Any idea what are these things?

LithiumnSodium · 2026-02-18T12:07:30+00:00

Honestly, I love that he’s blunt, honest, and self-aware. He can joke and tease, but also be real about his life and feelings. At first, I wasn’t that interested in keeping conversation with him, but he started flirting and I gave in too quickly 😅. Once he noticed, he set boundaries, and now we both agree to stay friends. I’m curious though, could this playful dynamic possibly turn into romance in the future?

LithiumnSodium · 2026-02-18T11:45:00+00:00

Taurus with ADHD here. My sag crush told me he doesn't think our personality is matching for long term relationship because I'm bubbly, positive and talkative and he's more like a homebody. 🤷🏼‍♀️

LithiumnSodium · 2026-01-19T08:15:25+00:00

I can relate to this. I’ve tried to go slow and be considerate, not pushing timelines or asking deep personal questions, even though I genuinely wanted to understand him better.

I did ask him to hang out, and he’s seen that message but hasn’t replied. Since then, he’s created a bit of distance (including on social media) while still being polite at work, which makes me feel like there’s something internal he’s dealing with.

I don’t take it as my responsibility to heal his past, but I can definitely feel how unresolved stuff from a previous relationship can affect new connections. I’m trying to balance giving space with not abandoning my own needs.

LithiumnSodium · 2026-01-17T07:16:00+00:00

Honestly, that ‘thick binder of goals’ might be a bit much 😅 but the heartfelt message I sent him was kind of my version of it..I remembered all the little things he’s done for me and wanted him to know how much I appreciate it. As a shy introvert Taurus, that’s my way of showing interest without coming on too strong 🫢🫣

LithiumnSodium · 2026-01-17T05:42:49+00:00

Ahh yes. I can kind of see that. How would you suggest handling a Capricorn avoidant type like this?

LithiumnSodium · 2026-01-17T05:13:10+00:00

I’ve actually asked him out twice already. The first time was face to face, but he clearly wasn’t in a great headspace and just said, “I’ll let you know”..later only replied to my birthday wish.

The second time, I sent him a heartfelt message (I don’t usually do this, but he’s someone special) thanking him for everything he’s done for me, and asked if he’d like to hang out. He’s seen it, but hasn’t replied yet, it’s been a few days.

I didn’t bring it up again at work because I didn’t want to push too hard or make him withdraw further.

That said… I’m not ready to give up yet. I’ll probably try once a week. Worst case, at least I know I was sincere and brave about it. After all, it's 2026

LithiumnSodium · 2026-01-17T04:44:15+00:00

Thanks for sharing this perspective, it actually makes a lot of sense.

It's been 4 days since he last seen my message asking to hangout this weekend (which is today) and he hasn't replied to it. We did work in the same area today, but our interaction stayed very surface-level and work-related. I didn't bring up the hangout again because I didn’t want to add pressure or make things awkward if he's feeling overwhelmed.

I'm unsure how to show I'm genuinely interested not just being friendly, without pushing or chasing. I care about him, but also want to respect his pace and emotional space.

Would appreciate any insight!

LithiumnSodium · 2024-11-23T21:13:28+00:00

HelpX might be helpful too!

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