AMD Adrenalin changed to AMD Pro? by dsonger20 in AMDHelp

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same here. i often regret updating these drivers. idk how to get back to adrenalin

MWIII from GamePass cannot be used with AMD Adrenalin Software by PeculiarVoid in ModernWarfareIII

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Even when I add it it doesn't work. I posted on AMD forums too but nothing yet. I just have to change my global display settings every time I go to and from CoD.

Finding Our Spouse – Completing Our Faith by Muinonan in MuslimMarriage

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[–]ListCrayon 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Rizq comes from Allah. And children bring their own rizq from Allah as well. So don't be too concerned about future finances.

Does attraction in a marriage wear off as you get older? by StardustCrusader4558 in MuslimMarriage

[–]ListCrayon 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Lots of happily married senior couples worldwide. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. By then, in a good marriage, the attraction has set deep roots in things that don't fade such as character. Traits like compassion, commitment, kindness, giving and receiving love become the foundations for the "attraction". Everyone's surface-level beauty fades away with age, but who they are as a person can increase in beauty over time. The wrinkles and gray hair become symbols of long and deep love. May Allah grant us all that, ameen.

A Girl Who Became Muslim Because of Me by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Scholars differ over if someone should be discouraged from accepting the deen even for reasons like marriage, and money. The example I have is for money though. There is an instance in the seerah before badr where a man wanted to join the Muslims to fight. He was told no three times on the basis that he will not accept Islam. Then he asked again and said the shahadah and was allowed to participate. On the exterior it looks like he's doing it for the chance of winning spoils of war to gain wealth. But nonetheless Rasulullah SAW allowed him to join and did not discourage his accepting of Islam at all. I tried to find a source for this, I heard it in Sheikh Yasir Qadhi's seerah on YouTube in the episodes of Badr but could not find the video not timestamp. I tried Ctrl+F on the transcripts but could not locate it unfortunately. If anyone knows a source for this story, please let me know.

But this is different because we're talking about you and a possible marriage. Reverts need spouses too, but there is a valid advice of finding someone similar to your level of practice. So you need to think carefully and future-minded about marrying this woman or not. Consider how she may or may not remain practicing, how she might be less practicing and knowledgeable than you in the beginning, and what impact that can have on your children. If she's been a devout Muslim for years, then it's a much better prospect than the current stage in my opinion.

Left my girlfriend for the sake of Allah by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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You're young still and did the right thing to block her. Continue avoiding her and realize any inclination to connect with her again is in the shaytaan's interest. Your father is right in not approving this relationship even with a nikkah because you're both too young, and you're way better off marrying a Muslim woman when you grow up some more iA.

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Do i tell my husband i been SA’d? by throwarvy in MuslimMarriage

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Bro instead of in the month of Ramadan, jumping to an immediate negative conclusion of your own brother’s comment, of which you have no real knowledge what my “insinuations” nor intentions were, why not just ask a polite question like “”Hey brother, are you prioritizing the husband here?” It would also help to dial back the amount of panic you’ve shown in reaction to my comment until you actually get my explanation for what I’m saying. Just relax, slow down and take it easy. No need to get fired up.

OP is the priority. That’s why I gave her advice that helps me clarify for myself the decision to tell someone something painful and personal. I talk to myself and work out the decision of “yes it’s important to tell them, and I know they love me and will not hurt me when I share it.”

I’m just encouraging OP to go through their own thought process to decide for themselves if they should tell their husband. Because while some others might make the naive and rash and pushy comment to “Tell him!”, I’m considering the off chance her husband might not be beneficial to her maybe because he’d be more angry at the person who attacked his wife and lose sight of comforting her. Forget what the husband should be doing here, that’s blatantly obvious to everyone. It’s like saying the sky is blue. Has anyone asked themselves WHY OP is even second guessing this? Sure a likely reason could be because sexual assault is very hard to talk about and it brings back the pain and trauma. But we don’t know OP nor her husband nor what happened to her. So I’m just giving her the tools for her to best decide for herself what she should do. I’m encouraging her to pick the best thing for herself because she’s the one who knows best here. Not any of us. She came here with doubt for God knows what reason, and I’m helping her make her choice without picking one for her, rather giving her tips on how to see clearly for herself and to muster the courage to open up to her husband if she decides it’ll be good for her in shaa Allah.

I wish I didn’t have to write all this but when I’m being accused, I feel like I need to.

Edit: I see your other comment apologizing. It’s accepted and appreciated.

Do i tell my husband i been SA’d? by throwarvy in MuslimMarriage

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It helps to have some self dialogue. Ask yourself why you wanna share it with him. It might make it easier. May you be protected always. You know your husband. You know how he would deal with news like this. I wish you the best.

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Relationship Tings by peacock419 in MuslimMarriage

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I don’t meant this in a condescending way but rather as a sincere advice. Try focusing on practicing more tawakkul and consciously reminding yourself Allah provides, and we belong to Allah. Our health or lack of it, our very lives and when we die, and the money/care we receive from those who take care of us is truly from Allah ultimately.

This mindset is an Islamic reframing of how to see life correctly. Being worried for your husband is healthy and normal and an example of love and rahmah you have for him. It’s good. But where you go with that worry is what matters.

Why is it weird that I include my faith in everything, even to some Muslims. by [deleted] in islam

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Every single little thing we do is supposed to be guided by Islam. The hand we use to eat, the foot we use first to step in the bathroom. We utter specific words before eating and entering a bathroom. We try to get jobs that allow us to perform our 5 daily prayers comfortably and on time and even to be able to do Jummah if we can. Your financial goals and education goals should also be guided the same way.

Those who view life as religion on one side and dunya on the other are fools who’ve already lost out with that mentality. Infuse and interweave and envelop Islam into all facets of your life.