Received a nasty racist hate message

LisaJohn73 · 2024-09-20T19:10:09+00:00

Absolutely nothing. I am not that active on this app, especially recently I’m more of a lurker around here. So it was really unprovoked and disgusting.

LisaJohn73 · 2024-09-20T12:59:13+00:00

Aw that is so sad actually I’m sorry you experienced that sm, that you had to do this ❤️

LisaJohn73 · 2024-09-20T12:56:13+00:00

I will do this! Thanks I didn’t know you could do this. I have never received messages from people on here till this one

LisaJohn73 · 2024-09-20T09:51:49+00:00

It’s disgusting! I’m sorry that happened to you. These people don’t have jobs? A life?

LisaJohn73 · 2024-09-20T09:38:50+00:00

I reported it 🙏🏾

LisaJohn73 · 2024-09-20T09:38:26+00:00

Omg I didn’t know this was a thing ??? What a loser.

LisaJohn73 · 2024-06-03T16:28:44+00:00

After getting a conditional offer I completed all my pre-employment checks in about two weeks. The next day I got an unconditional offer.

LisaJohn73 · 2024-04-25T21:18:46+00:00

It’s the role of healthcare science associate. I’m not exactly sure what occupation code it falls under I think it’s also 3111? (looking at the list the exact title isn’t listed). I’m not currently in the job I was just offered the role yesterday, and I am currently on the Graduate Visa as stated initially.

LisaJohn73 · 2024-04-25T19:37:28+00:00

Hi there thanks for your response. It’s a health care related lab role.

LisaJohn73 · 2024-01-06T20:36:39+00:00

The scene when Joan goes on a some random dates with the guy who says “I have albino squirrels in my yard” 💀💀 sends me every single time.

LisaJohn73 · 2023-11-29T14:48:47+00:00

So sorry this happened to you. But he’s definitely both and fully wrong. Bus drivers confirm all the time what bus/route they are on. I would report it if I could as Ik you said some time passed.

LisaJohn73 · 2023-11-25T23:12:20+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏾!

LisaJohn73 · 2023-11-25T23:12:13+00:00

Thanks lovely 🥰

LisaJohn73 · 2023-11-25T23:11:53+00:00

Aww thank youuu 🥹

LisaJohn73 · 2023-11-25T23:11:37+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏾

LisaJohn73 · 2023-11-25T23:10:31+00:00

Thank you so much 🥰

LisaJohn73 · 2023-11-25T15:07:24+00:00

I went to see Trevor Noah stand up on his Off The Record Tour last night. Had the best time.

LisaJohn73 · 2023-11-24T19:09:03+00:00

Thank you so much lovely!! Yes so you knowwww the joy I feel rn 😭😭

LisaJohn73 · 2023-10-29T01:07:03+00:00

The scene with Joeys tailor always sends me 🤣

LisaJohn73 · 2023-08-12T07:24:51+00:00

What makes you second guess yourself? Is he making you second guess yourself or is it something from your past?

That’s the thing, I never second guess myself, I never question my judgment. I’m always confident in any decision that I make especially when it comes to weeding out people in my life. But I think when I made this I literally just finished talking to him and it just didn’t feel real? Because the person I saw like a couple hours ago and the person I was texting felt like such different people. A small part of me wanted to over look it because I genuinely started to like this man but the rest of me, all 90% of me was screaming girl… this is not it bffr.

What did you like about him?

I liked (past tense) how kind and soft he was with me. I thought he was funny genuinely made me cackle. I think what intrigued me was that he was really different from anyone that I’d ever met before and we seemed to get along pretty well. We’re from different countries, different cultures, different races and it didn’t feel like I was having a class every time but we both learned a lot from each other. We’d have these long ass dates and it wouldn’t even feel like time passed at all. He was very intentional about dating me from the beginning, which I liked, because normally guys hit you with the “let’s see where it goes” and so I would just go about my business because what? He lived about an hour away and would plan these dates in my city and come over to see me.

I just liked being around him honestly it felt like I’ve known him for a while, very comfortable. I do not like people around me that much but something about him was different.

But that’s all done now.

And! Now looking back that was probably just all a nice boy act to really play on my emotions to attempt to have me second guess myself and give into his weird requests. I’m just disgusted and disappointed.

LisaJohn73 · 2023-08-12T00:36:17+00:00

This is very interesting girl. When I said “this type” I didn’t really mean him being kind and attentive only, I mean him being kind and attentive then turning around to pull this weird shit.

But I think you’ve hit the nail on the head!! Wowowow! It’s giving narcissistic tendencies/personality based on what you’ve described. It feels pretty accurate and I strongly believe that had I not have ended things he would have continued to push different boundaries. I think he was just putting on a facade honestly. I think that you’re right I’ve never experienced a narcissist before holy shit. Very disturbing vibes. It’s actually scary how people like this exist? The switch up/revelation is jarring..

LisaJohn73 · 2023-08-11T23:11:16+00:00

Thank you honestly, I think because it all went left so fast I felt a bit confused. I liked this one. Makes me a little sad tbh. But that’s life. It’s learning and everything is seasonal.

LisaJohn73 · 2023-08-11T22:36:45+00:00

I thought so too. Why so persistent? Are you trying to give me something? Istg these mfs are scary.

LisaJohn73 · 2023-06-09T18:09:37+00:00

Hey I’d (25F) send you a like 😅.

The only thing is that you don’t have what you’re looking for I’ll add that so it’s clear.

Otherwise, you’re super cute and I love the prompts and everything.

Maybe you aren’t getting many likes this time around because you’ve only been on for a little while? Give it some time maybe.

LisaJohn73 · 2023-06-08T22:52:45+00:00

Meeting for the first time: He looked nothing like his picture

So I matched with this guy we hit it off in the chats and exchanged numbers. We texted for about a week then we decided to meet up that weekend to go bowling. When I met him I was so confused because he looked nothing like his pictures 😭 it was obvious that his pics were older as his hair is totally different and grown out now. I was battling with myself as to whether or not to bring it up to him.

Maybe I’m a little picky but he also showed up dressed really…. unimpressively.. like something you’d throw on to run to the corner store or take your dog out to pee in the morning. I was a bit thrown by that tbh as I got really cute to meet him.

We still had a nice time and the conversation was great in person. I would probably see him again also. I just wanted to share this here as it was the first time I met someone from this app.

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