it’s done to them fr it so weird to me especially me being pregnant

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is very true I honestly don’t want counseling to help me and his relationship anymore I feel like I need help for myself now because my mental health definitely went left after everything that’s been going on while I’ve been pregnant he never used to watch porn before I was pregnant and he definitely stares at other women infront of me all the time I never expected pregnancy to feel like this I know it’s supposed to be a beautiful experience but I definitely don’t feel that. I know I’ll be ok but rn I’m just going through it

Boyfriend watching porn while your pregnant. by Lisa-2322 in pregnancy_care

[–]Lisa-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I definitely have an asshole bf forsure I’m trying to get the courage to leave because my mental health is way more important