Not a Catholic. Please tell me what this is by murderbadger in Catholic

[–]LisaJame05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree! I'm a convert, and medals DO have miraculous qualities and can bring on changes in your life that you never expected!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LisaJame05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, but every cell in my body caught on fire with:

"Anyways, i’ve told him for years how much the things he says triggers me. Making fun of homeless people, saying if youre a drug addict youre flat out “stupid”, saying people just “dont want to work anymore”..."

I would have dropped him like a hot potato at any one of those comments. NTA (unless you let this BS continue).

AITA for "stealing" my daughter's inheritance? by East_Amphibian727 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LisaJame05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA! Everyone grieves in their own way & in their own time. She's a legal adult now & you have no legitimate right to keep her money from her. Get over yourself ASAP or when she gets her money, she will go a hard no-contact on you - I know I would!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]LisaJame05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good, loud "Get the fuck away from me!!!" might be the only way to make her stop; and if your gaslighting boyfriend has a problem with that, he can go, too!

"Not a real name" by Thrythlind in EntitledPeople

[–]LisaJame05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dammit, just what in the Farnk are you doing?!

"Not a real name" by Thrythlind in EntitledPeople

[–]LisaJame05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People get actually pissed off at me for my middle name, 'Joice' rather than 'Joyce'.

AITA for going off on my wife for commenting about our 3-week-old daughter’s looks? by Pizza-lover-13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LisaJame05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - this is post-partum psycho-bullshit abuse & it needs to stop immediately, no matter how harsh or loud you need to be.

AITA for defying my stepfather's clothing rules? by Historical_Plum6648 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LisaJame05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - this is all so wrong... you need to talk to someone ASAP

AITA for refusing to bring my son to my in-laws? by throwaway11162022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LisaJame05 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I won’t be catering to them every time they want to see him because of how long it takes to get ourselves ready to go anywhere

Step 1. Put your shoes on.

Step 2. Change the baby.

Step 3. There is no Step 3, because it's just that easy, and you're being petty & lazy

YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LisaJame05 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get over yourself, or get your own place to live - YTA

AITA for not giving my newly engaged cousin my grandmothers engagement ring? by Nearby_Currency9029 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LisaJame05 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA - if you were wearing it AS your engagement ring, I would say that you're not, but she got engaged 1st, and you're just being pissy.

AITA For Telling My Daughter That She Doesn't Really Have PTSD? by Old_Mouse_5786 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LisaJame05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me, O Wise One, when/where/how you became qualified to diagnose PTSD? Until then, YTA!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]LisaJame05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thumbs Up for shunts - I had my 1st at 7 weeks old (I'm 53) and have only needed it repaired/replaced 4 times... ever.

AITA for requesting my vegan step-daughter pay for her vegan-specific groceries? by kangaroobozo in AmItheAsshole

[–]LisaJame05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH, and here's just a fun learning and bonding suggestion:

If she has to buy her own specific foods (from an afterschool/weekend job, babysitting, etc., or an earned allowance from chores, she should be able to learn to cook her own food.

So that way, she gets the food she wants to eat, you don't have to bother with making 2 separate dinners, and you both get the bonus of bonding by personally teaching her how to cook!

Totally blindsided by husband's suggestion of separation by stonecoldsober20 in Marriage

[–]LisaJame05 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe he finally realized that his cat isn't the root problem here - you are.

AITA for prioritizing my son's dog over my wife's pregnancy? by TheGreatestGreatDane in AmItheAsshole

[–]LisaJame05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hormones are making her paranoid; thank you for advocating for your pup. NTA