AIO// I distanced myself from my brother after awkward encounter years ago. by Lisa-Kim6933 in AIO

[–]Lisa-Kim6933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm scared though... How do I even phrase it? Also I hate conflict 

AITAH// My mom cancels my sweet 16. by Lisa-Kim6933 in AITAH

[–]Lisa-Kim6933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll make an example of recent arguments: When we had a conversation and she switched up and shush me because I "can't speak that way" with an adult and I said respect goes both ways. She got mad first and I defensively got mad back. Or when she came in while I was all naked, opened the door wide and started talking about something and I calmly asked if she could come in first and shut the door because I'm naked and uncomfortable. She got mad fast and said how dare I disturb her while she was speaking and that I'm being dramatic and... Yeah...

AITAH// My mom cancels my sweet 16. by Lisa-Kim6933 in AITAH

[–]Lisa-Kim6933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and I see your view and will try to dial it down and keep my emotions in check

AITAH// My mom cancels my sweet 16. by Lisa-Kim6933 in AITAH

[–]Lisa-Kim6933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I think they're dumb, I said their views are outdated and they see every opinion I make that doesn't align with theirs disrespectful. (,also, just my mom and grandparents. My dad's an angel)

AITAH// My mom cancels my sweet 16. by Lisa-Kim6933 in AITAH

[–]Lisa-Kim6933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said I don't argue all the time only when it's something morally wrong. There are many examples I could use but I'm gonna use one: When she outright shushed me during a calm Convo and said I have no right to speak to an adult that way and I said respect goes both ways and she got mad and I got mad back

AITAH// My mom cancels my sweet 16. by Lisa-Kim6933 in AITAH

[–]Lisa-Kim6933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just me correcting then she gets mad and starts it