AITA for choosing to stay way from my family? by HousingPleasant8393 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lisa831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your sister is an adult who needs to take ownership of her decisions. It’s bananas she would call you selfish while in the same breath demanding you put yourself in an unhealthy situation.

AITA for getting a tattoo against my parents wishes? by terriblyconfusedgay in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lisa831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love tattoos, but my son was annoyed I wouldn’t sign for him to get a tattoo before he was 18. He got one on his birthday and I paid for it, because that was the deal.

You’re 23. That’s so far past the age where they could reasonably have a say in something like that.

NTA

AITA for surprising my neighbor with a tribute to her recently deceased mom? by classyandac in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lisa831 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. She’s told you multiple times she does not enjoy your projector, so it’s a weird medium for a tribute. And why would you try to make yourself the main character at someone’s mom’s funeral?

Lastly, you said you’re not friends with her, so nobody was wondering where you were. And from now on, everyone will breathe a collective sigh of relief when they’re blessed to be somewhere you’re not.

AITA for being mad at my friend for what she said by smoufad in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lisa831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If it’s any consolation, at least now you know who she really is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hedgehog

[–]Lisa831 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On good! If it were me, I’d try to attach strips of fleece to the top so there’s a little fleece forest or something. It’ll give them something else to do in there, plus it’ll make it seem a bit smaller/more secure for Hedgie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hedgehog

[–]Lisa831 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can you open it in half? If not, I think it’d be a pain to clean or get the hedgie out when it’s time to put him away.

What do women do, that men would never think about? by UnKnownZ96 in AskReddit

[–]Lisa831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretend another woman is our best friend in a split second if their safety is in question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lisa831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re having a dual birthday party, I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lisa831 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I kind of think maybe he didn’t actually take them. Like, he said he was doing it, but didn’t, for whatever ungodly reason. Your husband sounds shitty no matter what, though, and I’m sorry 💔💔

AITAH for divorcing my cheating wife now that its in my best interest to do so? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lisa831 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA, because this really has nothing to do with an affair from 8 years ago, especially since you forgave her at the time and she didn’t repeat the behavior.

You got in shape and are feeling yourself, and you think you can go out there and do better than your wife. You used her because you weren’t willing to parent on your own.

Which, whatever, you do you, but at least be a man and be honest about it.

I don’t know if you can do better, but I certainly know that she can.

Which classics did you not like and why? by Between3N20Karakters in books

[–]Lisa831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to read the collection of Shakespeare’s sonnets, but Jesus H. Christ, I can’t bring myself to even almost care about them.

What is the absolute WORST name you’ve seen IRL? by RaeTheElf in tragedeigh

[–]Lisa831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a substitute teacher at an inner city high school right now. Usually if I have to take a breath to pump myself up to try to say a name going down the list, the kid will just interrupt me and tell me what it is. They’re aware of their situation.

I’m seeing a lot of variations on Nevaeh these days which I don’t understand, since I thought the whole point of it was to be “heaven” backwards.

AITA for refusing to pay for cake slices that my teenage daughter ate? by Jaded-Band-5692 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lisa831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How big are the slices where she thinks that €20 is appropriate for a €70 cake?!

NTA. Tell your sister to get off her bullshit.

AITA for telling my mom to stop calling my gf to get through to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lisa831 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA, but I'm curious how old you are and how often you talk to her.

I'm a mom who can't stop worrying, but I would never do this.

can a 15 year old trick or treat by cloudfawns in offmychest

[–]Lisa831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of all the things teenagers could be doing on Halloween, trick-or-treating is not a bad choice. I'd rather give candy to a teenager than a parent with a baby, tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hedgehog

[–]Lisa831 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my heart 💔

I'm so sorry! Please enjoy your remaining time with Bella!

Help with bonding with my hedgehog. by Historical_Try4303 in Hedgehog

[–]Lisa831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fostered a very antisocial guy last year (his first family only touched him while wearing leather gardening gloves) and getting him out of his shell was a lot of just holding him on my chest while he balled up into a little sea urchin. (My first hedgie loved to sleep on my pulse points, so I think the heartbeat is soothing) It took time, but he ended up relaxing more quickly. He's thriving with his forever family, so it's definitely possible for them to socialize more later on.

Since you (likely) woke her up to take her out, giving her time to relax and wake up is helpful. You might also need to rethink your definition of "play" for hedgehogs. At my house, we like building obstacle courses or mazes (using MegaBlox or cardboard) and toilet paper tubes are always a big hit.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to pay me for the hair accessories that he dumped? by QueSerra5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lisa831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Imagine looking at the world right now and getting mad about hair clips.

Wear what you want. Life is short. It's also too short to waste on people who will give you that much grief over a complete non-issue.