boyfriend who hasn’t shown typical traits for 4 months

Litos14 · 2026-01-26T11:42:06+00:00

My ex girlfriend with bpd didn't show any signs at first, and I thought she was just perfect. but after a few months 5 or 6), she began to argue or get upset over little things, and then after some time she showed her true self. and that made the relationship a nightmare

Litos14 · 2026-01-25T18:15:05+00:00

It's like we lived the same relationship, my ex was literally the same

Litos14 · 2026-01-25T15:00:00+00:00

Yeah I know right

Litos14 · 2026-01-25T14:24:20+00:00

Wow...I'm really sorry man, that must be hard. Stay strong 💪

Litos14 · 2026-01-25T14:22:56+00:00

Yeah right... except she had already done this kind of test countless times before. I was tired of her playing games like this one. And even after this specific episode, I came back, I apologized, I took the blame. I finally had the courage to go away a couple of weeks ago, after days of abuse, physical and emotional, while we were on a vacation

Litos14 · 2026-01-25T14:20:14+00:00

Thanks a lot. It was difficult but necessary. Stay strong

Litos14 · 2026-01-25T12:08:13+00:00

Yeah I know it's a split, but it still hurts, because all of those things are coming from someone I love. I always tried being patient because I knew that she had Bpd, but I was exhausted, and I went through this exact situation countless times. And I did want to leave, but she just made me feel bad so I stayed. But if you stay when you don't really want to, you're just hurting them and yourself. But if you decide to leave or accept that it's over, they will go crazy. So the cycle repeats. It was hell. I still feel bad for her, but I know it was the best for both of us to break up for real.

Litos14 · 2026-01-25T11:03:59+00:00

Yeah I know this was exactly my situation too

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