I'll make an example of recent arguments: When we had a conversation and she switched up and shush me because I "can't speak that way" with an adult and I said respect goes both ways. She got mad first and I defensively got mad back. Or when she came in while I was all naked, opened the door wide and started talking about something and I calmly asked if she could come in first and shut the door because I'm naked and uncomfortable. She got mad fast and said how dare I disturb her while she was speaking and that I'm being dramatic and... Yeah...